Pls I need u guys honest advise abt marriage. Does age really matters in a relationship. I av a frd who is in a relationship, both are even talking abt marriage now but d lady is a year older than her guy, d guy really love and care for d lady alot but dis age issue keep on disturbing my frd mind everyday. Now she is totally confused, don't no wat to do again.

hello,

to answer your question.
"age" is important and also not important for marriage, it depends on the kind of love that is between the two.

how far have the two of them gone? . is their love sacrificial.?

you talked about the guy loving the lady,? is the lady also loving the guy in same passion.

ask the lady on what reason will she "accept" to divorce her husband if they get married.

the truth of the matter is that if their love in not strong, the issue of age will be a problems. most ladies for get the vow they made to their life-intending mate (I'm not talking of the one done in the church altar), but the one two of them agreed with each other.

here the Lady will need to respect her husband when married, if she cannot surrender her ego, it will be a problem.

if a lady want to see if she can respect her husband when she get married (now that she is yet to marry), ask her to start washing her intended husband briefs (boxers, ) whenever it is dirty, if she feels bad or ashamed, pls she should not go ahead,
a lady needs submission to win/build a successful marriage of which respect is part of it.

I'm married , my wife is 4 months younger than me.


During days of strong mix understanding, if she doesn't know how to hold her tongue, she might insult her hubby with age taunts.

(there will always be misunderstanding).

hope u picked something useful from my piece.
all the best

yenimork:
Pls I need u guys honest advise abt marriage. Does age really matters in a relationship. I av a frd who is in a relationship, both are even talking abt marriage now but d lady is a year older than her guy, d guy really love and care for d lady alot but dis age issue keep on disturbing my frd mind everyday. Now she is totally confused, don't no wat to do again.

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hello,
to answer your question.
"age" is important and also not important for marriage, it depends on the kind of love that is between the two.
how far have the two of them gone? . is their love sacrificial.?
you talked about the guy loving the lady,? is the lady also loving the guy in same passion.
ask the lady on what reason will she "accept" to divorce her husband if they get married.
the truth of the matter is that if their love in not strong, the issue of age will be a problems. most ladies for get the vow they made to their life-intending mate (I'm not talking of the one done in the church altar), but the one two of them agreed with each other.
here the Lady will need to respect her husband when married, if she cannot surrender her ego, it will be a problem.
if a lady want to see if she can respect her husband when she get married (now that she is yet to marry), ask her to start washing her intended husband briefs (boxers, ) whenever it is dirty, if she feels bad or ashamed, pls she should not go ahead,
a lady needs submission to win/build a successful marriage of which respect is part of it.
I'm married , my wife is 4 months younger than me.
During days of strong understanding, if she doesn't know how to hold her tongue, she might insult her hubby with age taunts.
(there will always be misunderstanding).
hope u picked something useful from my piece.
all the best

Thank u so much, I gain alot from ur comment.