he man I'm seeing now is no longer the man I used to know that always like to be with me

generalbush:


Two options for you

1) Kill yourself

2) Tell him/her "fvck you" in the face and move on!!

If I were you.. I would choose number 1.

Note: I didn't read! ... It was too long and cramped!

Herriettakamsy:
Thanks for your advise but the issue now is that my family is yet to know what is happening, I'm really ashamed of myself, I don't know what to do to make things right again for me and my unborn child. I'm in a middle of nowhere, I'm the last in my family and this is not what expect from me. Please candid advise is needed.

Herriettakamsy:
he said all the people he asked said I did it deliberately for that reason he will not change his mind

Herriettakamsy:
We were classmates, we've dated for like 5 to 6 years. Even after my mum's death he was always there, he supports me emotional,financially and he became more than a friend to me. I love him so much which he knew. He took me out from my house when my siblings abandoned our sick father for me to take of while I was not doing tangible thing to sustain myself and my dad. He rented apartment for me, took care of my needs and wellbeing, I tried all I could to secure a job all to no avail, I engaged myself in a business which later flopped. He is also a businessman, and he is doing well. My problem started when I got pregnant, he insisted that I must terminate the pregnancy which I couldn't do because I was afraid, I've never done such thing since my life. And since we knew such has never happened. I pleaded with him but he still insist that I must get rid of the pregnancy or I take care of the baby by myself. He told me his stand in the situation he will not change his mind, he said he knew he is the father of the baby just that he don't want the baby, that a girl can't use pregnancy to make him to marry her, he believes what is a deliberate action which is not true. The worst part of it is that I'm jobless, been sick bc of the pregnancy, and I don't have to do what he wanted me to do because I confided with my uncle from my maternal home, he took me to hospital to terminate the pregnancy but the doctor said something about my life being in danger if I get that done, I told him how I went to hospital and what the doctor said. When the pregnancy was about 14weeks and 5days, he took me to ultra sound to check the status of foetus, the doctor confirmed that the baby is ok, he asked us if we want to know the sex of the baby, he said yes, he told him that the baby is a boy, immediately we came out of the hospital, he asked me if I'm ready to take the pills to terminate the pregnancy which I declined. Since then he sees me like an enemy, he said all the people he asked said I did it deliberately for that reason he will not change his mind, as of last week when the baby is about 18weeks he still advised me to g t rid of the pregnancy, he don't care what will become of me whether I will die in the process. The man I'm seeing now is no longer the man I used to know that always like to be with me. Please matured advise is needed. Help a broken heart.

Herriettakamsy:
We were classmates, we've dated for like 5 to 6 years. Even after my mum's death he was always there, he supports me emotional,financially and he became more than a friend to me. I love him so much which he knew. He took me out from my house when my siblings abandoned our sick father for me to take of while I was not doing tangible thing to sustain myself and my dad. He rented apartment for me, took care of my needs and wellbeing, I tried all I could to secure a job all to no avail, I engaged myself in a business which later flopped. He is also a businessman, and he is doing well. My problem started when I got pregnant, he insisted that I must terminate the pregnancy which I couldn't do because I was afraid, I've never done such thing since my life. And since we knew such has never happened. I pleaded with him but he still insist that I must get rid of the pregnancy or I take care of the baby by myself. He told me his stand in the situation he will not change his mind, he said he knew he is the father of the baby just that he don't want the baby, that a girl can't use pregnancy to make him to marry her, he believes what is a deliberate action which is not true. The worst part of it is that I'm jobless, been sick bc of the pregnancy, and I don't have to do what he wanted me to do because I confided with my uncle from my maternal home, he took me to hospital to terminate the pregnancy but the doctor said something about my life being in danger if I get that done, I told him how I went to hospital and what the doctor said. When the pregnancy was about 14weeks and 5days, he took me to ultra sound to check the status of foetus, the doctor confirmed that the baby is ok, he asked us if we want to know the sex of the baby, he said yes, he told him that the baby is a boy, immediately we came out of the hospital, he asked me if I'm ready to take the pills to terminate the pregnancy which I declined. Since then he sees me like an enemy, he said all the people he asked said I did it deliberately for that reason he will not change his mind, as of last week when the baby is about 18weeks he still advised me to g t rid of the pregnancy, he don't care what will become of me whether I will die in the process. The man I'm seeing now is no longer the man I used to know that always like to be with me. Please matured advise is needed. Help a broken heart.