last35:
you need to see the despair on the children's face when their dad and mum were on top of each other blowing it out. The first born was screaming "save us, save us" in yoruba. The mother asked why is she screaming the daughter said blood. The mother replied its not a new thing, is it the first time you are seeing my lips busted with blow.

please report the incident to the nearest police station, today not tomorrow. If not, one of them is likely to die. I believe the policemen/women are capable to handle this situation and I must commend you for your concern & helping that woman before life could have been snuffed out of her.

Remove all the knives cutlass and hammers from their house then call the police

Please just go and report to the police station.

fluxbush:
Why are you blaming the woman for this? You said she has always been a housewife but started selling just last year due to the recession. An entitled and lazy woman won't even bother doing anything to help out in the family. You don't live with them,so you don't know if the husband strikes back at her verbally cuz of frustration. I know that broke and frustrated men lash out at their wives and children unfairly. Again, do you expect her to work all day and come back home to start all the chores? Please be realistic. Enough with all the macho. There is nothing wrong with the man helping in the chores since he has nothing doing at the moment.

Lastly,which responsible husband and father will attempt to use a heavy object on his kid? He even threatened to use them for rituals. Smh.. That man is the one with the issues and you as a fellow man,have no other option than to support him with rose coloured glasses.

Actually both of them are acting out of frustration caused by economic hardship. One person needs to be strong at this time. They are both like fish thrown out of water. They woman probably has never worked before and so has never been out of her comfort zone . And the man may have never been out of job and not so toughed up. Both need help. They both need each other comfort. Thats is why is not good for two people to mad to get mad at the same time. When one person is man,the other should be the calming voice and not add salt to injury and vice versa. The only problem i have with op is implying that something is wrong with a man washing his own cloth,haba. That is his cloth and keeping it clean is his duty and not his wifes.

Wats your location?? As in city

last35:
Update ppl. Another marriage has bite the dust! After 11 years of marriage and 3kids the wife arrived few minutes ago broke down the door, destroyed electronics with shovel and moving her things out together with her friend!

poor kids...i pray they get good homes 2mrw

fluxbush:
Why are you blaming the woman for this? You said she has always been a housewife but started selling just last year due to the recession. An entitled and lazy woman won't even bother doing anything to help out in the family. You don't live with them,so you don't know if the husband strikes back at her verbally cuz of frustration. I know that broke and frustrated men lash out at their wives and children unfairly. Again, do you expect her to work all day and come back home to start all the chores? Please be realistic. Enough with all the macho. There is nothing wrong with the man helping in the chores since he has nothing doing at the moment.

Lastly,which responsible husband and father will attempt to use a heavy object on his kid? He even threatened to use them for rituals. Smh.. That man is the one with the issues and you as a fellow man,have no other option than to support him with rose coloured glasses.

You scream gender EQUALITY but turn a blind eye to gender EQUITY!

Fair weather wife.
I think it's already over. She feels she has got the money from a recently started business and therefore better on her own. Maybe a boyfriend too reason she doesn't want the kids to go with her. Secondly you said the man has forcefully ejected her. Equation balanced. She wants to go...The husband wants her out.

Don't worry your head.

AceRoyal:

That man is going through serious psychological, emotional and mental abuse.
He's at his melting point and will break down soon.
"He who finds a "GOOD" wife is highly blessed.

I tried my best, but it's too late to save the marriage. The man was full of shame cos of his situation he sneaks in and out of the house. I made the man my friend and the wife too including the children. Greeting them with respect and catering for the kids when they are not home. The children told me once upon a time when their family was a Happy one. How their dad use to play with mummies Tommy when she was pregnant with the third child. They said everything change when their dad couldn't give their mum money like before anymore. It's such a pity

Most women right now are bunch of worthless oloriburuku.




I'm sure the man was providing wen he had money . Now that he's broke she wants us mock him.


I don't blame moneyed men who treat women like filth

last35:
I tried my best, but it's too late to save the marriage. The man was full of shame cos of his situation he sneaks in and out of the house. I made the man my friend and the wife too including the children. Greeting them with respect and catering for the kids when they are not home. The children told me once upon a time when their family was a Happy one. How their dad use to play with mummies Tommy when she was pregnant with the third child. They said everything change when their dad couldn't give their mum money like before anymore. It's such a pity

She's been fed with wrong advice from a bad friend(s).
Karma and posterity will be the chief Judge.

Beckham14:
Lol, they even have a timetable for fight sef.



Whenever they're having a "royal rumble" please leave that arena for your own safety sir.



Sometimes, it's good to mind your business to avoid any embarrassment.

In one word, you are suggesting this gentleman should walk-by, okwaya? And we keep screaming 'where's humanity'. You are a Reuben. And hey, the Op's conscience ain't dead. Do you realize he may have stopped a murder?
Op, tell your Landlord to involve their people.
Police can equally do. If this results to murder, I bet you wouldn't want to live in that house again. Recession wa n'ita ooo

CellTabRepairs:
Fair weather wife.
I think it's already over. She feels she has got the money from a recently started business and therefore better on her own. Maybe a boyfriend too reason she doesn't want the kids to go with her. Secondly you said the man has forcefully ejected her. Equation balanced. She wants to go...The husband wants her out.

Don't worry your head.

You are wise!

xtervaganza:
Most women right now are bunch of worthless oloriburuku.




I'm sure the man was providing wen he had money . Now that he's broke she wants us mock him.


I don't blame moneyed men who treat women like filth

In a way you are right.

Last35,

Please don't allow that man to near Third Main Land Bridge ohhhh especially this evening....

Look for a way to call family and friends...

yourexcellency:
Tired of afonjas and killng news

Shut it already
You suck

fluxbush:
Why are you blaming the woman for this? You said she has always been a housewife but started selling just last year due to the recession. An entitled and lazy woman won't even bother doing anything to help out in the family. You don't live with them,so you don't know if the husband strikes back at her verbally cuz of frustration. I know that broke and frustrated men lash out at their wives and children unfairly. Again, do you expect her to work all day and come back home to start all the chores? Please be realistic. Enough with all the macho. There is nothing wrong with the man helping in the chores since he has nothing doing at the moment.

Lastly,which responsible husband and father will attempt to use a heavy object on his kid? He even threatened to use them for rituals. Smh.. That man is the one with the issues and you as a fellow man,have no other option than to support him with rose coloured glasses.

lol I knw u will support de woman

that's bad menh, people are dying these days because of money....only God can save us ooo....but beating or fighting is not the answer

AceRoyal:

In a way you are right.

tnk u broda

[color=#770077][/color]that's bad menh, people are dying these days because of money....only God can save us ooo....but beating or fighting is not the answer

last35:
I tried my best, but it's too late to save the marriage. The man was full of shame cos of his situation he sneaks in and out of the house. I made the man my friend and the wife too including the children. Greeting them with respect and catering for the kids when they are not home. The children told me once upon a time when their family was a Happy one. How their dad use to play with mummies Tommy when she was pregnant with the third child. They said everything change when their dad couldn't give their mum money like before anymore. It's such a pity

that's bad menh, people are dying these days because of money....only God can save us ooo....but beating or fighting is not the answer

That is women for you,but the devil is really making use of this one,

only that nigerian police is something else, in a sane environment, the op needs only 2 minutes phone call to d police explaining, there is life in danger & d police 'll be there to settle d issue even without the presence of the op. pls take decisive action because of the kids so that the frustrated man 'll not use them for rituals, as he has threatened to ur hearing. speak out to the couples families, the landlord or care taker, or even their pastors.

jakandeola:
tnk u broda

That's Yoruba wife for you. When the going gets tough, they leave their children and scamper off with another married Man.

op, are you unemployed our jobless? Just asking...
because someone who is employed or has a job will not be posting on nairaland 8:23am on a Wednesday.... Or is it the fight that had made you not to go to work?.... #inquisitive

a man dat didnt dicipline his wife is playing with fire a woman love ur woman wit one hand dicipline her wit de oda
most women are like children if u deal wit dem dey will respect u and know dat u truly luv dem. iv xpirince dis before I handle my girl and she neva misbehave again if a man neva act as a man he will wash his woman pant and bra

jieta:
is people like you that give there husband mensuration pant to wash. just becos you are the bread winner of the house so ur husband is now ur houseboy.



i pray you see a man that can tolerate your stupid attitude.

tank u boss

itzemar:
op, are you unemployed our jobless? Just asking...
because someone who is employed or has a job will not be posting on nairaland 8:23am on a Wednesday.... Or is it the fight that had made you not to go to work?.... #inquisitive

To answer your question and abuse. U. I is on strike

Money ke! The wife is a foolish woman am sorry to say. Add ungrateful to that too. Your husband has been their for you over the years just when he has financial challenges you become a nag & refuse to help out. Ennnh what happens to been his help mate? Your family!!! What if the husband dies? Won't she provide for her kids, pay rent & send her kids to school? God help her. Very selfish thing. She is frustrating the life out of man. She should watch it before he does something drastic. #pissed. Some women tho!!!! (quote author=last35 post=54826703] only God knows human heart but from what I saw when I moved in last year. The wife was full time house wife, and the kids were well fed and even attending a private school in a city (ibadan). Showing the husband has been good. The root of their crisis is MONEY. [/quote]

[quote author=tolugar post=54826158]Come out of your room op

Pls we need video and pics

ASAP

So as to knw the angle we ll take.


Meanwhile don't stop seperating them







Be capturing this in 3D abi your phone no get camera.


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U ARE A NUISANCE TO SANITY. ADVICE SOMEBODY IN NEED SEE WHAT UR SPUEING OUT OF UR MOUTH... INSTEAD OF DIRECTING HIM D BEST OPTION TO TAKE.. LIKE REPORTING TO PLOICE OR COMMUNITY LEADER OR LANDLORD,ETC ...PLS BE CAREFUL WITH YR TIME.

Lemme keep my main comment to myself... Don't want another ban