aribisala0:
My mother? Are you mad wetin consign you with my mother on top Nairaland matter? Na Ogun go kill your mother wherever she dey dey sell kerosine.May her adulterated kerosine explode and roast the biitch to ashes. Wetin dey worry una. You tink say everybody for internet na ya mate? You done already open ya smelling mouth dey mention my mother Ogun go play with una family for 29 days

LOL that's funny is that all you got

aribisala0:
My mother? Are you mad wetin consign you with my mother on top Nairaland matter? Na Ogun go kill your mother wherever she dey dey sell kerosine.May her adulterated kerosine explode and roast the biitch to ashes. Wetin dey worry una. You tink say everybody for internet na ya mate? You done already open ya smelling mouth dey mention my mother Ogun go play with una family for 29 days

LOL that's funny is that all you got keep living a miserable life if you like treat your wife in a miserable way like yourself that's your business even when she is pregnant that's if you can actually get her pregnant abandon her it's your business keep insulting people because that's what people like you are good for

aribisala0:
My mother? Are you mad wetin consign you with my mother on top Nairaland matter? Na Ogun go kill your mother wherever she dey dey sell kerosine.May her adulterated kerosine explode and roast the biitch to ashes. Wetin dey worry una. You tink say everybody for internet na ya mate? You done already open ya smelling mouth dey mention my mother Ogun go play with una family for 29 days

LOL that's funny is that all you got keep living a miserable life if you like treat your wife in a miserable way like yourself that's your business even when she is pregnant that's if you can actually get her pregnant abandon her it's your business keep insulting people because that's what people like you are good for

aribisala0:
My mother? Are you mad wetin consign you with my mother on top Nairaland matter? Na Ogun go kill your mother wherever she dey dey sell kerosine.May her adulterated kerosine explode and roast the biitch to ashes. Wetin dey worry una. You tink say everybody for internet na ya mate? You done already open ya smelling mouth dey mention my mother Ogun go play with una family for 29 days

LOL that's funny is that all you got keep living a miserable life if you like treat your wife in a miserable way like yourself that's your business even when she is pregnant that's if you can actually get her pregnant abandon her it's your business keep insulting people because that's what people like you are good for

meilleur:
I AM LOSING MY MIND, KINDLY ADVISE.
I am a doctor and corper, posted to one of the military hospitals in Lagos. I was actually pregnant b4 service and few months in service, I was delivered of a baby.
I was made to observe my maternity leave and I resumed this January but ever since resumption, it has not been easy.
I returned this Jan to meet a newly posted military boss (doctor) who hasn’t made life bearable for my daughter and I
I was initially taking my baby to work, but as a baby, she is susceptible to infections of all kinds. I opted to take her to a day care. I worked 8am to 2pm before this new boss, but now, 8am to 4pm.
And two weekends in a month, I do ‘weekend call’ which makes the matter worse, for such a week, I practically have few hours to spend with my baby and the government is talking of 6 months exclusive breastfeeding. I met with another LGI who said corpers were not meant to do calls.
I don’t need all time off work, all I need is my normal 8am-2pm, Mon to Fri I was doing and I will manage to cope without complaining.
I thought NYSC promised married and nursing mothers a better treatment, if not, I would have waited till this yr, now that I am even 30.
My concern is my baby, she is growing seriously lean by the day, she lacks attention and my boss doesn’t care. She has had persistent rashes and big boils for over a month she resumed day care and its totally driving me crazy.
I went to see my Local govt inspector to complain only for him to chicken out just because a military woman lambasted him on phone, leaving me to my fate.
If something bad happens to my 5-month old daughter, NYSC wld say, "but why were u silent?"
It’s a military setting and really don’t know the process of lodging complaints. My boss seems to be a sadist, maybe not, but she has really never been nice to me.
A scenario; My baby was hot overnight and I felt I needed to watch her a little before dropping her at the day care, and I felt I needed to inform my boss. I called her, no response, sent her a text message of late coming, she didn’t respond only for me to get to work and she said all sorts.
Her own grown child fell ill, she took the day off. If this is what NYSC is all about, it is seriously not worth it! I have 2 months to complete NYSC, but I can’t help seeing my baby in this condition. Even at work, I lose focus.
Can u imagine what a doctor out of her senses can do?? Its tearing me apart!!
Am I taking it too personal or the treatment should be fairer? I am literally losing my mind and nobody is fighting my course.
WHAT DO I DO?

Please, attend to the needs of your baby. That is your priority! You are a Corps member, and not a full time staff, and should not be treated as such!! Apply formally for a break, ignore your LGI and press serious complain over at NYSC office and make sure they minute on it, then carry on as you deem appropriate with your baby's health. As for the military officer, I believe she's not a sadist, she's a maniac... She's mad, a fellow mother at that. Ignore her ranting, threats and all, cos that's all she can do, and the worst she can ever do is to report you to NYSC authority or refuse to recommend you for possible employment. If anything happens to your baby, nothing will change in that reference hospital or anywhere else... You will leave to regret for the rest of your life why you chose work as priority over your baby. What's your husband saying? Don't worry, it's almost over... Less than two months. Keep the spirit up and your mind at peace.

Egalitarian1:




And from today, you shall become a son of somebody and your children shall be sons and daughters of somebody in Jesus name, Amen! Happy Sunday and divine connection to you!

Amen. I claim. You are noted for my testimony. Thanks

meilleur:
I AM LOSING MY MIND, KINDLY ADVISE.
I am a doctor and corper, posted to one of the military hospitals in Lagos. I was actually pregnant b4 service and few months in service, I was delivered of a baby.
I was made to observe my maternity leave and I resumed this January but ever since resumption, it has not been easy.
I returned this Jan to meet a newly posted military boss (doctor) who hasn’t made life bearable for my daughter and I
I was initially taking my baby to work, but as a baby, she is susceptible to infections of all kinds. I opted to take her to a day care. I worked 8am to 2pm before this new boss, but now, 8am to 4pm.
And two weekends in a month, I do ‘weekend call’ which makes the matter worse, for such a week, I practically have few hours to spend with my baby and the government is talking of 6 months exclusive breastfeeding. I met with another LGI who said corpers were not meant to do calls.
I don’t need all time off work, all I need is my normal 8am-2pm, Mon to Fri I was doing and I will manage to cope without complaining.
I thought NYSC promised married and nursing mothers a better treatment, if not, I would have waited till this yr, now that I am even 30.
My concern is my baby, she is growing seriously lean by the day, she lacks attention and my boss doesn’t care. She has had persistent rashes and big boils for over a month she resumed day care and its totally driving me crazy.
I went to see my Local govt inspector to complain only for him to chicken out just because a military woman lambasted him on phone, leaving me to my fate.
If something bad happens to my 5-month old daughter, NYSC wld say, "but why were u silent?"
It’s a military setting and really don’t know the process of lodging complaints. My boss seems to be a sadist, maybe not, but she has really never been nice to me.
A scenario; My baby was hot overnight and I felt I needed to watch her a little before dropping her at the day care, and I felt I needed to inform my boss. I called her, no response, sent her a text message of late coming, she didn’t respond only for me to get to work and she said all sorts.
Her own grown child fell ill, she took the day off. If this is what NYSC is all about, it is seriously not worth it! I have 2 months to complete NYSC, but I can’t help seeing my baby in this condition. Even at work, I lose focus.
Can u imagine what a doctor out of her senses can do?? Its tearing me apart!!
Am I taking it too personal or the treatment should be fairer? I am literally losing my mind and nobody is fighting my course.
WHAT DO I DO?

Try quitting?

Write an official letter to your LGI about your situation and also write a higher ranking official in your PPA.If nothing is done,write to NYSC and then threaten to sue them if anything happens to your baby cos u are given more than what u are supposed to be given without consideration being a nursing mother.Your strong point should be the call issue. I know we don't have a functional society but try see what comes out of it.Make sure u have a copy of all the letters. If na by mouth te fit deny if the need arise. God be with you.

henriettanenye:
Drop your contact let me know your location and what my husband can do about this

0*8*1*666*29752. that's my phone number ma

Bros trust me, that one year is not worth it, except you just wanna cool off after house job and read for exams.
A larger number of doctors are better off skipping service.

gone are d days wen there are jobs.

dingbang:
How can d op be a male yet be pregnant. Mchew

Very simple der are Female Doctors just as their are Male Nurses too Shikena

primary school student Self sabi this Na
All the 85 people that liked this comment am quoting and the shares needs to be flogged koboko

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