Not one but many have fallen victim of unnecessary heartbreak because they either choose to turn 'blind eyes' to their opposite sex and claim to want it to work out naturally. Define your relationship!.
Many guys and ladies have had relationship turn one night stand without knowing sooner. I mean what's the point of claiming you have mutual feelings when you are mistaken at the end. I always advise you define what you want in a relationship before venturing in. Some people are heartless and don't care about others feeling as long as they are at the receiving end. Is your relationship for the future or pleasure?
Have you been in such relationship and invested so much energy and time and it ended within seconds? Have you thought it will lead to the altar and ended in the gutter? Have you thought you had it all and discovered you were just a side chick? Have you thought she is a wife material and discovered she is just after the money and boo is closer? How did you find out? Please share your experience and lets deliberate. you don't know who is reading and seeing the signs without facing reality.
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