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5 Big Lies About Sex by Nobody: 11:32am On Feb 26, 2017
Lie #1: Sex is no big deal.
Wrong! Sex is a huge deal. It ties two people together forever (Genesis 2:24), even if they never speak to each other again. You can't escape the memories of sharing the most intimate act of all. That's why God wants us to save sex for the person we commit our lives to—the person we marry.









Lie #2: You can be a "technical" virgin.
In God's eyes, staying a virgin means more than just not having sex (Matthew 5:27-28). It means keeping your mind, body, and spirit sexually pure. Messing around, touching each other in private places and doing "everything but" just don't fit into that picture.








Lie #3: Sex equals love.
It's true, at least for many, that sex equals an emotional tie of some sort—one that might seem like love. But here's a news flash: many treat sex as more of a physical thing than an emotional one. Sex is meant to be the ultimate expression of the ultimate commitment, marriage. Love comes first, marriage second, sex third.








Lie #4: Having sex is just like any other sin.
God definitely forgives sexual sin the same way he forgives all sin. But the reason the Bible pays close attention to sexual sin is that sex affects people like no other sin does (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Most sins involve mainly your actions, but premarital sex involves your heart, mind, and body as well. That kind of internal damage is very hard to get beyond.







Lie #5: Everybody's doing it.
So not true. In every school, every town, every state there are plenty of cool, happy people who have chosen to follow God's plan and save sex for marriage. And they're also saving themselves all kinds of heartache. So not only are they cool; they're very, very smart.

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Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by falconey(m): 11:33am On Feb 26, 2017
You've got to read lie #3 again, from your extrapolation it isn't a lie.
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by darbeelicous(f): 11:34am On Feb 26, 2017
lipsrsealed
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by McBrooklyn(m): 11:36am On Feb 26, 2017

Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by mployer(m): 11:43am On Feb 26, 2017
darbeelicous:
lipsrsealed

You are having sex abi? I don catch you tongue
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by mployer(m): 11:46am On Feb 26, 2017
Op you are beautiful. Can we relate? smiley

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Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by youngberry001(m): 11:54am On Feb 26, 2017
mployer:
Op you are beautiful. Can we relate? smiley
ah swear dah lady cute wink
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by negz1(m): 12:03pm On Feb 26, 2017
hmmmmm
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by rosy1992(f): 12:18pm On Feb 26, 2017
cc:lalasticlala
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by Nobody: 12:48pm On Feb 26, 2017
Incase
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by nery4u(m): 1:00pm On Feb 26, 2017
Lilyqueeny:
Lie #1: Sex is no big deal.
Wrong! Sex is a huge deal. It ties two people together forever (Genesis 2:24), even if they never speak to each other again. You can't escape the memories of sharing the most intimate act of all. That's why God wants us to save sex for the person we commit our lives to—the person we marry.









Lie #2: You can be a "technical" virgin.
In God's eyes, staying a virgin means more than just not having sex (Matthew 5:27-28). It means keeping your mind, body, and spirit sexually pure. Messing around, touching each other in private places and doing "everything but" just don't fit into that picture.








Lie #3: Sex equals love.
It's true, at least for many, that sex equals an emotional tie of some sort—one that might seem like love. But here's a news flash: many treat sex as more of a physical thing than an emotional one. Sex is meant to be the ultimate expression of the ultimate commitment, marriage. Love comes first, marriage second, sex third.








Lie #4: Having sex is just like any other sin.
God definitely forgives sexual sin the same way he forgives all sin. But the reason the Bible pays close attention to sexual sin is that sex affects people like no other sin does (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Most sins involve mainly your actions, but premarital sex involves your heart, mind, and body as well. That kind of internal damage is very hard to get beyond.







Lie #5: Everybody's doing it.
So not true. In every school, every town, every state there are plenty of cool, happy people who have chosen to follow God's plan and save sex for marriage. And they're also saving themselves all kinds of heartache. So not only are they cool; they're very, very smart.

well said...
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by bizzy500: 1:02pm On Feb 26, 2017
rosy1992:
cc:lalasticlala
you like dat abi undecided
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by BiafranBushBoy: 1:45pm On Feb 26, 2017
rosy1992:
cc:lalasti.clala

Are you not the same person as the Op?

Plenty monikers everywhere!!
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by Jodha(f): 1:51pm On Feb 26, 2017
Op chop knuckle.. Yhu are making sense like madt... Kudos

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Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by Nobody: 1:55pm On Feb 26, 2017
Jodha:
Op chop knuckle.. Yhu are making sense like madt... Kudos


thanks dear
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by Nobody: 8:43pm On Feb 26, 2017
I quite agree with your stated points, OP. unfortunately time will not permit me to state more facts in solidarity.
Well done.
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by Nobody: 8:49pm On Feb 26, 2017
Jodha:
Op chop knuckle.. Yhu are making sense like madt... Kudos

I like this complement coming from lady-to-lady.
Quite admirable.
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by Nobody: 8:53pm On Feb 26, 2017
BiafranBushBoy:


Are you not the same person as the Op?

Plenty monikers everywhere!!
Good observation but why don't you look at it from another angle: "Twins-tinz" wink cool
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by Nobody: 8:55pm On Feb 26, 2017
rosy1992:
cc:lalasticlala
Sister Howdy?. cheesy
Re: 5 Big Lies About Sex by Jodha(f): 9:07pm On Feb 26, 2017
Sincere4u:


I like this complement coming from lady-to-lady.
Quite admirable.

Lol thanks..

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