drkhenny:
I have been dating her for about 5yrs now.
I went for a course in delta state while she went to serve in oyo state at thesame time and she was posted to one village where there is no light and no internet connection. Initially she use to come to delta state to see me almost every month, but at a time i got very busy that we couldnt see every month again. I called her on this faithful day and i realised she wasnt alone so i asked her where she was and she told me she was at home in her PPA. So i checked her on whatsapp and i realised she was online. Later in the night i called her and i noticed she was sneaking out of her room to pick my call so i challenged her that why was she sneaking out and how come she was online in the afternoon. She knew there was no way she could have lied again and then she revealed to me that she went to stay with one of her male friend serving in edo state cos she was bored. She appologised to me that she could have told me but i wouldnt allow her to go because i dont trust her. N.B.This is an habit have known with her for as along as we have been dating. She doesnt see anything wrong in sleeping over in her male friends house. Her arguement is always that she doesnt have a female friend she can trust. WHAT IS YOUR OPINION ON THIS.

My opinion??

Just keep walking!

No matter what you guys say, the op will never leave the girl, he will still find reason to either ignore the matter or forgive her.
And just to make it clear to you Op. She lied to you also when she said she spent only 5days with the guy. Don't ask me how I got to know

baralatie:

so if a young lady was in your bed(not you gf,wife) and in the middle of the night at 11.45p.m she starts massaging your engine.you will seat her up and tell her " lady stop this nonsense!it is wrong in my book!


Havana banana haha!
lmao!


brother!you will have pumped the girl first follow up for bathroom before you go remember anything

Kkkkkkk bwaaaaah, she will receive a hot slap, follow by a lecture on our friendship, and the lack of respect she has for my woman (as she probably knows her).

Dreamwaker:
Trust is very important. A few female friends have slept in my house on the same bed and nothing happened. Although as a man, I tried to turn her on but she said she no do so I let her be.

Kemenization 101

sirusX:

Kemenization 101

Kemenistry 499. Knowing how far to go in the touching is not a first year course.

Dreamwaker:


Kemenistry 499. Knowing how far to go in the touching is not a first year course.

I salute your knowledge and experience

Maryclaire1:
If really they are friends I see no reason why she will sneak out to receive your calls.if truely u are the only one she is dating and she is close to all her (male)friends to the extend of sleeping over for days they should know about u...to clear all doubt as a guy suggested above talk to the said friend.

Best comment so far...

MrBrownJay1:


Kkkkkkk bwaaaaah, she will receive a hot slap, follow by a lecture on our friendship, and the lack of respect she has for my woman (as she probably knows her).

that is what Samson said!