Wife of murdered US army veteran Chuks Okebata who was killed by alleged assassins in Imo state has shared her own side of the story saying she didn't kill her husband.

This is coming after her sister in law shared heartbreaking videos of her threatening to get her husband jailed this morning that sparked an outrage and made many Nigerians think she has a hand in her husband's death.
Read her statement below:

My own side of the story
Amanda, I once came to you about my husband and his incessant abuse and cheating. Yes I am the wife of the man who was assassinated, and I am just distraught.

I do not even know where to start but it is only right I tell my own side of the story. I am innocent, God is my witness that I did not kill my husband or the evil that my husband’s family is portraying me to be, yes my sister in-law posted that video to make me look evil but the part she did not tell anybody was that I was calling the police to save me because he always beat me up and I was told to call the police whenever he started and that was exactly what I was doing, from the video you would see that I did not fight him or answered him.

Should I have allowed him to kill me?

We have been married for 13 years since I was 19, it has been beating upon beating, I have gone through surgeries because of beating he gave me. How can I kill my husband, we live together, till the day he left for Nigeria, I packed his things , how could I kill him. Who do I know to order a hit on the father of my children?

I have no interest in his properties as suggested after all we built every thing together. God knows I am innocent. I know who I am married to, he is a show off and he went to Nigeria and was going to club spraying dollars and showing off, revealing his locations . They want to pin my husband’s death on me, my husband was not assassinated.

He was kidnapped, because he is a military man he is always with a gun and when he shot to death one of the kidnappers,they shot him. Why is my family leaving out information about what happened and pinning it on me?

I never threatened him to kill him, I am a working woman with a paying job and have no reason to kill him because of properties . All I just want is peace to mourn and raise my children. You can confirm my story from those people in my home town.

My husband was careless in a country with high rate of crime and was kidnapped, if he had not shot one of the robbers all we would have been talking about is paying ransom not death. Why would I kill the father of my kids, why would I choose his death over a divorce if things were that bad.

I have two boys, who will help me raise them? I am completely innocent of all the allegations. I have endured all this years through his beating and cheating and I did not leave or kill him, why would I do it now? All I ask is that I am left to mourn in peace and the killers found and prosecuted.
See pictures of my husband spraying dollars at the club in Owerri.He even live streamed it showing his exact location

Nne biko help me
I’m an innocent victim here
I love my husband and I’m still in tears
I’m mourning him and people are accusing them wrongly.My children are crying daily.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/01/i-did-not-kill-my-husband-chuks.html

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Before Chuks Okebata's death, he and his wife were having very serious marital issues over alleged incessant cheating from him.
Chuks' wife had cried out to let the world know her husband was cheating and throwing it in her face.

Chuks had naked pictures of a lot of women, their faces are all showing and obviously they posed for those pictures and he sent them to his wife and was bold enough to defend his cheating by saying he was not getting satisfied at home and that the women had bigger booty than his wife.

See the snapshots below.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/01/update-chuks-okebata-was-allegedly.html?m=1

Watch the videos of her threatening to send him to jail here - http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/01/videos-chuks-okebata-wife-threatening-jail.html?m=1

Below is Chuks' last Facebook post - Love life..

Something tells me the woman is hiding something.

Nothing pains a woman like a cheating spouse she will go any length to get even.
If you must cheat be smart enough to cover ur tracks well

Sad

So who killed him? Me?

dead men don't talk

They should leave the woman alone joor

Booked

The guy died out of carelessness


The wife has a lot of explanations to make


The sister in law is part of the hawks circling to feed on the man's carcass (wealth)


Nigeria police will give justice to the highest bidder


Is it a crime to enjoy your money anyway you want? How come the man has a lot of dollars to spray around because last time i checked US Marines don't automatically become Bill Gates or Buffet



As for me, Not my concern though i learnt something that will still help me in my remaining sojourn on this earth

Fedayeen02:
The guy died out of carelessness


The wife has a lot of explanations to make


The sister in law is part of the hawks circling to feed on the man's carcass (wealth)


Nigeria police will give justice to the highest bidder


Is it a crime to enjoy your money anyway you want? How come the man has a lot of dollars to spray around because last time i checked US Marines don't automatically become Bill Gates or Buffet



As for me, Not my concern though i learnt something that will still help me in my remaining sojourn on this earth

It is not a crime to enjoy your money but doing that in Nigeria openly in the club with the state of insecurity, kidnappings, unresolved murders is not right, whenever l come to Nigeria, l go on a low profile, l am careful, cautious of where l go, l avoid hanging out nor clubbing, l try as much as l can to be discreet, l rarely sleep in my personal house , l do all this for my personal safety.

A guy arrived few years ago from Switzerland, was eating somewhere at Ikeja, robbers entered and shot him dead, safety, caution, low -profile, dont open up to anybody, watch your back, watch where you eat, where you hangout, watch, watch and watch your environment & surroundings is the key and above all be prayerful to God because safety is in the hands of the LORD but that does not rule out the fact that we have to play our path and be careful, Rip to the guy..

Facts are revealing its self let for those train in reading between the line to deduces real facts . One revealing question who told her that he was killed because he shot one kidnapper ?

The guy obviously has mental problems. Sending nude pictures of women you are cheating on your wife with to your wife. And then threatening to even post your wife and mother of your kids nude pictures online. The guy was completely mad, and called for his own death by being careless, spraying dollars in a club in Nigeria. The woman too is crazy for taking beating for 13yrs. Why won't they blame his death on her. It's not normal to stay with someone like that, any normal person will expect you to snap one day. Both of them are both mad people.

That woman is a bad excuse of a wife . I watched the video where she was threatening her husband with arrest and jail if he fail to leave their house in 2 minutes ( The man said the house is his and he can't leave for her).



Which kind woman will send his husband out of his house even when the man did not make any attempt in touching her. I wonder where she want him to leave to.


She eventually call-in the cops to take his husband away in the presence of their children and her Sister.



I am not saying she killed her husband o but that woman is a real excuse of a bad wife. Imagine coming to Nigeria to marry and take you to America and you end sending me out of my house?



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Luckylife:
Facts are revealing its self let for those train in reading between the line to deduces real facts . One revealing question who told her that he was killed because he shot one kidnapper ?

People are already castigating the man without any traces of the so-called nude pix.


Even if the man is cheating on the woman is killing him the next thing ?

I bliv shz innocent

What motive dose she have to kill her husband??

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Some women dont need marriage at all

Big guy RIP

kayzat:
That woman is a bad excuse of a wife . I watched the video where she was threatening her husband with arrest and jail if he fail to leave their house in 2 minutes ( The man said the house is his and he can't leave for her).



Which kind woman will send his husband out of his house even when the man did not make any attempt in touching her. I wonder where she want him to leave to.


She eventually call-in the cops to take his husband away in the presence of their children and her Sister.



I am not saying she killed her husband o but that woman is a real excuse of a bad wife. Imagine coming to Nigeria to marry and take you to America and you end sending me out of my house?



https://mobile.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1593378294022186&id=100000500938066&refid=17&_ft_=top_level_post_id.1593378294022186%3Atl_objid.1593378294022186%3Athid.100000500938066%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1485935999%3A-8689672391110133677

Get out of your local Nigeria way of thinking. Is it because most of our women here are afraid to enforce their right?
Once you are legally married and your spouse cheats you have the right to file for divorce and claim that which is jointly owned. Especially where kids are involved. Except agreed otherwise. That's why abroad when a man cheats his wife kicks him out!
Some women are even doing here in naija. A judge recently ordered a man to leave the house he built for his wife and pay a certain amount monthly for the upkeep of the kids and alimony. RIGHT HERE IN PH!

I smh for dos who always accusing wife of killing her husband

The vultures have already started gathering for his properties.

What a shame

who come kill Mazi okebata now

proper investigation will reveal the culprits. they should stop pointing fingers.

baby124:
The guy obviously has mental problems. Sending nude pictures of women you are cheating on your wife with to your wife. And then threatening to even post your wife and mother of your kids nude pictures online. The guy was completely mad, and called for his own death by being careless, spraying dollars. The woman too is crazy for taking beating for 13yrs. Why won't they blame his death on her. It's not normal to stay with someone like that, any normal person will expect you to snap one day. Both of them are both mad people.

A big shout out to dos who always sum for us dat can't read long epistle

The lesson I'm learning from this is that we should always watch our utterances. Regardless of the provocation or who you are complaining to, just watch what you say. Many innocent people have gone to prison over the words and threats they made in anger. May God help us.

Hmmmmm... my own is that i'm just wondering why a woman will continue to stay in an abusive marriage. Since 19yrs fa

kayzat:
That woman is a bad excuse of a wife . I watched the video where she was threatening her husband with arrest and jail if he fail to leave their house in 2 minutes ( The man said the house is his and he can't leave for her).



Which kind woman will send his husband out of his house even when the man did not make any attempt in touching her. I wonder where she want him to leave to.


She eventually call-in the cops to take his husband away in the presence of their children and her Sister.



I am not saying she killed her husband o but that woman is a real excuse of a bad wife. Imagine coming to Nigeria to marry and take you to America and you end sending me out of my house?



https://mobile.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1593378294022186&id=100000500938066&refid=17&_ft_=top_level_post_id.1593378294022186%3Atl_objid.1593378294022186%3Athid.100000500938066%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1485935999%3A-8689672391110133677

that happens in like 60% of Nigerian marriages in the US... No data to support that though. But what she did wasn't strange

shortgun:
Something tells me the woman is hiding something.

Nothing pains a woman like a cheating spouse she go any length to get even.
If you must cheat be smart enough to cover ur tracks well

That something should also tell you what she is hiding