I am in a relationship with a girl who loves me very much.The problem is that her mum and her big sister want her to marry another guy(her ex) for two reasons (1)they are from the same town and (2)the guy has a good job.she parted with the guy for just one reason"he turned her to punching bag".she explained everything to her mum and her sister,but they seems not to understand saying that the guy will change but the girl is very convinced that the a leopard can never change it spot.despite the fact that I av not gotten a good job,the girl insist am her choice saying she prefer a dry morsel with peace.she is determined to do away with her people if that is what it takes to have me.I am very confused and dont know what to do. my fear is that they can go extreme to achieve their aim and i dont want to hurt the girl.please advice.

Are you ready for marriage now or you want the girl to wait?

That's just the culture of the persian people.