Fun in a relationship is what keeps the spark alive. Though "fun" can mean different things to different people, here we are specifically speaking about lovemaking. It is human nature to feel closer by getting intimate and one might add that it is normal. But what can be considered "normal" could have differing view points and is completely left to the individual's perspective. The not so "normal" guys would be branded as perverts. So how would you know if you are dating a normal guy or a pervert? Though it's not easy, it isn't impossible as well. The problem is that sexual appetite varies drastically. What a person might think is completely normal would probably be pretty over the top for you. Not to worry, you are supposed to feel good when you are dating, not anxious. Role playing, adventures in public places can be a turn-on for some.But the important question is if both of you are game for it? If his explicit ways are too much to handle, you should probably speak to him about it. But how would you know if he really is perverted or not? Read on to find out the common things that perverts do.



1.Inappropriate pictures

Instead of roses, does he send you 'penfies'? You should probably steer clear of this pervy dude! Men are visual creatures, true. But they should understand that a woman would love a bunch of roses more than a picture of his junk. Don't tell me that you need more signs of him being a pervert!

2. He's into too much porn

With the advent of technology, porn is everywhere and you don't need to have gigabytes of porn when it is easily accessible on the internet. Even that wouldn't be a sign of your partner being a pervert but if he is into teen-porn or sadistic porn then sure he's a pervert.

3. Inappropriate jokes about your friend

Every girl loves a guy who is umourous but if he makes sexual jokes about your friends, you should be careful. It could possibly indicate that he has thought about her sexually. A long shot but worth considering when you are trying to find out if your boyfriend is a pervert.

4. Leers at you and others

Does he stare at inappropriate places even if you have just made love with him? Perverts can't help it! They stare incessantly and mostly they don't even realise that they are doing it. If he is indeed a pervert, he would stare at you and your friend's most private of places.


5. Speaks dirty, always

Speaking dirty is an art but there are clearly defined lines. If he speaks dirty all the time, you might want to keep a close watch. It is said that men think about sex every 7 seconds but that could be exaggerated. Men do think about sex more frequently than women but it doesn't mean that they talk dirty always and if he does, then you should know that it is one of the signs of him being pervert.

6. Filming your intimate moments

In this day and age, it is very baffling that people choose to videotape their most intimate of moments! Even if you don't want your act to be filmed, your boyfriend might film you secretly. This is one of the classic signs of a pervert.