For one who has been rumoured to have found a man who loves her and ready to marry her, this is a salvo to men!

The divorced mother of two teenagers, Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo shared her thoughts on cheating husbands on her Instagram handle today, January 21.

Advising women, she wrote:

[i]“Ladies, Not every man who cheats on u is bad! it's in their nature to cheat as every man has a bit of it deposited in them. He may love u but still cheat on u, as long as he respect, care n keeps it far away from u. it's a twisted world my dear but that's just d fact. if u find one who doesn't cheat on u then u are blessed but A man who makes u feel less of ur self, a man who enjoys seeing u beg n wail, a man who doesn't care if u fall into depression a million times until U run mad, a man who makes u feel like nothing, a man who throws ur love back 2 ur face @ every given opportunity, a man who feels u are so unattractive that he doesn't want to take u out anymore giving u that low self esteem, a man who never appreciate anything u do for him, a man who feels ur opinion doesn't count, a man who feels u shld be seen n not heard, a man who feels without him u are nothing, a man who will only have u when he wants u, a man who doesn't fight for u, a man who condemns u to his friends n side chicks, a man who looks @ u with so much irritation, a man who flaunts his side chick in front of u, a man who is physically & mentally abusive towards u n sometimes ur kids, a Man U have to always beg to perform his manly duty b4 he agrees to touch u! That man is so bad n so wrong 4 u, stop asking me what shld I do? Oh the society n my friends will mock me, oh my kids! Hello woman, wake up he doesn't love you, stop looking for excuses for him, his love was never real in d first place, Mrs is not a do or die matter, ur happiness shld always come first, u shld always come first, it's only when u are in the right frame of mind that u can take gud care of ur kids. For the record, mothers who vent their anger on their kids for failed husband issues shld stop it! No be them send u message, u made d choice n it turned out wrong, u can always make it right without him! u either die trying or take a reality check n walk out! it's never too late! If u stay in it well - all d best! Its a lost battle n u are on ur own. Ur happiness must always come first if u truly want to live for ur kids n urself.” (sic)
#strongwomen #strongmothers #strongwomensupportingrealwomen
[/i]
https://kemiashefonlovehaven..com.ng/2017/01/iyabo-ojo-throws-shade-at-cheating.html

I wonder how almost all Nigerian celebrities are relationship experts giving pieces of advice

What she wrote is truth though

Adam didn't cheat on Eve. Abi because no female den?

Marriage...... when you get in, you understand its not play play or Diego&Paloma. Marriage na continuous work abeg.
Its easier to be married to my football club for 30years (with utmost loyalty), come to think of it cheating in football is when you watch another clubs match ahead of your club, but at the end of the day, there is mutual understanding.