Don't know whether is it because of my dull and boring look, sometimes people will say guy u look like person wey no sabi anything, if i commit any slight mistake they will start calling me names People that tag themselves as my best friends always want to find a way to eat my money and dump me, make fun of me in my absence, i met this guy last two weeks we spend time together for a while and so we became friends, so later i met his friend so as his friend, so we automatically became three friends, we went to a cafeteria, this second guy was like he was hungry, so i was like lemme buy something for three of us, i really don't know whether this third guy took me as a fool, since then he started telling me all sort of things that am dull am this and am that, i only bought food for them twice none of them have done same so i stopped, sometimes if am not around they will buy food without buying mine if i later come and tell them make una buy for me they will say someone bought for them, i fought with my so called best friend because of this in my secondary school, infact almost everybody take me as a dummy, fool and dull looking guy, i really don't know if am right or i am paranoid, if i talk about my gf, they will say guy that girl will finish ur money, i have this kind heart to help people buh if i find out that people don't appreciate it i will change it to a hardened heart

Hmmmm

this girl above... na wa ooo

Continue with your good deeds.

yeah I fùcking think ur fůcking going paranoid

Stop keeping guys as friends. That's the only way out.
Don't hate them, but don't keep them as friends.

ElizaVeta:
Continue with your good deeds.

u don't get me

What's your CGPA and what's theirs?

That should be the primary basis for any judgement/conclusion.

na everybody u dey call friend? abeg o, friend are friends only when they got somthn to get from you. you just met them and you call them friends already? must you eat with them?? dakun, nobody has ever died because they didn't have friends. your babe loves you, that's what matters, why do u even stick with pple who try to bring you down mehn, tell them off jare! I'm even angry

pweetixandy:
na everybody u dey call friend? abeg o, friend are friends only when they got somthn to get from you. you just met them and you call them friends already? must you eat with them?? dakun, nobody has ever died because they didn't have friends. your babe loves you, that's what matters, why do u even stick with pple who try to bring you down mehn, tell them off jare! I'm even angry

thanks for ur advice buh telling them off will be making enemies i will start avoiding them

you're not being paranoid you're gonna go places they'll never get to stingy people always see generous ones as dumb but my friend its the other way round don't stop being who you are because of little minded ones around you.

Op I think u should start spending more money on ur mother, u won't regret it and she will always appreciate and pray for u