collinshush:
2, 3, 5, 9 and 10.
Good post!

Glory12345:
the rest?

joycesims:
@op are u married? do you have/want a daughter?
either way, if this generation of women have lost it, help the world to rectify it by starting to train the females in your life with those qualities in mind.

Start the change you seek!

Acidosis:


Some of us are already doing that.

At least, I can speak about some of my cousins.. They'll never watch me go hungry, in fact, one practically ask me whenever we are together whether she could assist with laundry. On my own path, I try to take care of them, understand their needs and make them happy. And no, it isn't about age, education or money. The youngest of them all is a year 3 medical student.

Mind you, I've met a girl whom I thought was perfect enough for a relationship/marriage until the day she openly told me she only cook, and clean whenever she's in the mood... Really?! So what happens to the family when the mood disappears for days...weeks?

I have no doubt the closest female relatives around me will make good wives and mothers.

Its sad that whenever these issues spring up, people are quick to use the word: slavery, and all of that. Relationship is all about serving. A woman who is not ready to be called or seen as a "slave", and a man who isn't ready to be seen or called a "maga" or "woman wrapper" should not bother about marriage in the first place. They're better off wrestling in a WWE ring.


Relationship is all about serving.

Glory12345:
Pls just leave all dis ladies/girls oooo doing boss lady they want to feel like a boss too.. I pity all of u.. Am also a lady and I know what am talking about, I work but I believe what is right is right that's Y many don't stay long in there marriages coz they lack it they believe that can't be slaves to any guy but I believe Dats not true.. *i rest my case *

Acidosis:

Nice one, I like it when people speak the truth

Glory12345:
But truth is bitter u know

Acidosis:
p
Yea sure, truth is bitter, but it will set us free.

jeff1607:
the only challenge here is will the ladies hear word?


compare ladies born in the 60s 70s 80s 90s and then you would understand that certain behaviours are going down the drain like in Arithmetic progression

gone are the days when any woman can be matched with any man back in the day all you need do is either ask the family questions or ask people around questions about the family, one doesn't need to even approach the lady to know.

now ladies n men ve preferences, I think the issues with change lies with how mothers now train their daughters and how fathers handle their sons

Glory12345:
True but I don't have a mother to train me I trained myself.

ReneeNuttall:
she should just turn herself to his personal slave,if that will make her a good wife....people seem to forget that ,some men don't appreciate good deeds,if u like use Ur head to scrub d floor for him,a cheating spouse will always be a cheating spouse. same is applicable to women.

Richy4:
Number 5 is lovely.......

But OP the headings for number 7 is really funny....it's like looking for Nokia 3010 .....where will one find a maid as a wife....No one play that character anymore in Marriage...not even in the village....

Glory12345:
Dats where most people get it wrong y don't understand the context it simply means as a wife try to play the role of a maid which means cooking, cleaning the house etc once in a while coz after now if ya maid nau snatch ya hubby u will be shouting around...

Richy4:


I just want to ask you madam, All this you stated in your write ups, do you do half of it?.......Just a harmless question...It's Okay if you do not feel like answering that.

Acidosis:


Some of us are already doing that.

At least, I can speak about some of my cousins.. They'll never watch me go hungry, in fact, one practically ask me whenever we are together whether she could assist with laundry. On my own path, I try to take care of them, understand their needs and make them happy. And no, it isn't about age, education or money. The youngest of them all is a year 3 medical student.

Mind you, I've met a girl whom I thought was perfect enough for a relationship/marriage until the day she openly told me she only cook, and clean whenever she's in the mood... Really?! So what happens to the family when the mood disappears for days...weeks?

I have no doubt the closest female relatives around me will make good wives and mothers.

Its sad that whenever these issues spring up, people are quick to use the word: slavery, and all of that. Relationship is all about serving. A woman who is not ready to be called or seen as a "slave", and a man who isn't ready to be seen or called a "maga" or "woman wrapper" should not bother about marriage in the first place. They're better off wrestling in a WWE ring.


Relationship is all about serving.

Estharfabian:
no offense but this is utter hogwash.


why don't you also train The men to be better house husbands? why Can't The society Also teach men what they should and shouldn't do? Why can't men also learn how to cook? Why is cooking a chore Exclusive to only women? don't men eat too? Why does it have to always be the women making these dumb sacrifices? why does the society feel the need to Order and tell women what to do with their lives?

don't nag. don't Talk back at your husband. obey your husband. charm him. please, we're tayad of all these rules!!!! we don't care anymore!!!

Estharfabian:
no offense but this is utter hogwash.


why don't you also train The men to be better house husbands? why Can't The society Also teach men what they should and shouldn't do? Why can't men also learn how to cook? Why is cooking a chore Exclusive to only women? don't men eat too? Why does it have to always be the women making these dumb sacrifices? why does the society feel the need to Order and tell women what to do with their lives?

don't nag. don't Talk back at your husband. obey your husband. charm him. please, we're tayad of all these rules!!!! we don't care anymore!!!

Estharfabian:
no offense but this is utter hogwash.


why don't you also train The men to be better house husbands? why Can't The society Also teach men what they should and shouldn't do? Why can't men also learn how to cook? Why is cooking a chore Exclusive to only women? don't men eat too? Why does it have to always be the women making these dumb sacrifices? why does the society feel the need to Order and tell women what to do with their lives?

don't nag. don't Talk back at your husband. obey your husband. charm him. please, we're tayad of all these rules!!!! we don't care anymore!!!

Acidosis:


Some of us are already doing that.

At least, I can speak about some of my cousins.. They'll never watch me go hungry, in fact, one practically ask me whenever we are together whether she could assist with laundry. On my own path, I try to take care of them, understand their needs and make them happy. And no, it isn't about age, education or money. The youngest of them all is a year 3 medical student.

Mind you, I've met a girl whom I thought was perfect enough for a relationship/marriage until the day she openly told me she only cook, and clean whenever she's in the mood... Really?! So what happens to the family when the mood disappears for days...weeks?

I have no doubt the closest female relatives around me will make good wives and mothers.

Its sad that whenever these issues spring up, people are quick to use the word: slavery, and all of that. Relationship is all about serving. A woman who is not ready to be called or seen as a "slave", and a man who isn't ready to be seen or called a "maga" or "woman wrapper" should not bother about marriage in the first place. They're better off wrestling in a WWE ring.


Relationship is all about serving.

Then the husband takes over

that's what marriage is about,help yourselves