Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Innodon(m): 7:29am On Feb 01, 2017 |
Noted |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by jericco1(m): 7:29am On Feb 01, 2017 |
They are just findings. Adultery has been going on since time immemorial. |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Kuzee23: 7:30am On Feb 01, 2017 |
Married women and Married men will still cheat tomorrow- they just love it so much.. quickie with secretary , quickie with house boy , quickie with driver , quickie with house maid.. all na quickie these days.. 1 Like |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by information1: 7:31am On Feb 01, 2017 |
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Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by akdjr(m): 7:34am On Feb 01, 2017 |
Food for thought |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Missmossy(f): 7:39am On Feb 01, 2017 |
Makes sense. It is well. 1 Like |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by freeay: 7:41am On Feb 01, 2017 |
Nice one Bro |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by GreatManBee: 7:44am On Feb 01, 2017 |
VastFinder:
Please note that you can avoid adultery in your marriage. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it.
Carelessness is one of the major causes of external affairs in marriage not the devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error. So abide with the following simple rules and you will never fall into adultery.
1. Never make a member of the opposite sex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions.
2. Never be with a member of the opposite $ex at a time your spouse doesn’t know you are there.
3. Never speak evil about your spouse in the presence of anyone. They will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you insincere affections and give you what you lack with your spouse and destroy you.
4. Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife / husband you visited.
5. Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse because affairs thrive in secrecy.
6. Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite $ex, there should be somebody of your $ex you can talk to. Don’t dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.
7. Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from the opposite $ex. They will ask for $ex in return. They are not Father Christmas.
8. Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife. You don’t know what their spouses are enduring at home. What you see outside is just show biz, don’t be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you.
9. Divert all your $exual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.
10. Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other, only faces differ it is the same package.
11. Deal with any $exual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse, kill it before it kills you. $exual error doesn’t begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart.
12. Before traveling have $ex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have $ex until you come back. That decision may save your life and destiny.
13. Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and top imagining what is there. It is stupid, childish and dirty to do that, that’s called lust, what is there isn’t different from what your spouse has, please don’t misbehave sir.
14. Walk in the company of good and Godly men/women. If you keep company with adulterers, you will become adulterous.
15. Discuss your $exual desires with your spouse and let it be met at home, don't hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the best, get it at home.
16. Fill your heart with the word of God always, this will not give lust a chance in your mind.
17. Always count the cost of adultery, don’t just look at the pleasure, look at the pain, loss of integrity, how you will hurt your wife/husband, children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.
18. Always remember that the enjoyment, pleasure and the thrills in $ex is just 8seconds or less, it can not be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trade eternity for 8 seconds, is there wisdom in that?
19. Pray regularly for your spouse and your marriage as well
Finally BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID.
God bless your marriage (Home). Share this until it gets to all married couples. You may be saving a soul or a family.
Source: https://vastfinder..com/2017/01/new-study-on-how-to-avoid-adultery-in.html
lalasticlala, Mynd44, Fynestboi, dominique, ishilove |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by zheroes(m): 7:45am On Feb 01, 2017 |
john4reala: Who wrote this shit may be you are a poo!!! |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by zheroes(m): 7:48am On Feb 01, 2017 |
emmanuel596: Preek is a respecter of no 1 when conji holds some1 he can fu'c'k anything that comes his or her way.... The best way to avoid adultry is to tell your self u wont cheat pray to god and stand your ground you just contradicted yourself bro. |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by cashlurd(m): 7:55am On Feb 01, 2017 |
13 is practically impossible |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Nestoville(m): 7:55am On Feb 01, 2017 |
one of the best and most meaningful posts ive seen in a while. |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Nobody: 7:56am On Feb 01, 2017 |
cashlurd: 13 is practically impossible Damn, let us still try, it can not be done. |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Reyus: 8:02am On Feb 01, 2017 |
Same sex adultery is now happening. OP please revise your post. |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by McLucas(m): 8:04am On Feb 01, 2017 |
The race is not for the Swift, nor the battle for the strong. The lord showeth mercy to the humble. |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Nobody: 8:16am On Feb 01, 2017 |
Unmarried but I don't want a fake marriage sha so I will just talk about how I stay faithful I decided to build all my relationships on God. Trust him completely to have his way. Being young a lot of people assume I have some sponsor one way a lot simply because I am warm and welcoming but I know how to say no and mean it. I refuse rides to front gate and generally anything that will entice me into betraying love. Sometimes even after suffering to stay faithful you may not receive the same level of respect from your partner don't give up pray and if it doesn't cease keep moving your health is wealth |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by kolaish(m): 8:27am On Feb 01, 2017 |
Op, What a Good Write-Up. Most of the broken marriages in our society today is as a result of non-application of the rules you stated above. |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Nobody: 8:33am On Feb 01, 2017 |
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Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Nobody: 8:35am On Feb 01, 2017 |
jesus500: I am not yet married. But you will be..... Within the next decade...... to a lovely Miss nigeria lookalike... |
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Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Heavance(m): 8:41am On Feb 01, 2017 |
Well said. Discipline your mind and mouth, that's the secret. we'll always meet ladies/guy prettier/better on looks than our spouse, but what we see outside could be different from what they are. |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by jesus500(m): 8:45am On Feb 01, 2017 |
9jakohai:
But you will be..... Within the next decade...... to a lovely Miss nigeria lookalike... thanks bro. And you too. If you are still Single |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Nobody: 8:49am On Feb 01, 2017 |
VastFinder:
Please note that you can avoid adultery in your marriage. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it.
Carelessness is one of the major causes of external affairs in marriage not the devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error. So abide with the following simple rules and you will never fall into adultery.
1. Never make a member of the opposite $ex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions.
2. Never be with a member of the opposite $ex at a time your spouse doesn’t know you are there.
3. Never speak evil about your spouse in the presence of anyone. They will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you insincere affections and give you what you lack with your spouse and destroy you.
4. Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife / husband you visited.
5. Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse because affairs thrive in secrecy.
6. Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite $ex, there should be somebody of your $ex you can talk to. Don’t dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.
7. Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from the opposite $ex. They will ask for $ex in return. They are not Father Christmas.
8. Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife. You don’t know what their spouses are enduring at home. What you see outside is just show biz, don’t be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you.
9. Divert all your $exual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.
10. Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other, only faces differ it is the same package.
11. Deal with any $exual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse, kill it before it kills you. $exual error doesn’t begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart.
12. Before traveling have $ex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have $ex until you come back. That decision may save your life and destiny.
13. Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and top imagining what is there. It is stupid, childish and dirty to do that, that’s called lust, what is there isn’t different from what your spouse has, please don’t misbehave sir.
14. Walk in the company of good and Godly men/women. If you keep company with adulterers, you will become adulterous.
15. Discuss your $exual desires with your spouse and let it be met at home, don't hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the best, get it at home.
16. Fill your heart with the word of God always, this will not give lust a chance in your mind.
17. Always count the cost of adultery, don’t just look at the pleasure, look at the pain, loss of integrity, how you will hurt your wife/husband, children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.
18. Always remember that the enjoyment, pleasure and the thrills in $ex is just 8seconds or less, it can not be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trade eternity for 8 seconds, is there wisdom in that?
19. Pray regularly for your spouse and your marriage as well
Finally BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID.
God bless your marriage (Home). Share this until it gets to all married couples. You may be saving a soul or a family.
Source: https://vastfinder..com/2017/01/new-study-on-how-to-avoid-adultery-in.html
lalasticlala, Mynd44, Fynestboi, dominique, ishilove All these are not enough. If you like, read it everyday, recite it like a poem...Pray without season, so you don't enter temptation. |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Aadeyinka(m): 8:51am On Feb 01, 2017 |
VastFinder:
Please note that you can avoid adultery in your marriage. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it.
Carelessness is one of the major causes of external affairs in marriage not the devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error. So abide with the following simple rules and you will never fall into adultery.
1. Never make a member of the opposite $ex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions.
2. Never be with a member of the opposite $ex at a time your spouse doesn’t know you are there.
3. Never speak evil about your spouse in the presence of anyone. They will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you insincere affections and give you what you lack with your spouse and destroy you.
4. Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife / husband you visited.
5. Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse because affairs thrive in secrecy.
6. Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite $ex, there should be somebody of your $ex you can talk to. Don’t dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.
7. Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from the opposite $ex. They will ask for $ex in return. They are not Father Christmas.
8. Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife. You don’t know what their spouses are enduring at home. What you see outside is just show biz, don’t be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you.
9. Divert all your $exual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.
10. Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other, only faces differ it is the same package.
11. Deal with any $exual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse, kill it before it kills you. $exual error doesn’t begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart.
12. Before traveling have $ex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have $ex until you come back. That decision may save your life and destiny.
13. Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and top imagining what is there. It is stupid, childish and dirty to do that, that’s called lust, what is there isn’t different from what your spouse has, please don’t misbehave sir.
14. Walk in the company of good and Godly men/women. If you keep company with adulterers, you will become adulterous.
15. Discuss your $exual desires with your spouse and let it be met at home, don't hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the best, get it at home.
16. Fill your heart with the word of God always, this will not give lust a chance in your mind.
17. Always count the cost of adultery, don’t just look at the pleasure, look at the pain, loss of integrity, how you will hurt your wife/husband, children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.
18. Always remember that the enjoyment, pleasure and the thrills in $ex is just 8seconds or less, it can not be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trade eternity for 8 seconds, is there wisdom in that?
19. Pray regularly for your spouse and your marriage as well
Finally BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID.
God bless your marriage (Home). Share this until it gets to all married couples. You may be saving a soul or a family.
Source: https://vastfinder..com/2017/01/new-study-on-how-to-avoid-adultery-in.html
lalasticlala, Mynd44, Fynestboi, dominique, oishilove good points, easy to read or saying but not totally easy to do also depends on the environment you work daily, I worked at international airport, it takes grace of God to be holly there, above 90 percent corruption everywhere |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by SACI: 9:05am On Feb 01, 2017 |
this is educating 1 Like |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Godiloveu(f): 9:08am On Feb 01, 2017 |
samhay: One of the best have come across on nairaland in recent years. I will assume the poster above me is just kidding Op, good job
Godiloveu, come and see something kikikikikikiki, I am watching u in 5D 1 Like |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Swanzi(m): 9:43am On Feb 01, 2017 |
john4reala: Who wrote this shit Well it may sound poo to you but to some of us it makes real sense. 1 Like |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by NGELEBUBE: 9:49am On Feb 01, 2017 |
No matter how overloaded a bus is,the driver's seat is always reserved. what about Abraham?, he cheated! what about David? he cheated! what about Solomon? he also cheated! and many more in the bible, now I ask....did they make heaven or not ?? seems cheating, adultery or fornication has always been there since creation, I ask again who started it all and who will end it |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Nobody: 9:52am On Feb 01, 2017 |
Some inexperienced people actually think its cool for a married man or woman to remain friends with the opposite sex. To their dismay, this is how cheating starts. u cant cheat wit a stranger, its with someone you already know (like one of dose useless exes). Many wont get it, but this is the cause of many broken marriages. 1 Like |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Nobody: 10:01am On Feb 01, 2017 |
NGELEBUBE: No matter how overloaded a bus is,the driver's seat is always reserved. what about Abraham?, he cheated! what about David? he cheated! what about Solomon? he also cheated! and many more in the bible, now I ask....did they make heaven or not ?? seems cheating, adultery or fornication has always been there since creation, I ask again who started it all and who will end it
there goes someone misinterpreting the bible. u might aswell start cheating if u think its cool. op u know david lost his child as a result of the cheating? abraham heeded to sarai's advice of sleeping with their maid because she couldnt bear a child. God promised abraham a son, but sarai trying to come up with a logical angle to it felt it will be through their maid. from the begining man is designed to have one wife for himself. so dont twist the bible |
Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Lazyreporta(m): 10:26am On Feb 01, 2017 |
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Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Amhappy(f): 11:21am On Feb 01, 2017 |
Good post,God bless you OP. No 14 is so on point. Blessed is the man who walk not in the counsel of the ungodly. |