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Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by Nobody: 10:50pm On Feb 08, 2017
Come, let us reason together [ Jeremiah chapter something verse something]

What do you think is the predominant cause of break-ups? I simply feel is our ego "thingy". One person feels entitled, slighted, superior and wants to be the one who always gets to say, "Its over between us".

CASE STUDY:
I decided to break up with my girl this evening. However, when I dropped the bombsell, my formerly "conflict-fearing" babe, became all chatty. Long story short, I still have a relationship with her. Why? I had disappointed my over-bloated ego and spoken what I felt wasn't right with me...

Over to you guys... Why did you break up?
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by YUNGLURD(m): 10:51pm On Feb 08, 2017
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Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by Nobody: 10:59pm On Feb 08, 2017
not only ego... their might be other reasons...
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by Nobody: 11:21pm On Feb 08, 2017
Gistedge:
not only ego... their might be other reasons...

Yeah. Most def. other things. But it begins with deep seated ego issues.
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by firstking01(m): 11:30pm On Feb 08, 2017
I discuncur.
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by Nobody: 11:32pm On Feb 08, 2017
I feel the reverse is the case
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by Nobody: 7:55am On Feb 09, 2017
firstking01:
I discuncur.


Lol. Please state your case, Brother...
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by Nobody: 7:56am On Feb 09, 2017
KissChrixx:
I feel the reverse is the case

And the reverse would be?
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by charlesklaus(m): 8:57am On Feb 09, 2017
It could definitely be other things, but definitely ego comes In play to some extent..
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by Nobody: 9:13am On Feb 09, 2017
iamadonis2:


And the reverse would be?

Taking ego into consideration, people will be more reluctant to break up
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by Nobody: 9:58am On Feb 09, 2017
I broke up with mine because his a bloody cheat..
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by LEOVOLUTION(m): 10:06am On Feb 09, 2017
Break-ups can be initiated by lack of mental synchronization between partners. One of them is convinced that he/she needs to quit suffering and move on. Ego is not necessarily the predominant cause.
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by jworos(m): 10:45am On Feb 09, 2017
Ego comes in play not quite often.
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by Nobody: 1:00pm On Feb 09, 2017
rebirthforgoody:
I broke up with mine because his a bloody cheat..

And your ego took a hit. How dare he look at another bloody girl when he's got you?!
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by Nobody: 1:02pm On Feb 09, 2017
jworos:
Ego comes in play not quite often.

Alright, Bro.
Re: Be Honest: Only Ego Initiates A Break-up by Nobody: 1:03pm On Feb 09, 2017
Hasty Generalization undecided

You cannot use one case and a personal one infact, to generalize for every relationship duh undecided

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