From my experience I've noticed parents (including older aunties, uncles, cousins, relatives and close family friends) play a significant role in the planning of a Nigerian wedding. Even when they are not directly involved in the minute details of the planning they appear to hold significant Veto-power on what can and can't be done (sometimes including when they do not financially contribute to the budget). Any one have similar or different experiences? Also, any opinions on why it appears so?