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I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 11:37pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
SHE IS JUST SO FOND OF ME AND I KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS ...BUT I HAVE NO INTENTION OF CHEATING ON MY WIFE ... AND I WILL NOT... all i need is advice on how to tell this lady off without bruising her feelings. ...Thanks in advance! ...and please i have no trash can to resident okpata from kids here... ONLY MATURED AND SENSIBLE ADVICE PLS! THANKS! |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Parpor(m): 11:39pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Karlman:Lemmi just book a space first |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by TosinDru: 11:45pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Sometimes it's better to go on the offensive. If you try telling her in a mild manner, she might think you're actually interested in her and that's why you're taking it lightly. Better safe than sorry. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 11:46pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Parpor:IS ALLOWED ...just no yan okpata in the end because i no get dustbin here. |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by bizza45: 11:49pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
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Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Parpor(m): 11:54pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Karlman:Lols. U Berra no allow her temptations catch u ohh,trust me you won't like it at the end |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:54pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Fvck her na. No time to waste time 1 Like |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 11:57pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Parpor:naaa that is a no no |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 11:59pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
TosinDru:you have a point there... |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Parpor(m): 12:01am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Karlman:Okay boss 1 Like |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:03am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Karlman: If you indeed have no intentions of cheating then you wouldnt't have opened this thread caring about what this disrespectful woman thinks. If she had any respect for you or your union, she wouldn't try to have you cheat on your wife. all i need is advice on how to tell this lady off without bruising her feelings. ...Thanks in advance! ...and please If you really cared for your union and really don't want to cheat then you must get rid of such disrespectful women from your life. The fact that you even care about not hurting her feelings is disturbing, and if you truly need advice on what to do, then i suggest you ask your wife, she will surely have the proper solution. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 12:04am On Apr 05, 2017 |
folarinmiles:didnt i warn you about the absence of trash can here? now there is no where to put this your okpata |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by dpete1: 12:07am On Apr 05, 2017 |
If you told her already and she is still not leaving you, just tell your wife bout it. Let your wife treat her Bleep up 1 Like |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 12:14am On Apr 05, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:YOU are mean and suspicious ...i will not do anything with her and thats it ...i am very discipline person ...and she is not the first person to come along. ...YOU ARE RATHER TOO PRESUMPTIOUS IN YOUR JUDGEMENT BOTH TO ME AND EVEN TO HER ...you probably shoulda asked one or two questions before making conclusions |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 12:16am On Apr 05, 2017 |
dpete1:Hmm! you are on point. |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:24am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Karlman: Your focus is on this girl, and how not to hurt her feelings while it should be on your union... Here is a clue: if there was a male friend of your wife bothering her for sex, would you really want her to A) stay in contact with such person, B) care about not hurting his feelings and C) ask NLers what to do instead of telling you?! Again, ask your dear wife for the solution 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 12:36am On Apr 05, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:I DO UNDERSTAND YOUR POINT ...but you seem to have this feeling that i want to sleep with her which is a no no... that i put up the matter here for discuss should not be seen as a weakness but as a strength of my ability to make open such matter to show it is nothing of importance to me. |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:41am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Karlman: Well you seem to forget that there are two people that feelings may be hurt here.... But sadly you decide to care about this lady's feelings while disregarding the feelings of your wife on the issue. You clearly have shown which is more important to you. |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by linearity: 12:42am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Karlman: Your downfall will be your fear of 'bruising her feelings'. As long as you have that as an objective knowing fully well her ulterior motives, you will eventually compromise, not today, no tomorrow, but very soon. Obviously, she does not care about the sanctity of your marriage. So, you have to decide which is of more importance to you; the sanctity of your marriage or bruising her feelings, then act accordingly. |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by zealblinks(m): 12:49am On Apr 05, 2017 |
It's very simple bro. Just call her tell her that you are a married man, you ain't interested simple. And if your still on i dont want to hurt her that means something is between you guys that you dont want to tell us. |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 12:49am On Apr 05, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:i donT think youd make a good judge ...this matter has not gotten to where you are taking it...and worst, you dont listen, you simply pickd the first thing i said and held to it with a baby grip... |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 1:01am On Apr 05, 2017 |
linearity:i think some of you misunderstood that line ...telling her off without bruising her feeling......what i simply meant was how to cut her off in a civilized manner...thats all. |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Nobody: 1:02am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Karlman:do you take drugs? |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 1:06am On Apr 05, 2017 |
zealblinks:your first sentence was all that was needed...dont know why you had to add that misunderstood line |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:08am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Karlman: Again, tell your wife and be done with this issue, or keep playing yourself about keeping such disrespectful female friends in your life. |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 1:12am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Jacksparr0w127:DOES this place look like where you can peddle your drugs...you are high on your own supply too bad. |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Nobody: 1:14am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Karlman:why you ranting? My friend go and sleep |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 1:15am On Apr 05, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:she is actually a customer.... this are some of the things you should have askd |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:20am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Karlman: Friend/ customer / neighbor etc.... Same disrespectful act. |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by Karlman: 1:24am On Apr 05, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:so in the case of customer how best do you go about it? |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:27am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Karlman: Same way man, that person's money isn't worth the peace in our marriage. If this lady is not willing to respect your union then get rid of her from your life. |
Re: I Am Married But This Lady Is So Fond Of Me...what Do I Do? by linearity: 2:56am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Karlman: Honestly, there should be no diplomacy in telling her an emphatic No, don't say or behave in a manner that she will interpret as you empathizing with her or that you understand her situation or the reason(s) she might be having such feelings. Tell her you are married and are offended that, she does not respect your marriage, yourself or your wife. Tell her you love your wife and will remain faithful to her. I believe the above is civilize enough; you are not calling her names, or disparaging her, you are just telling it as it is. |
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