I am in love with two girls in my life but I love one pass the other, but I begin to have problem becuase I am planning to settle down soon. I then decide to seek advice from married men and women but all to no avial then I went to two diffrent man of God for intervension, the two of them said thesame thing about the one I love most is not my wife and I should not make any mistake marry her becuase there will be a breakup after two kids, that I should go marry the other one becuse she is the future wife that will favour in my life. Pls my fellow nairalanders I need your advices and not rude ones.

in the 1st place hw did u find urself trapped in 2 affairs at a time u need to choose someone 4 a serious relationship?? to me its not the advice u get from other pple but the choice u make in ur heart one woman at a time. We can suggest smthing to u now but if its not in ur heart u wl find urslf involved with 2 women even whilst married. u cant serve two masters at a time. If u r failing to choose btwn the two then they both are not the ryt ones for u start a new smart relationship which cld lead to wat u want otherwise i c no future in these debate relationship u hve.

I reaaly understand your reply ''Muthange'' but what do I do? Do I go with the will of God that is the one I love most or I should follow the man God statement. ''Peole always this this slogan that the angel you know is better that the devil you don't know''

to simplify it u marry someone because you love him/her u dont marry because of wat future holds nobody knows our future except God. follow ur heart am sure u know qualities of a good lady with that in mind and prayer to confirm if u r taking right path then u r on the ryt track. Parables are good but if u dont interpret them properly u can also lead urself into trouble. Love is the most important thing love hold marriage no matter what circumstances, love binds together people from different races cultures religion - its that love that u should think of first am i really in love with this lady. If you love the girl true love go for her but if u r doubting then there is something wrong watch out!

Thank sto you all