She was employed by Diamond Bank like 3 years back. I can't boast of she giving me Over N5,000 since then.

My Dad is retired and bedridden (so he needs diapers and beverages) which she rarely buys.
Our schooling (Me 200L and my Sister - Final Year) all depends on my Mum.

She promised to buy me a new phone as at 2015, till now I'm still using my Itel phone with cracked screen (not that I don't want to change it, but waiting to see what she'll do).

She rarely picks my mum's calls. She only calls to tell us how she lost cash by overpaying customers.


I started blogging in 2013, but since December 2016 I now have a steady income of over N70,000/per month, I can now give my mum some, pay some fees and feed in school.

I've totally forgotten her but my mum keeps shouting at me for such hatred over her.
She came back during Christmas period, not even N100 was given to me!
I'm confused, she's of no use in my life!!!
The latest lie she came back with yesterday is that she overpaid
a customer N40,000.

Chai! N40,000 is a problem for who has been working for over 3 years.
She didn't even give my mum money for anything.

My dad who over-pampered her then is sick now!
Then at age less than 7, I do accuse my dad of hating me because of the kind of things he does for her! But now, She doesn't even care about my dad.


What is wrong?
What do I do?

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I'm the only son, I'm 18years and doing fine. 200L Student

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cc: lalasticlala mynd44
fynestboi missyb3

She is giving the money to a man. Make una look well. A man is using her head. Under Love or religion. Many women sabi waka yeye waka

Get to meet her man!


Relationships have a way of shaping us.

Acidosis:
Get to meet her man!


Relationships have a way of shaping us.

?? I don't get what you mean

iamVirus:

??
I don't get what you mean

Visit your sister, discuss about her relationship and request a meeting with her boyfriend.


This process would be unnecessary if you do not have a discerning spirit. Fck boys, yahoo boys, and the likes are not difficult to discern from afar.

If my guesses are right, then there is nothing you can do than allow her spend her salary and everything she's worth on a man.

On the other hand, do not expect too much from your sister. Not many bankers can cough out money for a brand new phone. Do you even know how much she earns, pay as rent, etc.? You never can tell, you might be richer than your sis. You claimed you make roughly N70k on a monthly basis, that's a lot of money given that you do not pay tax, t-fare, etc., to blog! Some people spend that amount to get to work and feed in one month just to earn a little above N100,000.

You folks should get to know more about your sister. Care about her, visit her, and do your best. Until you do these, learn to criticize less.

Just so you know, it is wrong to criticize her because she's worked with a bank for 3 years. Not all bankers earn heavily. Those who do spend heavily on services, etc.

Nigerians can imagine things, do u know how ur sister survives every month. Ur here listing all your problems as if she got no problems.

iamVirus:
She was employed by Diamond Bank like 3 years back. I can't boast of she giving me Over N5,000 since then.

My Dad is retired and bedridden (so he needs diapers and beverages) which she rarely buys.
Our schooling (Me 100L and my Sister - Final Year) all depends on my Mum.

She promised to buy me a new phone as at 2015, till now I'm still using my Itel phone with cracked screen (not that I don't want to change it, but waiting to see what she'll do).

She rarely picks my mum's calls. She only calls to tell us how she lost cash by overpaying customers.


I started blogging in 2013, but since December 2016 I now have a steady income of over N70,000/per month, I can now give my mum some, pay some fees and feed in school.

I've totally forgotten her but my mum keeps shouting at me for such hatred over her.
She came back during Christmas period, not even N100 was given to me!
I'm confused, she's of no use in my life!!!
The latest lie she came back with yesterday is that she overpaid
a customer N40,000.

Chai! N40,000 is a problem for who has been working for over 3 years.
She didn't even give my mum money for anything.

My dad who over-pampered her then is sick now!
Then at age less than 7, I do accuse my dad of hating me because of the kind of things he does for her! But now, She doesn't even care about my dad.


What is wrong?
What do I do?

---

I'm the only son, I'm 18years and doing fine. 200L Student

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cc: lalasticlala mynd44
fynestboi missyb3

@bold, which should we believe?

Sijo01:


@bold, which should we believe?

Corrected!
Sorry about dat