A friend was relating something that happen to him with me this evening about his marriage. He was seeking advise from me.
He said his wife seems not to be over her ex. She's always comparing everything with what her ex use to do to her. Then this evening she was showing him something on her phone on Instagram, then when it got to her ex post, she quickly flip through it for him not to see that she follows him on Instagram. Is there anything to worry about for him.

Rule No.1, never date a man or a woman who maintains communication with his/her ex.


Anyone who does that is a grand CHEAT.

my dear op, he needs to have a discussion with his wife.. she should not under any circumstance compare him with her ex.. I feel her ex still has a hold on her.. he should tell her about his insecurities whenever she speaks about her ex.. as for the wife, she would ex communicate herself from her ex, except she likes playing with fire..

Yes theres a lot to worry about. Your wife needs serious counselling. If her intention is clear, she would allow you to freely read through her chat with her ex to show there's no skeleton in her cupboard. But the issue is what can they ever be talking about for so long that it requires hiding her IG chats with him and even comparing you to him. All these ppl who fail to learn life lessons except in a hard way just discourage me from dating atimes sef. Ladies like your wife are too shallow for my liking.

It's funny that it's the woman who's still attached to her ex and lamenting about how her ex does this and that better. If reverse was the case hmmmmm....the pope would have heard her voice and would still hear it ringing in his head! Dirty linen would have been displayed for all to see and nuclear war broken out...that's how intolerant women are!
The hubby needs to put her in order once and for all and make sure the ex truly becomes ex in head mind and media!
Sit up husband and claim your territory!!!!

Marry is too far sef.
Don't court anyone who's still hung up on their ex. that includes if they still keep pictures of their ex.

its really sad when you feel that you are committed and after sacrificing just so you can be together.