The true meaning of love: Love is patience, devotion, compassion, care, friendship, caring, warmth, concern, idolization, sympathy, goodwill, passion, desire, unselfishness or selflessness and many more. If you have most of this attributes, You will definitely have a long lasting relationship. #word

UltraLeslie1:
You know love cannot survive or thrive without life's basic necessities.

While love can endure and hopes, it grows sick without life's water .

Nice to have you back in your original dress.

On point. Thanks, and how are you?.

Young03:
F*ck love
whats love?
Love is just a mindset created by u alone
nothing like love

u don't wat love is yet u are defining it....smh

AgbenuAnna:
I can't imagine that someone in love can actually love another person. just thinking aloud

I agree with the rest of your point

Yes, one can love more than one person at a time.. It depends on how you wire your heart towards it..

#Love is a feeling

Dockybae:
please, if you do not understand a post, pass!!! it will save you unnecessary embarrassment and your ignorance and myopic way of reasoning won't be known by many. Thank you.

hahaha, I didn't know I was missing the drama on here cos i unfollowed the topic, so feminist got into trouble?
You see i talk am Dockybae feminist knows herself o, I just quoted your post as a reference

Dojupyo:




Yes, one can love more than one person at a time..
It depends on how you wire your heart towards it..

#Love is a feeling

hmmm so you understand the physics and electronic behind the heart's wiring? I'm willing to learn more so I can wire my heart to accommodate one more girl

ItsQuinn:
For me love is always and forever enough to build and maintain a long lasting relationship.

Only people that don't know the true meaning of love would think that love is never enough.

Ehn ehn see what you came up with after reading 2 paragraphs of the OP, not what you wrote the other time

This single mother don come again with her wahala.. Did you love your baby daddy or not Mimzy

Absolutely right !
Love isn't enough ! Though extremely essential Like op stated takes more than that to build a solid relationship or family .

Factor in trust, worki,caring, money , temperament, patience etc list is endless

Cc Mynd44

SNOWCREAM:
hmmm so you understand the physics and electronic behind the heart's wiring? I'm willing to learn more so I can wire my heart to accommodate one more girl

Chai.. Its best you love your girl alone, don't allow your heart take you on such journey.. Be faithful

Dojupyo:




Chai.. Its best you love your girl alone, don't allow your heart take you on such journey.. Be faithful

By one more girl I mean one more girl, I'm the only person I currently love

SNOWCREAM:
By one more girl I mean one more girl, I'm the only person I currently love

That's good.. Love yourself first, that's the only way you can love anyone else

Bumbae1:
Absolutely right !
Love isn't enough ! Though extremely essential Like op stated takes more than that to build a solid relationship or family .

Factor in trust, worki,caring, money , temperament, patience etc list is endless

Wow, Relationship class going on here

Eskis me ma, pls can we have d full endless list

THE QUESTION SHOULD BE WHAT IS LOVE?

SOMEONE HAS ACTUALLY TRIED IN EXPLAINING THIS RIGHT HERE...KUDOS DEAR

ItsQuinn:
The true meaning of love: Love is patience, devotion, compassion, care, friendship, caring, warmth, concern, idolization, sympathy, goodwill, passion, desire, unselfishness or selflessness and many more. If you have most of this attributes, You will definitely have a long lasting relationship. #word

HAVING KNOWN A LITTLE ABOUT LOVE, CAN WE SAY WHAT WE FEEL TODAY IN THE SOCIETY IS LOVE OR LUST AMONG OPPOSITE SEX?

you can admire...NOT love another unless you DON'T know what love is?

Love is NOT a feeling.

Mimzyy:


Well, it happens.

Love is enough Biko.... U begin to wonder what love is with these kinda write ups..... Understand what love is first before proceeding into a relationship.

admiration and lust should NOT be confused with love!

MummyIMadeIt:
THE QUESTION SHOULD BE WHAT IS LOVE?

SOMEONE HAS ACTUALLY TRIED IN EXPLAINING THIS RIGHT HERE...KUDOS DEAR


HAVING KNOWN A LITTLE ABOUT LOVE, CAN WE SAY WHAT WE FEEL TODAY IN THE SOCIETY IS LOVE OR LUST AMONG OPPOSITE SEX?

SmartchoicesNG:
you can admire...NOT love another unless you DON'T know what love is?

Love is NOT a feeling.

Well I have seen cases where a guy is in love with two women based on different factors.

he is NOT being sincere...love considers the feelings of the women too... he is a perfect definition of a selfish man. Ask him how he will feel if the two women openly confess to loving other men equally like him same way he professes his love for them?

Mimzyy:


Well I have seen cases where a guy is in love with two women based on different factors.

i think i understand where itsquinn is coming from, although she didn't make her stance clear enough.

what is love without passion, devotion, compassion, sacrifices...?

while emotional stability and maturity are individualistic, those ^ ^ are just some of the attributes of the word "love".
again, i don't think there is love in a relationship where you need to feel a sense of duty to make it work. why strain yourself because you want to stay in a relationship? is it not the same as putting efforts to stay in a job you don't like but must do to survive? everything has to be spontaneous, natural, without external stimulus. if it's not like that, then you're deceiving yourself.

love is not perfect too, so, shortcomings from human errors are expected. being in love doesn't mean everything has to be 10/10.+

Bumbae1:
Absolutely right !
Love isn't enough ! Though extremely essential Like op stated takes more than that to build a solid relationship or family .

Factor in trust, worki,caring, money , temperament, patience etc list is endless

it's cool to me,,,one factor's that most important to me is sincerity,,,I so much value it

Benita27:
On point. Thanks, and how are you?.

Slept off like a drunken Lord last night, babe.

AgbenuAnna:
I can't imagine that someone in love can actually love another person. just thinking aloud

I agree with the rest of your point

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There's this friend of mine that went through his girlfriend's diary, he read about something she wrote, something that wasn't so much cool and not fun. The girlfriend wrote that " she doesn't love this friend of mine( his present boyfriend) as much as she loves her ex ". It's very possible - you can be in love with the guy you date and actually love another brother.

• Dedication; commitment; loyalty.

• Emotional maturity; flexibility; response-ability. And many more.

Of a truth it takes so much more than love to build and maintain a relationship; exception, being that you'd wanna say love is the sum total of many other values; not just a feeling.

Martin124:
it's cool to me,,,one factor's that most important to me is sincerity,,,I so much value it

True that is also important maybe some believe once u inlove that is it . Hence why so many marriages fail

Dockybae:
Why do you guys often use the 'don't fvcking quote me' talk. You posted something stvpid and I advised you. You are obviously too dumb to understand that this is a public forum and the quote button is there to quote and correct myopic entities like you and your irk who jump into threads without understanding what's all about. Now that I have defiled your order, what are you gonna do? burst a cap lock on my head? Gbaberun!!

LOL women are their own worst enemies..but she didn't insult anyone she just disagreed and said what she thought you know,and like you said it's a public forum and anyone is entitled to their opinion so I think you can also disagree with her without the insults..anyway have fun

dayvie:
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There's this friend of mine that went through his girlfriend's diary, he read about something she wrote, something that wasn't so much cool and not fun. The girlfriend wrote that " she doesn't love this friend of mine( his present boyfriend) as much as she loves her ex ". It's very possible - you can be in love with the guy you date and actually love another brother.

.I only know you can date one person and be in love with another person because of money, fame etc but loving 2 people is impossible for me .

Bumbae1:

True that is also important maybe some believe once u inlove that is it . Hence why so many marriages fail

nah,,dat way wrong,,,when I see the sincerity in you,,I may start loving you secretly,,,

This makes so much sense! You couldn't have explained it better

FTBOY:
i think i understand where itsquinn is coming from, although she didn't make her stance clear enough.

what is love without passion, devotion, compassion, sacrifices...?

while emotional stability and maturity are individualistic, those ^ ^ are just some of the attributes of the word "love".
again, i don't think there is love in a relationship where you need to feel a sense of duty to make it work. why strain yourself because you want to stay in a relationship? is it not the same as putting efforts to stay in a job you don't like but must do to survive? everything has to be spontaneous, natural, without external stimulus. if it's not like that, then you're deceiving yourself.

love is not perfect too, so, shortcomings from human errors are expected. being in love doesn't mean everything has to be 10/10.+

AgbenuAnna:
.I only know you can date one person and be in love with another person because of money, fame etc but loving 2 people is impossible for me .

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Yeah, it just might be impossible for you but you just just never can tell. Some relationships and love stories are quite the-wow-story.

ItsQuinn:
The true meaning of love: Love is patience, devotion, compassion, care, friendship, caring, warmth, concern, idolization, sympathy, goodwill, passion, desire, unselfishness or selflessness and many more. If you have most of this attributes, You will definitely have a long lasting relationship. #word

Don't mind the Op,she doesn't know what love means.
LOVE is more than enough.
It is all-encompassing.

ItsQuinn:
For me love is always and forever enough to build and maintain a long lasting relationship.

Only people that don't know the true meaning of love would think that love is never enough.

You sound like a young lady who probably hasn't left the shore of dependency to know that what you typed is not viable on all levels imaginable.