Ebonyeyes:

Babes you are not alone oh, you are right, what I see around me is frightening. We might have to invest and buy a couple or 10 cats

Ebonyeyes:

Babes you are not alone oh, you are right, what I see around me is frightening. We might have to invest and buy a couple or 10 cats

Godmother:

I've had this fear for God knows how long. I mean, what I see around is not just encouraging at all. My friends that get married are usually filled with excitement and joy before the wedding, but few months after, when the honeymoon stage is over, the whole story changes. One even told me she regretted marrying the guy just two months after!!!

freecocoa:

i used 2 harbour the same feeling and i let my mum in on it,i told her i wldnt like 2 get married but she said there's nothing 2 worry abt,all it takes is prayers and endurance cos there's nothing like a perfect marriage plus 1 very important thing dont marry the wrong person.

madambini:

@godmother and ebony eyes and all those scared of marriage:

marriage is a beautiful institution that every woman should look forward to!
like i always say and i will say it again, marry your friend cos somewhere along the mariage, LOVE will FADE, yes it will! then the FRIENDSHIP will keep the marriage going!

Ebonyeyes:

I would definitely Marry my friend because I know attraction fades after a while.

Pharoh:

[size=2pt]Keeping this in my diary[/size]  , [size=2pt]have not seen or talked to you in a while[/size]

@post

It is good to marry your friend because he/she has already accepted you the way you are and developed a certain level of understanding and communication that is so much needed when you eventually get married.

Ebonyeyes:

[size=3pt]I know I havnt been on as much + havnt seen you also knew you were studying and taking time out, you are here now so I imagine your exams are over right? hope they were ok. [/size]

Pharoh:

Truly speaking everyone is likely to be scared because of what they see around but that just prompts us to be more careful and watchful and choosing a life partner.

[size=2pt]
Thanks for your concern sister and don't worry we will talk much when next we are on, time for a change really.[/size] 

Harry Potter:

@Godmother/Ebonyeyes if both of u are afraid of marriage, then your perfect match is here cos am also afraid of marriage.so i will take both of u as my concubine not as my wife.lol

Harry Potter:

@Ebonyeyes if u want 2 be wifed, why then are u afraid of marriage ?

Sweet T:

@Poster

Nothing to be scared of, just take your time and make sure she's the right person. And if doesn't work out just take care of the kids and date another woman. I don't support re-marriage.

Re: I'm A Bit Scared Of Marriage

madambini:

@godmother and ebony eyes and all those scared of marriage:

marriage is a beautiful institution that every woman should look forward to!
like i always say and i will say it again, marry your friend cos somewhere along the mariage, LOVE will FADE, yes it will! then the FRIENDSHIP will keep the marriage going!

POSIBILITY:

As if this topic is meant for me, i am about to choose my life partner, i think i will base my decision on inner love and friendship,

Godmother:

I've had this fear for God knows how long. I mean, what I see around is not just encouraging at all. My friends that get married are usually filled with excitement and joy before the wedding, but few months after, when the honeymoon stage is over, the whole story changes. One even told me she regretted marrying the guy just two months after!!!

Crude Oil:

Marriage is not compulsory. If you are scared of getting married, then dont get married.