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Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by willyspace(m): 11:31pm On Dec 15, 2009 |
I guess there are so many guys in this shoes right now. Being an only son @ 29 I am pressurized to settle down, don't want to do it the 'illegal' way, am not just ready (financially) for that, but my Mum keeps calling and asking when? I feign annoyance but I know she is right. |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by H2O2: 12:07am On Dec 16, 2009 |
What is the legal way? I understand your fam is in a hurry, but don't let them frustrate you into THE big decision until you are ready. |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by willyspace(m): 12:21am On Dec 16, 2009 |
Following the normal marital formalities is legal, |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by mamagee3(f): 1:23am On Dec 16, 2009 |
It sucks to be an Only child. |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by Nobody: 1:33am On Dec 16, 2009 |
truly |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by H2O2: 1:33am On Dec 16, 2009 |
aw |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by coolier(f): 1:40am On Dec 16, 2009 |
29 and still single? Mum is right. Make hays while the sun shines! |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by oyinda3(f): 1:45am On Dec 16, 2009 |
hahaha ur that same guy. seriously you are a case. why do you say "financially"? you don't have a job? |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by H2O2: 1:48am On Dec 16, 2009 |
coolier:Ah ahn |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by Fhemmmy: 3:20am On Dec 16, 2009 |
Being the only boy is never fun. . . . I am one too, i have always wished i had at least one brother, but to no avail, so i will make a good brotherhood of my son. |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by spoilt(f): 4:19am On Dec 16, 2009 |
Even if you were one of ten boys 29 sure does not seem like a young lad. |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by willyspace(m): 4:43am On Dec 16, 2009 |
That I have a job does not mean one should jump the gun. I have seen young men that rushed into marriage and ended up struggling with everything. I have set targets, if am not satisfied that I have met them, NO WAY! |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by Nobody: 5:02am On Dec 16, 2009 |
then stop whining. besides isnt this what you wrote: willyspace: |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by Nobody: 5:05am On Dec 16, 2009 |
It is the same damn thing when you are the only daughter. |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by Outstrip(f): 6:00am On Dec 16, 2009 |
Stand up to your mother. Don't rush into anything. Marriage is not something you do just to get someone off your back. 29 is not a big deal |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by foyeks2001(f): 11:33am On Dec 16, 2009 |
willyspace: guess at age 45 rite? good for u, u gonna use ur pension to raising ur kids dad 60- first child 14 dad 60-second child 12 dad 60- third child 10 so how about that |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by foyeks2001(f): 1:25pm On Dec 16, 2009 |
u are not ready financially but fuckily ready right?? |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by Nobody: 5:56pm On Dec 16, 2009 |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by Fhemmmy: 6:42pm On Dec 16, 2009 |
foyeks2001: See me see peace oh, the dude says, he is not ready, so what if he jumped into it and start to soil his "royal" linen? Who would u blame? |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by breathless(m): 8:31pm On Dec 16, 2009 |
poster, understand her feelings but dont be rushed. mother's av a way of cajoling only child to fulfil their wish. truth is ur mum 'll not run ur home wen u settle down. neither 'll she help u manage ur finances.(he who wears d shoes knows where it pinches) I was in dis situation some years ago. got 2 a point my mum said she'll mind hawk garri to look after my "kids" cos all she wanted was grandchildren. had 2 use my dad as a wedge cos i was beginnin 2 get irritated knowin dat d pressure 'from my mum 'll distract my goals in life. Was over 33 wen i got married cos i took my time to plan d kind of wedding i wanted. now i av 2 wonderful kids n a lovin wife. just keep ur head up n be focused on ur life goals. all d best. |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by willyspace(m): 9:48pm On Dec 16, 2009 |
@ Breathless, those are the most soothing words av heard on this forum. Thanks. |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by spoilt(f): 2:30am On Dec 17, 2009 |
foyeks2001: abi. |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by DOnlooker(m): 3:48am On Dec 18, 2009 |
At least [b]YOU[b] should start thinking about it seriously. Its about time, its about you. |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by willyspace(m): 5:45am On Dec 18, 2009 |
Shey! |
Re: Dilemna Of Being An Only Son by FBS: 12:34pm On Dec 18, 2009 |
It's about you. Take your time to make your decision. |
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