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The Ghanaian actor shared these wise words
about marriage and relationships on his IG
page.
Read below You should build “YOU” before
you ever
think about building a marriage. “i will die without you.” “i cannot live without you.”
“if you go away, my world will
crumble.” who said these are romantic
statements? Those statements are not
romantic! They reflect an addictive
dependency. instead of being addicted to a substance,
you are addicted to a person. “i need a
man.” “i need a woman.” No!! you need
God!! and you need His holiness. God is
saying, “please get your act together as an
unmarried person. Get your standards and values settled”. if you cannot control your
emotions, your passions, your feelings,
your attitudes, your bad habits or your
behavior as you are single now, then you
are not prepared for marriage. if you need to
get married to be fulfilled or loved, you are not ready for marriage. The very thing
that makes you need to get married will
become the problem in your marriage. Men,
before you go chasing a woman, make
sure she is someone you can chase until death
do you part. Discover yourself first. Know yourself and find yourself through
Christ before you start looking for a
partner. All your secrets and depression
and frustration and baggage and all your
issues. if you look at yourself, you yourself will
not want to take yourself home. Yet you want someone to take you home. i’m
scared of anyone who is impatient for
marriage. Cos u are just a parasite looking
for a host. Be an asset to your partner not a
deficit.
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Source: http://legendarena.ga