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Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by chukagora(m): 3:09pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
adepeter26:go-to first Corinthians 11vs 1 to end. You will see the position of women in the church. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
chukagora:That thing is too much..... Give me the exact chapter with verse |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Priest69(m): 3:13pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Marriages that were officiated by male pastors also fail so what difference would that of a female pastor make? Besides we should understand that there's a fine line between religion and culture. The bible is centered around the Jewish culture which does not give room for women in her society 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Shafiiimran99: 3:28pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
femi4:1 Corinthians 14:33-35 for God is not a God of confusion but of peace, as in all the churches of the saints. 34 Let the women keep silent in the churches; for they are not permitted to speak, but let them subject themselves, just as the Law also says. 35 And if they desire to learn anything, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is improper for a woman to speak in church. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Shafiiimran99: 3:41pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
NO GOD IS NOT A GOD OF CON CONFUSION BUT XTIANS ARE PEOPLE OF CONFUSION 1 Corinthians 14:33-35 for God is not a God of confusion but of peace, as in all the churches of the saints. 34 Let the women keep silent in the churches; for they are not permitted to speak, but let them subject themselves, just as the Law also says. 35 And if they desire to learn anything, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is improper for a woman to speak in church. 1 Timothy 2:12 12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man;[ a ] she must be quiet. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by femi4: 3:42pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Shafiiimran99:This is a specific instruction to the Church of Corinth during prophecy. Its not a general instruction, intact you won't find it else where. Its only during prophecy that you can have chaos where two or more people prophecy at the same time. The scripture below shows that a woman can prophesy 1Cor 11:5 5 but every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. Let's stop quoting scriptures out of context. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Shafiiimran99: 3:53pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
femi4:What about 1 Timothy 2:12 that didn't permit women to teach in church |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by femi4: 3:59pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Shafiiimran99:You should understand when Paul is giving his own opinion and when he is giving commanding instruction from God. "I do not" 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by profbabatunde: 4:05pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
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Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Shafiiimran99: 4:09pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
femi4:But he did inspired by God according to Bible |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Aragon: 5:02pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
ONWARDBABA: In the first place, There is nothing like "CHURCH WEDDING" in the Bible... Marriage is between two Families, where they meet they discuss the terms (Native Law and Custom) and after that they Bless the Marriage in their place of worship. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Vicolan: 5:29pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
odimbannamdi: Tell me any dt officiated wedding ceremony backed then |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by MarkGeraldo(m): 5:57pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
its like a woman ordaining a deacon priest absurd!! |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Christians and quoting scriptures wrongly. Even the whites that brought the Christianity to you have female pastors. Iranu abasha |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by dossylvanus(m): 6:07pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
I swear Nigerians are mentally chained! Religious slavery men! Did Jesus specifically ban women from performing religious tasks? In the culture of that day, women were subdued. After all, Isreal is part of the Arab world, that's why you still have some of these shared cultures in the Arabian countries. The corinthians verse you people are quoting was in response to a single church in Corinth. Obviously before then, you had women who acted in official capacities in the church. Women who prophesied and saw visions, etc That instruction was a temporary remedy for the problem in the church as at that time. It was not a general prescription. Paul was giving an opinion in his letter to Timothy. I'm sure if Paul was a contemporary today, his views some of these things may alter slightly. But since Nigerian culture segregates woman to the background, the lesser being , etc, I'm not surprised that there are people fighting tooth and nail to maintain this chauvinistic view. They'll be those kind of men who insist that the woman's only job is to cook and bear children. May God open your eyes and brain . That's why Africa will never develop. Landlocked religious mumbo jumbo. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
ONWARDBABA: There are 5 callings in the bible. Apostles, Prophets, Evangelists, Teachers and Pastors. Paul commanded that women should never serve as Pastors in the first place. A woman should not teach men in the house of God. She should ask her husband questions at home during pastors meetings. Make i quote ? |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by dossylvanus(m): 9:46pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Naughtysite: Is Paul the founder of Christianity or Jesus? Quote let's hear you. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
dossylvanus: 1 Corinthians 14 : 34-35 But Jesus used him to write 14 books of the bible. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by dossylvanus(m): 9:56pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Naughtysite:Lol In 1 Corinthians 14:34-35 , Paul wrote: “As in all the congregations of the saints, women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church” (vv. 33-35). If we take this literally, it would mean that women are not allowed to sing in church nor respond when the pastor asks for comments or questions from the audience. Moreover, it would contradict what Paul said in chapter 11, where he said that women could pray and prophesy in church if they had the appropriate attire. Common sense, church custom, and good principles of biblical interpretation all say that we should not take these verses literally—and almost no one does. Paul is not making a blanket prohibition that says that women can never speak in church. Rather, he was addressing his comments to a certain situation, and his comments are limited in some way. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by dossylvanus(m): 9:58pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
It should be recalled that Paul has already indicated in
this letter—1 Corinthians—that women did participate in
prayer and prophecy with the authority in the church
(1 Corinthians 11:5, 10; 14:3–5). This fact alone shows
that 1 Corinthians 14:34–35 cannot be a general,
absolute, and timeless prohibition on women speaking
in church.
It was common at one time to “dismiss” the evidence
of 1 Corinthians 11:5, 10 (and a few would still argue
this position). It was suggested that 1 Corinthians
11:2–16 did not refer to a meeting of the church but
only to a private non-church gathering. The whole
context of 1 Corinthians 11:2–14:40, the argument of 1
Corinthians 11:16, and the parallel between 1
Corinthians 11:2 and 11:17 make such an idea most
untenable. Some have even suggested that 1
Corinthians 11:5 was only hypothetical, but such an
approach is clearly an argument of desperation.
The silence enjoined in 1 Corinthians 14:34–35 must be
a specific, limited silence. Numerous suggestions have
been offered, but only the major alternatives can be
reviewed here (some scholars, with slight evidence,
have also suggested either that 1 Corinthians 14:34–35
was not written by Paul but was inserted by a copyist
or that it is a question from Paul’s opponents in
Corinth which Paul denounces in 1 Corinthians 14:36).
One view is that the speaking prohibited here is mere
babbling. There is, however, nothing specific in the
context to support this meaning of “speak,” and such
nonsense would certainly have been prohibited to all
persons in the worship Paul described. Another view
suggests that the speaking prohibited is speaking in
tongues (glossolalia ) since that is frequently mentioned
in the preceding context (1 Corinthians 14).
However, glossolalia is always referred to as “tongues”
or “speaking in tongues” and never simply as
speaking.
Probably the most popular view today among those
who oppose women speaking with authority in the
church is to identify the speaking prohibited with the
judgment of the prophets mentioned in 1 Corinthians
14:29. Thus, it is argued that women may prophesy (1
Corinthians 11:5) but may not judge or evaluate
prophecy. The evaluation of prophecy is seen as the
truly authoritative level of speech in the church from
which women are to be excluded.
This view has two major difficulties. First, the word
“speak” in 1 Corinthians 14:34 has no implication within
the word itself or in its immediate context (14:34–35)
to support identifying it with the concept of prophetic
evaluation. Second, the idea of two levels of speech in
the church—prophecy and the judgment of prophecy—
with the understanding that one is higher than the
other and is for men only has no clear or implied
support elsewhere in Paul. In fact, Paul’s own
definition and defense of prophecy (1 Corinthians
14:1–25) implies directly that prophecy itself is
authoritative speech of the highest level in the church.
The view that seems best to me is to understand the
speaking prohibited here to women to refer only to
disruptive questions that wives (usually uneducated in
the culture of Paul’s time) were asking their husbands.
This corresponds precisely with the resolution Paul
offers (1 Corinthians 14:35): “if they want to inquire
about something, they should ask their own husbands
at home. . . .” Such disruptive questioning was also
considered a disgrace in Paul’s day in which it was
widely believed that it was morally indiscreet for any
wife to say anything on any subject in public. This
view of disruptive questioning also fits well the
specific context (1 Corinthians 14:26–40) in which Paul
is concerned about appropriateness and order, which
permit genuine edification (note that 1 Corinthians
14:26 expects everyone to participate). Thus, there are
actually three injunctions to silence (1 Corinthians
14:28, 30, 34), although many Bible translations use
“silent” only in 1 Corinthians 14:34. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by dossylvanus(m): 10:01pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Make una dey turn Christianity upside down. Christianity in Africa is practiced without common sense and critical thinking. That's why pastors get away with many atrocities. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by dossylvanus(m): 10:04pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
First Timothy 2:8–15 is the paragraph in the New
Testament that provides the injunctions (2:11–12)
most often cited as conclusive by those who oppose
preaching, teaching, and leadership ministries for
women in the church. It is inappropriate, however, to
isolate verses 11–12 from the immediate context of 1
Timothy 2:8–15. If any of the paragraph is perceived
as culturally bound (as 2:8–10 often is) or as especially
difficult in terms of Pauline theology (as 2:15 often is),
it must be realized that these same issues must be
confronted in understanding 2:11–14.
It should also be observed that 1 Timothy 2:11–12 is a
general prohibition on teaching and authority exercised
by women. It is not directed to only a certain level of
persons (such as “ordained” in distinction from “non-
ordained” or “pastors” as distinct from “missionaries”).
Further, it is not limited to only certain styles of
teaching (“preaching” as distinct from “sharing,”
seminary teaching, or writing theological books). In
other words, if 1 Timothy 2:11–12 were a
transcultural, absolute prohibition on women teaching
and exercising authority in the church, then it prohibits
all such activity.
The word in verses 11 and 12 often translated as “in
quietness” (11) and “silent” (12) is identical in Greek.
The same term is used by Paul in 2 Thessalonians
3:12, which the NIV translates as “settle down.” The
point is that this term, which is often assumed to
mean only “verbal silence,” is better understood as an
indication of proper order or acceptance of normal
practice. The term translated “to have
authority” ( authentein) occurs only here in the New
Testament and was rarely used in the Greek language.
It is not the usual word for positive, active authority.
Rather, it is a negative term, which refers to the
usurpation and abuse of authority. Thus, the
prohibition (2:11–12) is against some abusive activity,
but not against the appropriate exercise of teaching
and authority in the church. The clue to the abuse
implied is found within the heretical activity outlined in
1–2 Timothy. The heretics evidently had a deviant
approach to sexuality (1 Timothy 4:3; 5:11–15) and a
particular focus on deluding women, who were
generally uneducated (2 Timothy 3:6–7).
The injunctions are supported with selective Genesis
arguments (1 Timothy 2:13–14), using Genesis 2 rather
than Genesis 1 (2:13) and the fact of Eve’s deception
(2:14, see the use of this in 2 Corinthians 11:3 for male
heretics). The function of the Genesis argument is
parallel to its use in 1 Corinthians 11:7–9 where it is
employed to argue that women must have their heads
covered in prayer and prophecy. In both cases
scriptural argument is employed to buttress a
localized, limited instruction. The concluding word of
hope for women (1 Timothy 2:15) is an affirmation of
the role of bearing and nurturing children, a role
considered as the only appropriate one by many in the
culture who believed women incapable of other roles
as well. This conclusion (2:15) is parallel in thrust to 1
Timothy 5:3–16 and Titus 2:3–5, both of which are
concerned with specific cultural expectations. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
dossylvanus: I responded to someone who quoted my earlier statement. And i stated. " There are 5 callings in the bible, Apostles, Prophets, Evangelists, Pastors and Teachers. Women are not permitted to be Pastors. " He wanted to know why. So i gave him 1 Cor 14 : 34 and 35. There was definitely an issue in the Corinthian church which made Paul to issue those warnings.. There are female Prophets, Teachers and Evangelists. Of course, they speak in church... But under authorithy.. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by Jeffy1206(m): 10:36pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Na football match? Officiate ke |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by chukagora(m): 7:32pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
adepeter26:read vs 10 to 15 |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by gudofuck231: 3:15pm On Aug 07, 2017 |
argon500: Use four figure table I beg |
Re: Is It Okay For A Female Pastor To Officiate A Wedding Ceremony? by samuelezekiel(m): 11:26am On Nov 26, 2017 |
geekybabe: Am not saying that God can not use a woman, in fact we have lots of instances in the bible, but as a pastor in a church. Do you know of that according to the bible women are not allowed to speak in the church? 1 corinthians 14:34, 1 Timothy 2:11-12,. And in 1 Timothy 3 it talk about qualities of a bishop and a deacon- male not female. |
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