there is this guy i met once he is really fine all we say to each other is wassup hi then on my b'day i saw him and he said i was looking very fine and i told its my b'day i cant afford to look any other way so we got talking he kept me company all through that day and that made my day and since then we have been seeing each other every day and i am so much in love with him and i know he really likes me too cos this guy leaves everything he is doing to be with me now the problem is ystday we got talking and he said said he wants us to be friends cos that way he knows we can be together for a very long time and because he's been hurt before he is scared of anything emotional but am so into this guy how can i just be friends with him when all i do is stare at his lips whenever he is talking to me, now am so confused

whatever you do, just don't give it up.


if i were you, i wouldn't settle for [the friendship] what i don't want.

yea my friend told me not to settle for the friendship talk too but this guy is headstrong and disciplined he sticks to his gun .am just so confused cos i wouldn't want to force anything

hey, do u hav a boyfriend (i mean a date)?

then if u dont and u know u love this
guy then accept him.

Best love relationships started out as friends, besides, easy does it, keeps stuff steady for longer, unless he's not into you as much as you're into him,