mohawkchic:

~If you have so much "faith" in your pastor's revelation,why dont you use that same Faith to belive when the time is Right,The man that is destined to be yours will "walk into your life"!

~I dont employ Single women to get to that stage of desperation when it comes to a commitment as marriage! Desperation sets you up for a marriage that will be doomed b/c you wanted it for all the wrong reasons!

~Any man who knows how desperate you are will pull wool over your eyes in thinking"This Is It" only for a couple of months into the marriage when the shite gets warmed over & you realise it's not all cut out to be what it was suppose to be!! Then you'll wish you had your "Single &  Independent Life" & didnt envy what you think your friends have!!

~I'm not assuming it will be this way for any Individual Single chic out there,but God knows i personally know of enuff cases that are regretting their choices!! Carrying a "Desperate-to-get-married" tag on thier forehead didnt bear good fruit!! Shot-gun wedding,2/3 babies down the road later,(if it gets to that stage) you'd be beating yourself up over the choices you made!!

~Do some "Soul-searching". . .You know You best -know what you can tolerate. . . aware of your flaws. . .if there's a one thing about your personality that have been mentioned by several Exes or mates-who-tell-it-like-it-is,try & work on those things. . Change You for You,dont let someone less deserving change/scar You then leave you broken . . .there's bound to be a man out there who shares your Morals,whose strength will match your weakness . . . you prolly not looking in the right places!

well said!!!

mohawkchic:

~If you have so much "faith" in your pastor's revelation,why dont you use that same Faith to belive when the time is Right,The man that is destined to be yours will "walk into your life"!

~I dont employ Single women to get to that stage of desperation when it comes to a commitment as marriage! Desperation sets you up for a marriage that will be doomed b/c you wanted it for all the wrong reasons!

~Any man who knows how desperate you are will pull wool over your eyes in thinking"This Is It" only for a couple of months into the marriage when the shite gets warmed over & you realise it's not all cut out to be what it was suppose to be!! Then you'll wish you had your "Single &  Independent Life" & didnt envy what you think your friends have!!

~I'm not assuming it will be this way for any Individual Single chic out there,but God knows i personally know of enuff cases that are regretting their choices!! Carrying a "Desperate-to-get-married" tag on thier forehead didnt bear good fruit!! Shot-gun wedding,2/3 babies down the road later,(if it gets to that stage) you'd be beating yourself up over the choices you made!!

~Do some "Soul-searching". . .You know You best -know what you can tolerate. . . aware of your flaws. . .if there's a one thing about your personality that have been mentioned by several Exes or mates-who-tell-it-like-it-is,try & work on those things. . Change You for You,dont let someone less deserving change/scar You then leave you broken . . .there's bound to be a man out there who shares your Morals,whose strength will match your weakness . . . you prolly not looking in the right places!

God bless you.

I am not desperate to get married, i am simple stating what i want, and cutting out the BS.

adolfe bad:

Maybe you didn't need to apologise either becuz that wud be an irony~
considering your name or i.d

Sweetie are you picking a fight, I cannot tell if you are joking or not.

Honestly i like been realistic. When u set too high a standard, all u get is disappointment at the end of it all. Remember no one can ever have all the characteristics we desire.

What I want is a GROWN UP man.

Which wuld you rather i did?

adolfe bad:

Which wuld you rather i did?

Im losing you.

gestapo:

Im losing you.

Me also.

madlady:


Me also.

Are you located in England ?

Are you married ?

MohawkChic has said it all. Marriage as I have come to see it is very different from what we single folks think it is. There is a huge difference between cutting out the BS and being overtly aggressive about the issue. I think the latter is the case here. You need to calm down! Be available mentally and keep preparing yourself for the right man by doing well in your chosen career, focusing on self betterment and being very open minded. You never know who you'd meet anywhere. Focus on you whilst leaving your heart open for the right one. Never compare yourself with others as everyone has a different pace. GoodLuck to you!

gestapo:

Are you located in England ?

Are you married ?

Yes and no.
But it's maybe not so big a deal over hear.

Living cost so high we worry more about owning our own homes 1st, maybe that's the wrong way round but it's how it is with all my fellow sisters.

Hunny, my aunties got married in her late 30s/early 40s, about the same time her friends were getting their divorce(they got married in their 20s) Its not about how fast you get there its how long you stay there. Ofcos dont settle for any old goon but maybe beat down your list abit, sometimes these movies/novels builds up unrealistic images of "MR RIGHT" and we all know thats all in fantasy land.

@poster,
What has this got to do with the devil?

@ topic

LWCMB - (Laugh Wan Comot My Brazziere)

I'll be praying for you.
You'll get a husband.

chamotex:

@ topic

LWCMB - (Laugh Wan Comot My Brazziere)

Why?

gestapo:

My fellow single ladies, 2010 is our year of marriage, please believe this strongly as this revelation came from my pastor at yesterdays service

They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength, I will be off to Nigeria in a couple of days, and i hope to find myself a good Nigerian man.  :

O ga ju
Lol

MC said it best tho

madlady:


Why?

Cos of extreme laughter

chamotex:

Cos of extreme laughter

for what?, you do not feel for your sister?

@ Poster
All single ladies? or all d single ladies in yur soosii?

^^^^^

My fellow single ladies, 2010 is our year of marriage, please believe this strongly as this revelation came from my pastor at yesterdays service

They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength, I will be off to Nigeria in a couple of days, and i hope to find myself a good Nigerian man

1. Are all the single ladies going to get married in 2010?
2. Why is she bothered about other single ladies . . . Is there like a single ladies association somewhere?
3. Revelation from the pastor? So why is she still desperate . . . She should have faith right?

2010 is our year of marriage

How many of you?

LWCMW  - (Laugh Wan Comot My Weave-On)

@ Chamotex
When didchu start hvin weav-on? joka!

Moyola:

@ Chamotex
When didchu start hvin weav-on? joka!

Ghana weave nah

Moyola:

@ Chamotex
When didchu start hvin weav-on? joka!

Woh just about to ask said.  

chamotex:

Ghana weave nah

Who is the boy in your profile?

mama-gee:


Who is the boy in your profile?

What's wrong wiv him?

mama-gee:


Who is the boy in your profile?

chamotex:

What's wrong wiv him?

LMAO

TOPE2000!:

LMAO

Wetin dey laugh you

chamotex:

What's wrong wiv him?

Nothing, just asking.

chamotex:

Wetin dey laugh you

just the way u two dey ask each other questions na

chamotex:

^^^^^

1. Are all the single ladies going to get married in 2010?
2. Why is she bothered about other single ladies . . . Is there like a single ladies association somewhere?
3. Revelation from the pastor? So why is she still desperate . . . She should have faith right?

1, Dhatz juz not possible
2, Prolly, d Single Ladies Asso. in her Soosii
3, Not a strong bliva perhaps. . . .singin "Ma faith lukz up to thee" hymn 123 myt help

chamotex:

Ghana weave nah

Pick n drop nko? yeye!

;d ;d ;d ;d ;d

Tope go and get married
Moyola go and get married
The clock is ticking

mama-gee:

Nothing, just asking.

U too wan marry?