Lawlahdey:
That is absolutely ridiculous.. Who does that?

Anyways OP, you have to be a man and stamp your foot down. Stop helping her with anything at all.

Calm down princess

multikolour:
@ OP, which work do you do for a living?
which work do your wife do for a living?
who provide for the house the more?

I asked this question because from your narration you do most of the house chore, like washing her clothes, sweeping and bathing the baby.

you also agreed to cook the soup but you declined because you have forgotten how to, if not you will have.
from the look of things she control you and every thing in the house, sorry I don't know what to say to bring solution to your problem because you gave us little information.

He talks like a cry baby

Aderola15:

You want to marry him

Love can happen anywhere lol.
You this girl...where have you been?

tillaman:
Keep tolerating her and keep praying to God to help soften her hardened heart and believe it's gonna happen

Not likely. Women have no conscience. Once a woman feels she has nothing to gain from you, she turns a devil. ANY good thing you get from a woman, you got it because she still feels she has something to gain from you. This could be money, sex, fame, whatever. Not out of the goodness of her heart. This applies to all women.

Aderola15:

Calm down princess

Lol.. It's infuriating nah

montezz:

Love can happen anywhere lol.
You this girl...where have you been?

Hehehehe
Uncle Lummy must see this
School ma'am, been busy with exams nii oooo

may God deliver All men from these end time wives in the recession.

bros, if she is not willing to obey you, please leave the house chores and cooking for her and start eating outside,by extension look for a reliable side chick cos she will close bother, the moment you changed towards her.

Aderola15:

Hehehehe
Uncle Lummy must see this
School ma'am, been busy with exams nii oooo

Lmao. You no well.

Someone told me jare. How was the exam?
When will I see you again?
We need to talk

lilmax:
divorce is the way my brother

ur a wicked adviser.

MamaTej:
No one is allow to judge until we've heard the two sides of the story.

Thank you.

Oya, go ahead and tell us your own side so we can judge. Your 'husband' has told us his.

squod:

He talks like a cry baby

I think he did not study up to masters degree that's why he sees her MSC like something extra ordinary

I don't understand. What is she doing that she can't cook? If it's the baby that is hindering her, why can't she have you watch over the baby while she cooks. There's no offense in you helping her occasionally, you are a good man for that but I wonder why she's insisting you cook and causing trouble with it. Weird!

BrownCookie:
What kinda work does she do that you will be the one who wakes up by 5am to do shores?

Does she make the bulk of the income?

I mean, you can help out but this is getting a little too much ie if you are telling the truth in its entirety.

U really need to man up @ poster.

@ bolded, this is what I hate most about Nigerian female mentality.

montezz:

Lmao. You no well.

Someone told me jare. How was the exam?
When will I see you again?
We need to talk

Lol. Shey you know I'm your baby
Been good so far, will finish on Monday.
We really need to ooooo. Infact ehn, have done the unthinkable.
Will you be home on Saturday?

You caused it from the beginning by doing almost everything for her and she sees it as now your responsibility not helping again

She behave like those women who use charm to cage their husbands

Aderola15:

Lol. Shey you know I'm your baby
Been good so far, will finish on Monday.
We really need to ooooo. Infact ehn, have done the unthinkable.
Will you be home on Saturday?

Hmmm.....I'm curious

I will be home. Shey make I dey expect u ni?

This is what you get in reply trying to copy the white men. When you give women so privilege be ready to turn to their houseboy. @ OP, it's time you reset her brain with better slap.

u r a disgrace to real men
u r a big fool.
woman wrapper

how dare u wash your wife dirty pants
and shit
no wonder she can threaten u
wen i af fallen for her ogunmeh.
she has trapped i4 life.

aooow
e don cast

a whole man washing.sweeping..cooking..jus to please your wife.
naso bible talk am abi.
omo my ex try dis shiit with me 2years ago.
i play mumu for 4days..on the 6th day..d kind slap wey she receive ehn.
na d type wey dem dey see florescent afta slap.
no real man..washes his stinking dirty underwear men.
u crazy woman wrapper.
house boi.

I hope your wife will change her ways before she push you out to the warm arms of another woman, and it will be too late by then for her to realize how lucky she is to have somebody like you as a spouse, so all what I can say is to wish you and your family the best, and I hope she come back to her senses before it's too late.

johnson232:

Honestly u are a weak man

lwkmd

Op, from what you narrated herein, sounds stupid to me. How come your wife would wanna boss you around the house to birth the baby, cook, wash her cloth and also sweep the compound? That shows how you made your foundation hence her attitude. Nothing bad helping your wife if she is too stressed out, but it is uncalled for for her to boss you around by directing you to wash her cloth and cook food for her. Nonsense.
Yes, it is a pity you married a wrong woman, but you gave her the room to act. You know her better than I do and as such, stand your feet on the ground and call a spade a spade, unless you have chosen to die young.

Never wash for her or cook for her again.Never sweep outside of your house when she is there.

montezz:

Hmmm.....I'm curious

I will be home. Shey make I dey expect u ni?

Something killed the cat oooo

Yeskeh

Flyingngel:
Pls i will make this very brief. Since when i got married to my wife i have tried to be helpful in the home front but it seem she want to capitalize on that.

She has been doing these many times and i overlook, yesterday own got me mad which i begin thinking if marrying is bad. I came back frm work and she ask me to help her with our baby which i did; but when she came she now told me that i am going to cook the soup, which i told her it has been long i did that rather she can tell what what do - like preparing the ingredients then she will cook. Pls note i wake up everyday by 5am wash d plate, sweep the house and d outside even wash her cloth anything she can't.
Yesterday she said if i don't cook which i stood my ground, then we are going to sleep empty stomach and that was what she did.
My people pls is there any wrong i have done. I am a faithful husband, i assist her in anyway i can but she alway want me to submit to everything she says.
Pls help me with ur opinion because i am weak.

Modified: to those that says am lying, well it is up to you to believe but i need ur opinion. I seldom post since 2012 i registered officially here.

If u are not married, pls pray to whatever God that u serve to give u a woman that understand and respect u no matter the circumstances.

In your house, is the woman the husband and the man the wife; or did you marry your mother? Ayam nuh understanding dith story.

Words on marble, tnx bruh

Rossikki:


Not likely. Women have no conscience. Once a woman feels she has nothing to gain from you, she turns a devil. ANY good thing you get from a woman, you got it because she still feels she has something to gain from you. This could be money, sex, fame, whatever. Not out of the goodness of her heart. This applies to all women.

Aderola15:

Something killed the cat oooo

Yeskeh

Bring the cat along.
I will be expecting you.
Kisses

Women are naturally stubborn, just limit the things u do in the house and find a better work to do cos she is taken u for granted.
It seems that she makes the call the house, like pay bills and get more money than u.
For ur belly know how to feed him either home or away,

nbright:
@ bolded, this is what I hate most about Nigerian female mentality.

Why?

BABA u are a weak soul

Abi na lie I smell in all this?

Flyingngel:
Pls i will make this very brief. Since when i got married to my wife i have tried to be helpful in the home front but it seem she want to capitalize on that.

She has been doing these many times and i overlook, yesterday own got me mad which i begin thinking if marrying is bad. I came back frm work and she ask me to help her with our baby which i did; but when she came she now told me that i am going to cook the soup, which i told her it has been long i did that rather she can tell what what do - like preparing the ingredients then she will cook. Pls note i wake up everyday by 5am wash d plate, sweep the house and d outside even wash her cloth anything she can't.
Yesterday she said if i don't cook which i stood my ground, then we are going to sleep empty stomach and that was what she did.
My people pls is there any wrong i have done. I am a faithful husband, i assist her in anyway i can but she alway want me to submit to everything she says.
Pls help me with ur opinion because i am weak.

Modified: to those that says am lying, well it is up to you to believe but i need ur opinion. I seldom post since 2012 i registered officially here.

If u are not married, pls pray to whatever God that u serve to give u a woman that understand and respect u no matter the circumstances.

.


U r a weakling pls man up n quit being a sisi, very soon she will get a cane for u mumu

I think is high time u sent her bak home on vacation.