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Virginity Is Not The Pride Of A Woman by Fajs: 10:48pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
VIRGINITY IS NOT THE PRIDE OF A WOMAN.
Virginity is not the pride of a woman, unless
it is connected to a good personality. We
have a lot of ill mannered virgins who lack
morals; They masturbate, they watch porn,
they even do same sex, They steal, they lie,
they are not just born again. You might seek
to ask, how possible it is to be a Virgin and
still lack morals? Yes it is very possible cos
morality isn't all about outward gestures.
Real morality begins in the heart. Possible to
be a virgin but always lusting.
Come to think of it, Some people are not
virgins cos of the right reasons. They are still
virgins cos they have restriction and cannot
fulfil their sexual dreams. Hence they remain
unbroken, but their state of mind is already
bastardized.
Virginity is not the pride of a woman.
Character is.
Cos we have so promoted that virginity is
the pride of a woman, a lot of girls commit
suicide after loosing their virginity cos they
believe that they can never worth anything.
Please, in as much as having sex is wrong,
its also wrong for us to say sex makes
people worthless. Maybe it does, but not
wise to exaggerate it.
A lot of girls are forced to feel worthless cos
they've been told that to lose their virginity
means to lose all it takes to me a woman,
which is gibberish. You don't lose all when
you lose your virginity. And I don't seek to
use this message to encourage randiness.
Sex should be avoided till marriage, but if
you've done it, it doesn't disqualify you as a
good woman.
Virginity is not the pride of a woman.
Character is.
Do you not know that some virgins will go
to hell?
Do you not know that its possible to lose
your virginity and still end up in heaven?
Virginity doesn't mean purity in all cases.
Purity transcends physical intimacy. Purity is
deeper than not having your Hymen broken.
Virginity is good, but its never a criteria to
determining a good woman. 'Are you a
Virgin'? Won't be among the first 10
questions I'll ask any woman I'll settle to
marry. Even if she used to be a prostitute, I
think I won't eat her Hymen, having her
Hymen intact won't make our marriage
fluffy.
Marriage is a result of the connection of two
purpose driven people. And realistically,
sometimes we become purpose driven after
committing woes in the past. And so?
Why should people's past determine their
current worth?
If you think a man will marry cos you are
only a Virgin, You are on the longest thing
ever. Make sure your virginity transcends the
sexual own, let it touch emotional virginity,
Social Virginity, Religious virginity, Mental
virginity, And virginity of all other facets of
life.
You are a Virgin doesn't mean you are good,
But you can be good after losing your
virginity.
Virginity is not the pride of a woman.
Character is.
But then if she has virginity and character,
It'll be very great.
Please, I bear no responsibility if after
reading this, you encourage yourself to start
messing around. I am innocent and not an
influence to your actions. Keep being a
virgin. If you have lost Yours, it doesn't
mean you are worthless.
Abstinence should be your drive.
Please share, because many are outside there
waiting for this meaning and thoughtful
message. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Is Not The Pride Of A Woman by Masonic(m): 10:55pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
I congrats to my big bro! Dude just decided to settle down after decades of philandering! I'm so proud of him OP, sorry. I just can't help the joy Im feeling. I'm having one more can of this good stuff before heading home! God bless that doctor's heart, she finally made an honest man out of a chronic playa! I'm next! |
Re: Virginity Is Not The Pride Of A Woman by Nobody: 10:58pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
Who is a virgin sef? |
Re: Virginity Is Not The Pride Of A Woman by DozieInc(m): 10:59pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
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Re: Virginity Is Not The Pride Of A Woman by NaeChris: 11:05pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
Words from a disvirgined fellow. See this one, dey there dey give yoursef mumu nkasiobi. Abeg virgins i raise cap for una. RESPECT. 3 Likes |
Re: Virginity Is Not The Pride Of A Woman by Jaynom(m): 11:14pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
There is no correlationship between virginity and a successful marriage/relationship. I've met a handful of virgins with UGLY personalities. And there are millions of non-virgins that are good people. At the end of the day it's not about virginity or beauty, it's about personality. I can't kill myself |
Re: Virginity Is Not The Pride Of A Woman by lekjons(m): 11:35pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
Keep giving yourself hope 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Is Not The Pride Of A Woman by debsjoat(m): 11:53pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
Well booking space for later comments... If you tend and manage to keep been intact as a Virgin, lucky for you cos its one form of abstinence and been true to yourself and your religion(tradition too). But comparing virginity to Character is a total different ball game. This topic is only going to leave the non-firm virgin option to want to lose it. Leave character alone abeg. To the Virgins that already knows how to masturbate and ease themselves: That's another field again. It is normal for human being to get turned on by by just reaction to room temperature(do your researches properly and get to know medically what brings about that) as of this process, you start dealing with you mind for absolute control. But, tell me how many people has that much strength to fight and militate against mind battle; as mind battle alone is a field of mines and missile. And at that moment they start grinding thighs together till they reach a satisfying orgasm.... And some just want to get it over with(just to forget the foreign pressure on them) by applying hands and some other things. OP, this action of theirs does not change the fact that they are good a person. Virgins are virgins(be it masturbated or other...) they have their personal relationship with God. David shagged his soldiers wife, but still knows how to please God . This is not also a stanz for anyone to start messing around, we carry different grace abeg. Leave virgins alone. You can advice them on Character building... Not all human are perfect. Build yourself in the most .... Lot of things to be said, I rest my (thumbs from typing) case!!!.... @lalasticalilala |
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