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Another Look At Dating A Broke Guy by Akposb(m): 6:10pm On Mar 14, 2017
I doubt if there is any who do not know the meaning of being broke but for the purpose of this write-up, a broke person is one who is not able to take care of his needs. This write-up is addressed to those ladies who are in a relationship or considering one.

Three scenarios or types of broke guys will guide this write-up

1. A guy who is broke financially and also broke mentally.

2. A guy who is broke but has a realistic vision that may help change his financial situation.

And finally, a rather curious one
3. A rich or comfortable guy but broke mentally.

I will use these three scenarios to structure this write-up. First, a guy who is broke financially and mentally is not a good partner. It would indeed take a lot of patience and care to get that guy to change his life which is not really a good risk. A guy who is broke financially and mentally could easily waste a lady's time and it is most unfortunate if the guy is a serial dater. The problem with being broke mentally is a more serious than being broke financially hence there is a high possibility that such a person may remain broke for a long time or at worst for ever. Also a lot happens in the mind of a broke man which range from the bad to the obscene. The only person that can actually remedy his situation is the person in particular thus it will not be sensible for a lady to force herself or take that person as her only choice. Enough said.

The second scenario is a reality that calls for a lot of consideration. First, the guy is struggling but he has ideas and a realistic plan that could bring forth financial rewards. This is one that is worth more than a consideration as a majority of guys who are rich may have found themselves in this situation at a certain point in their lives.
Also the reality is that a mentally stable guy can actually build a sustainable relationship with his partner.

The third scenario, it's not worth an attention as the ultimate goal of most people is being rich. Yes, but the reality is that riches can actually be lost. The major thing is can a man who has lost his property or material possession recover or rebound. This is where being broke mentally may become an handicap. Hence, why this guy may be rich he sure has to work on his mental capacity. The ability to build wealth is more than been lucky, it takes a conscious decision and a lot of learning to do such.

A lot goes into a relationship aside the money aspect but it will be foolish to discount the importance of money. As a lady who is dating, make communication a major part of your relationship and let it be meaningful. As much as possible, stay chaste as it has a lot of benefit to it.

A lot goes into dating a broke guy. It is a reality that ladies are often abused for their impatience as it regards dating a broke guy.

This article does not support 'gold-diggers' but those who have serious intention about their relationship. Also this does not address those who are just interested in a fling.

A last word for the guys. Being broke is not a permanent condition and a will to change is the perfect response.
Re: Another Look At Dating A Broke Guy by Nobody: 6:32pm On Mar 14, 2017
I don't even know what to type right here....
Well, let me pitch my tent for when the inevitable quarrel begins...
Re: Another Look At Dating A Broke Guy by 2SWT(f): 7:33pm On Mar 14, 2017
Dating a financially and mentally broke guy gives you an opportunity to learn certain things

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Re: Another Look At Dating A Broke Guy by lekjons(m): 7:58pm On Mar 14, 2017
Well. I demand a lot of respect, so there's no way I can be a broke guy in a relationship. I'd rather stay single.

Can't bear the feeling of having a girl stay with you out of pity/hope.

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Re: Another Look At Dating A Broke Guy by Akposb(m): 8:45pm On Mar 14, 2017
2SWT:
Dating a financially and mentally broke guy gives you an opportunity to learn certain things


Definitely and I hope you can help to correct that weakness if given the opportunity.
Re: Another Look At Dating A Broke Guy by amokeme(f): 9:17pm On Mar 14, 2017
Nice cool
Anyways, for anyone in category 2,(irrespective of the gender) please stay away from relationships and actualize your vision/plan, and allow it yield to a satisfactory level before you mingle

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Re: Another Look At Dating A Broke Guy by Nobody: 9:38pm On Mar 14, 2017
interesting cheesy

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