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| What Do I Say Back? by IMissMyKrn: 10:20pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
Yesterday I was messaged by my ex-girlfriends (and love of my life) new boyfriend, I do not know who gave him my AIM but he messaged me anyways, he asked me what I would say to him, and that's how this conversation started, please read it, though, it is very mean and depressing, (by the way, I am "Meh" and he is "Andrew"  .Meh says: i just want to know that youll be good to her and youll protect her and will never do anything to endanger her, because i swore to her i would keep all those things, if you can pick up great, but if not, Andrew says: This has nothing to do with you answer the question or i have wasted my time and i will just say what i came here to say Meh says: will you keep all of those? as promises? Andrew says: 5 seconds Meh says: on your life Andrew says: 4 3 2 Meh says: thats all i came here for Andrew says: 1 0 Time's up you had you're chance you lose ill just say what i came here to say then you need to stop spouting all those lies they're just you trying to get pity out of everyone well guess what? no one gives a crap if you really DID decide to go commit suicide in fact that would be a benefit to all of human society so why dont you go do the human race a favor and remove yourself from the human gene pool by killing yourself we don't need stupid genes like you in the human gene pool oh wait i forgot you're too much of a coward to even do that you just like to hide behind the lies you make but then you find yourself trapped in those lies Meh says: coward? the only reason i havent hurt you is because angeline likes you Andrew says: so you use more lies to try to break out go ahead kill me Meh says: no i wont Andrew says: ill take you to hell with me ill show you what TRUE despair is Meh says: angeline likes you and i wont screw with that Andrew says: the absolute despair of the univerese there is but ONE being in the universe and yes, that is ME i am the all knowing so come try to kill me i will show you things even more worse than just "death" you commiting suicide is the easiest route out for you commiting suicide is the most narcissistic act that any human can commit so again go ahead and try what you will Meh says: I wont Andrew says: you wont even be able to put a scratch on me Meh says: again,for her i wont and i cant Andrew says: that is just you being a coward again and backing out please come try to do something im asking you to Meh says: if loving her makes me a coward than i am afraid of everything Andrew says: ive experienced things FAR worse than death and meager torture you are lower than the scum of humans you're not even worthy of being called a human you are the scum of all trash in the universe so i ask again PLEASE Meh says: im still not going to fight you, however much fun it would be i wont, she would hate me more than ever Andrew says: come and try to do something ill feel much better knowing that someone else has experienced the experience that i have gone through known as hell you think her hating you is painful? i will send you on a trip of the utmost despair Meh says: it is the only pain Andrew says: compared to that her hating you will feel like the most ecstatic feeling in the world so unless you decide to shut up and stop talking to everyone and do the human race a favor by killing yourself i am done talking to you what did i tell you to stop doing i told you to stop bothering them whatever you wont get anywhere with it please go lop your dick off or something everyone'll be SOOO much happier im sure you will too See what I mean? Thats just not nice, |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by Nobody: 10:29pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
Meh says: i just want to know that youll be good to her and youll protect her and will never do anything to endanger her, because i swore to her i would keep all those things, if you can pick up great, but if not, |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by edoyad(m): 10:31pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
I dont know what to make of the whole thing. Did you really try to kill yourself and please tell what you did to her that made her end it ?  |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
I am sure Andrew is loaded and from the way he spoke to you, he is a bad guy while you are the usual boring dude girls hate. Take heart dear, shit happens! |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by IMissMyKrn: 10:34pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
I didn't make her end it, she dumped me randomly, there's another topic for why she dumped me, noone seems to really know for sure. Whereas this is just, what do i do about this jerk? Also I haven't tried to kill myself, the guy just wants me to |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by IMissMyKrn: 10:36pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
Also, this guy tried to backtrace my IP Address, if I hadn't been on an onion router he would know where I live, he seems very intent on starting a fight. |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by edoyad(m): 10:43pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
Just ignore him is what i'd do. Personally i doubt if i'd fight over a girl friend not to mention an ex who dumped me. You've really got to move on before you change into something you'd hate. It's hard but just try to blank them totally else you'll keep suffering. |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by SisiKill1: 10:45pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
Tee hee hee. . .Nothing more pathetic and funny than two guys acting gangstar online. Why can't one of you challenge the other to a duel and meet in the forest at sun up with guns drawn. . .Ya know, do it like real men instead of Yakking like two old biddies in a nursing home. Jeez! Anyhoo, don't see what else you can say, i mean apart from the fact that you hold no candle to the other when it comes to war of words, it's better to let things go and move on with your life. Did you contact him or he you? I'm not quite clear on that and if you did. . .Why for God's sakes why? All that telling the other guy to take care of her shctick only looks cute in movies. . .Bad ones at that. |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by Luvlgenius(m): 10:47pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
Be mature about it. Don't say anything back. He is afraid d lady might go back to u, so u have a point higher than him, Change ur IP addr. If d threat continues, make a statement at d Police station[color=#000099][/color] |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by IMissMyKrn: 10:50pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
Well, I would LOVE to beat him up in a fight, and I would LOVE to destroy him with my words (Words are my specialty^^) but if I try to retaliate, Then he will use what I've done as further justification for her to never speak to me again, which is why I couldn't fight back even with my voice, And I have many points higher than him, but, if he does start a fight, what should I do? Fight back and ruin my chance with Ang forever? Let him beat me up? |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by edoyad(m): 10:57pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
Sisi kill show sympathy na . @ she's right about that "take care of her line" though. That aggravated his mood i guess |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by IMissMyKrn: 10:59pm On Dec 01, 2009 |
I've been trying to be nice *sigh* I couldn't think of a nicer way to put it, all I ACTUALLY want to do is violent. But I'm above that, so I tried to tell him something nice. Did it backfire? haha I fail. |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by IMissMyKrn: 3:59am On Dec 02, 2009 |
Grr, I'm legitimately scarred he will show up at my house or something |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by SisiKill1: 7:33am On Dec 02, 2009 |
He can't and won't do jack. He's only trying to intimidate you and you gotta ask yourself why? Why is if contacting you? Why is he threatening you? Why he is hell bent on getting you completely out of the picture? Why is he even bothering with you at all? I mean right now, he's seems to be the winner, after all He's got the girl. . . but does he really have her? You needn't be a psychic to answer this. Your rival exhibits the classic signs of someone who's insecure. He doesn't trust her feelings for him and prolly thinks she's still got the hots for you and that my friend good news for you. All you gotta do is sit back, relax and wait for him to shoot himself in the foot. Don't validate him by answering back, ignore the heck outta him, let him keep ranting like a lunatic. I tell you, if he's not getting anything back from you, he's bound to look for validation for his anger elsewhere and the place he'll likely go is to her and trust me, no matter how good looking, wealthy and whatever he is, very few girls can stand an insecure, possessive guy. She's gonna get tired of always having to reassure him. She may even call you, pouring her heart out, if she does, you just be there for her and don't. . .I repeat do not tell her to leave him or tell her you still love her. Let it fall into place naturally. As you can see, It's all mind games. [size=3]I hope that was sympathetic enough  [/size] |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by iice(f): 12:46pm On Dec 02, 2009 |
Sisi_Kill: LMAO. . .concur wholeheartedly. . . *sighs*Gone are the days of guns/swords  |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by smooooooth: 1:02pm On Dec 02, 2009 |
WTF! ow did u guys understand this? |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by kpolli(m): 2:26pm On Dec 02, 2009 |
then catch this guy n Bleep him up, guy u no dey listen to rap? these words from d12, "how can i fear another man, as long as he bleeds like i bleed n he pisses when he stands" sorry for the outburst but guy the world is not for the gentle, u hve to be harsh sometimes, u were literally begging him in the msgs |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by tulk2mi: 4:02pm On Dec 02, 2009 |
dude, she left u 4 him n it wasnt abt wat u did. She's just not feeling u. So even tho he contacted u, y didnt u just ignore him. u treated her d way u r asking him 2 n she still left u, wat makes u think dats d way she wants 2 be treated. if u want 2 vent out ur anger dat she left u, i guess u can do dat but make no mistake abt this even tho u give d guy a kiss she will still not comeback to u SO WAKE UP 4RM UR SLUMBER  |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by IMissMyKrn: 10:17pm On Dec 02, 2009 |
Thank you Sisi-Kill, that message actually helped alot! Because I know that when I was with her I was not insecure! So I hope you're right! I'll admit now I am, but, it's kindof natural to start doubting ones self at this point haha |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by baby4u2(f): 6:05am On Dec 03, 2009 |
So your girl left you for another man? You didnt let us know that in your last topic!!! Anywayz send that chat message to your ex and let her know that her new boy should stay away from you. I would report this threats also to someone close, i know people can be insane this world is funny. Hopefully he is not as crazy as the message cause if i were you, i would find ways to protect myself. I hope we see you posting in the near future, cause i may believe if may have caught you. lol |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by IMissMyKrn: 6:11am On Dec 03, 2009 |
I updated the last topic (I think, and I JUST found out about her going for this guy) and she actually confronted me because she saw the messages and said that I was an "asshole" for saying I would hurt him if not for her. Also, not to sound rude but what do you mean caught me? |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by LordReed(m): 2:08pm On Dec 03, 2009 |
My gosh IMissMyKrn are u still on this issue? U open a whole new thread for this? Are u so obsessed? No wonder he could ask if u wanted to commit suicide. U need to let this go, step back n get on wit living, instead of this obsession dats getting u nowhere! |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by MUZBO(m): 5:39pm On Dec 03, 2009 |
A twisted story of toothless bull dogs fighting over a spineless pidgin. Sue me! |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by IMissMyKrn: 3:39am On Dec 04, 2009 |
I only opened another topic because this one wasn't asking about the same thing, this topic had more to do with my safety from and anger towards Andrew. |
| Re: What Do I Say Back? by LordReed(m): 10:26am On Dec 04, 2009 |
IMissMyKrn: Uh huh. So get over it already man! Sheesh. . . |
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