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Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by 7footre(m): 5:48pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Please who has that God pls take back this idiot meme... now would be a good time to bring it up |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 6:07pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
hmm weh done ma |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 6:18pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
I prefer a gentle man who's soft in words and actions.. What do I need a bully and authoritative man for.? Hell no! The op is something else |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 6:19pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Benita27:no she Doesn't like it bt a little smacking during steamy sex is good for anybody 1 Like |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Mcslize: 6:22pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
pinkp , I don't think I buy this your idea. While it is obviously ideal for a man to act romantic and sexy, that shouldn't been done through violence. A typical example is when a man keeps on beating his partner on a daily basis to the extent that the woman couldn't bear the daily basis assaults from the man and have no other choice than to end the relationship. It happens every day. Most marriages are being dissolved due to outright violence from the man towards the woman. Most times, the man will turn the woman to a punching bag and in some cases the woman's eyes would get swollen to the extent of not being able to step out of the house due to ending up feeling embarrassed by neighbours' questionings of how she ended up sustaining such horrible injuries on her face. I bet not every lady can withstand a heavy blow from a man. In the process of beating you, don't you think you may end up sustaining injuries? What if he ends up using a sharp object on you instead of bare hands ? That you can't tell. That would be extremely terrible, wouldn't it? My point is, there are other more interesting ways a man could act dominant than you could ever think of but definitely not through beating of one's partner. As a man, I believe I can control a woman with my mere mouth alone without resorting to violence. 1 Like |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 6:24pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
HandsomeJude:That's not what the op meant. She's talking of a man who beats her black and blue. |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Divay22(f): 6:27pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
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Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 6:36pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Benita27:oh like aggressive expression of emotions , once in awhile , its usually sweet to do it na But not with my babe oooo , i go find woman wen like am practice |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by mayorski01(m): 6:56pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
OP obviously just finished reading 50 shades of grey. Something tells me you get high on bin physically abused, you know it and you lying to yourself by saying it shows love or affection. I would assume you had some issues growing up which has helped to fill this dark fantasy. The truth tho is no guy who truly loves you would hurt you or stand seeing you hurt, especially not physically.. it goes against everything love stands for. You are a rational thinking human being why would i wanna hurt you to pass a message. If you lucky enough to find the kind of abusive relationship you want, get out of it as quick as you can. Pain and rough treatment produce endorphins, and endorphins produce euphoria. These things also increase the intensity of the overall experience. So just see your preference for machosim as a kinda drug or weed, the pleasure is only temporary, dont go mistaking your dark fanatasies for love. Trust me, i have abit of experience on this. My 2 cents 1 Like |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by pinkp: 7:12pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Benita27:You misquoted me. I never said black n blue. I mean a loving hit or slap, not black n blue |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 8:13pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
pinkp:I don't think I misquote you, I understood your post very well. Just now it seems you're trying to paraphrase it with this "Romantic slap". Just so you know: you're too precious to be treated like a bag of garbage. 1 Like |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by akoko11: 8:34pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
fadigalfemi: Almost everyone here does not understand Op, but I do. The domestic violence Op is talking about here is not the one that will lead to injury or scald, she is talking of the romantic type. Time will not permit me to explain it here. 1 Like |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by alexis007(m): 10:08pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
Women are a complex lot. It takes deep insight to understand them most times. But one thing about about women I've learnt is that they have interesting ways of revealing their fantasies...just pay enough attention to their body language. Unfortunately, I've had a thing with a girl like the op. Before we started our thing, she used to tell me about her she has been with guys who brutalise her at every slight. I am tame and understanding in nature, so it was easy to spark a relationship that was void of abuse. Guess what.....We broke up after a perfect one-and-half year stint over some stupid reasons. I hooked with a better someone else...and she jammed another control freak. This nigga would literarily determine where she should go and what calls she should pick. Her friend once told me that she isn't delighted about this new guy, and that I should have tried to fix things with my ex. Who does that Sometimes later my ex began to call and text, telling me how I thought I was too perfect that I can't even try to see things her way. Same ex would send me messages telling me that I'm becoming a monster. My brethren, how can someone be perfect and be a monster at the same time? In summary, I never lifted a hand on this young lady for one day. If anything, it was the usual mock wrestling couples do before they bed each other. But then, you never can tell with women. Still on still, I'd never hit a lady- there are better ways to discipline those folks. But if you as a guy deem physical violence necessary, you can employ it- some ladies are like Ndama cattle that only understand brute force. |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by MENTORCH(m): 10:27pm On Apr 01, 2017 |
She is still young,bad boy is shacking her.She hasn't dated too many guys and she hasn't received correct beating. When she is 27 she will be back to tell another story. |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by jeyselassie(m): 5:45am On Apr 02, 2017 |
pinkp:being in control doesnt mean u have to hit a lady. all the ladies I have dated loved and respected me yet I never hit them.mature guys dont need to hit ladies before they learn besides if you keep hitting a lady where is the progress in the relationship. you should be able to talk one on one with her as friends. |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by pinkp: 4:43pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
akoko11:Thanks, you're level of understanding is high....Thumbs up |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by akoko11: 4:47pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
pinkp: U are welcome dear |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by adegeye38(m): 6:45pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
pinkp:beingin control is different from being violent, you can be in control without being violent, violence is something else on its own and its something very serious |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by oluwatodimu1(m): 9:35pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
I can't stop laughing |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Hannysmilez(f): 11:14pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Oh Jesus!!! OP im shook AF.! I Get your point;You want a man in control and kinda aggressive--romance novels and fantasy at work,but girl,trust me,you're gon get tired of taking shit coz most guys take it to the extreme. It's beautiful when you find a dude who knows how to strike a balance on being a gentleman and a badboy-but sweetie,that's rarer than rare esp in this insane country.(A friend found one but he is an Emirati). I totally get you,had the same fantasy when I was your age too but chick opened eyes when a Mans asked me to get out of his car on a bridge at night. Don't let novels fool you. Keep being the romantic gurl,you seem sweet. |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 11:19pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
pinkp: Am like you I'm addicted to pain too I find myself listening to drake despite hating the guy, the pain I go through mehn |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:20am On Apr 03, 2017 |
pinkp: There is a huge difference between CONTROL and ABUSE. there is absolutely nothing "normal" about a man showing love/affection through violence or abuse. Such men are sick and need serious help. Not all guys that abuse their girl do it out of hatred, most of them do it out of love. Sometimes, men express their love through violence which is sexy - I am writing from experience. When a man slaps or hit his girl, it is probably to correct her, and if he doesn't love her, he won't have bothered to correct her. Any woman who thinks that being abused/violated is "sexy" is as confused as these guys.... I guess that's why you get attracted to one another.
What you wrote above oozes of inferiority complex.... All those celebs ranting about domestic violence just want attention. Well, they have it. Most of them still goes back to their violent Hubby while some doesn't even leave their violent hubby. I tell u, a violent man is sexy and hot. Majority of the time, they only go back to these abusers because of money.
As much as you are entitled to enjoy whatever life you desire for yourself, you have to be real and understand that there is nothing sexy nor romantic about being abused by your partner. Yes, many ladies (and men) enjoy being abused and/or humiliated by their partner, but they generally are people who have a emotional complex/disorder.... Aka getting pleasure from pain and humiliation (sadomasochism etc). To each their own! |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 4:28am On Apr 03, 2017 |
pinkp: Davidgrey! I read this and thought of you! Come see wife material |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by mykel25(m): 7:47am On Apr 03, 2017 |
Y are u still searching. Just ask one Lagos agbero out. Then u ll have what u so desire |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Davidgrey: 11:08am On Apr 04, 2017 |
LeView1:I see Your inference is the summation of what? |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Tonto007(f): 12:06pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
if dis evil spirit no leave u...i see ur boyfriend handcuffed on his way to prison after killin u during ur violent sex...go to tb joshua for deliverance sister 2 Likes |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by bizzy500: 12:21pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
adorablepepple:lol |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by nigeriagospel(m): 10:38pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
pinkp:many wil get her wrong i undastnd her message,a caring and loving man dat dnt give a shit like papa suwe,a man in control nt jst d one dat wil slap and beat without caring,u see reason why most women stick with abusive men |
Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by nigeriagospel(m): 10:41pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
Mekus68:dnt get her wrng she meant a man in control nt a man dat cn be foot matched,no woman love a man they cn control the earlier u knw dis d beta |
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