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Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by coolshegs10(m): 9:47am On Apr 06, 2017 |
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Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Lexusgs430: 9:47am On Apr 06, 2017 |
It is when she is alive, that she can take care of her kids. Would she rather be a physical mother or spiritual mother ? 7 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by sagerasaq: 9:47am On Apr 06, 2017 |
even me dy think twice about dis marriage mata ooooo.... Na babymama be d sure way now ooooo |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by delishpot: 9:48am On Apr 06, 2017 |
In nigeria, bride price =ownership he owns her now and religion says she should sit there and submit. So, when he kills her, we will be her to type rip and ask why she did not leave. If she leaves we will still abuse her for not fasting and praying enoughm for not submiting enoughm for not keeping quiet while he was lording it over her, for daring to challenge him. Any which way, Nigerians would blame her. 7 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Punctual(m): 9:51am On Apr 06, 2017 |
baby124: according to the post,the woman is ready to leave bt can't do that because of her kids.... |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by iamkingzlee(m): 9:51am On Apr 06, 2017 |
You call this one a husband? sigh 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Lexusgs430: 9:52am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Solobenny: It is when she is alive, that she can take care of her kids. Would she rather be a physical mother or spiritual mother ? 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Bants(m): 9:53am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Some stupid people who like been treated like punching bag will say she should stay...Your cousin sound like some one who can stand on her 2 feet without a man...Trust me she will survive a single mum is a human being so to hell with all the stigma...Dont let her die and then you will blame it on devil 7 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by juman(m): 9:55am On Apr 06, 2017 |
She should encourage her husband to let them put their marriage right by visiting a marriage councilor. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by willibounce1(m): 9:56am On Apr 06, 2017 |
If he wants a divorce, there is no.problem provided he must take responsibility for the children. He must be made to sign a document to provide school fees, feeding. Clothing and other allowances for the children. Failure to do this, the court must seize all his properties and give them to the children. If he doesn't have any property, he should be jailed. Don't go around getting married and phucking to produce children you can't take care of. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 9:56am On Apr 06, 2017 |
2kaybiel:Bro, what are you typing? Are you ok in the head? ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by xavier047: 9:56am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Solobenny: Hi OP, i think it is best you read and take the best advice you can get from this forum and stop replying to EVERY COMMENT that you are not pleased with. Remember you choose to bring your issues to the public, so don't cry foul when someone makes an own opinion that is different from what you expect!! 5 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by DollarAngel(m): 9:57am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Some dream about Heaven though they live in hell |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by hotspec(m): 9:57am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Solobenny. divorce is not d option yet. Let her go and get an apartment to tay alone with d children. I blv d husband is under some kind of internal or external influence and conflict. And i want to blv d wife has a more stable.job and make.more.money than d husband. The woman can just try to stay on her own ( @ least for.now). Her being alive (life) is very important. If she died (God forbid) as a result of d domestic violence, husband will remarry one of his many mistresses within 6 months. Since she has a good job, she shd just concentrate on raising d children.and.forget abt d man. But, u also shd be careful how u interfere in d afairs, because d issue of husband and wife is very delicate, else they break d proverbial coconut on ur head. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 10:00am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Pidgin2: izospindle: May such fate befall you both. Then, people will stay away from your marriage 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Ejimchiglo: 10:00am On Apr 06, 2017 |
If she has done her part and no change, my dear is better she leaves with her body intact ,than to lose some part ,or even her life. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by xavier047: 10:00am On Apr 06, 2017 |
adorablepepple: Chill Kiddo.... you just allow your emotions get the better of you. Now read what the individual wrote and you will agree that no issue is judged based on one side of a story such as that of the OP Be guided lady.. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by luminouz(m): 10:00am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Solobenny:She is ur cousin is she not? Can u vouch for her character for d past one year? D guy might be a drunk....but most men are driven to drink coz they are not happy.....u ever considered DAT? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 10:02am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Are you new to this world? Rare ko rare ni ![]() 2kaybiel: 5 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Stricker321: 10:02am On Apr 06, 2017 |
willibounce1: God bless you! 8 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by confido2017: 10:03am On Apr 06, 2017 |
I want to commend based on what has happened to my younger sister. My dear before you see a man opt for divorce or separation things must ve happened at the back which your sister is yet to come to terms or know. My sister's ex hubby did same. This is after my sister had miscarriage of twins (a boy and girl). We d family members pleaded but he still insisted on separation which finally took place. Today he got married to a lady (ordained minister) in their Church which my sister was meeting to plead on her behalf. The TM was this 1st April, 2017, the white wedding will be 9th April, 2017 in the same Church. In conclusion, I just want your sister to make up her mind for the single motherhood. For him to say dat while she's mourning, it's extreme. Though it isn't easy but is it not beta dan been dead and anoda so called step mum with maltreat her children. The Bible is against DIVORCE but when ones life is at stake, oh men..... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 10:04am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Wht internal and external conflict? Do you enjoy making cases for beasts? hotspec: 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by piragirl(f): 10:05am On Apr 06, 2017 |
please tell your cousin to join FIN FAMALE IN NIGERIA,should will get best advice,meet women that has gone through worse,shoulders to lean on and above all no one will jurge her unlike some people naira lander.let her send me her Fb details so i can add her.ayoajayi262@gmail.com. Best regards 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by berrystunn(m): 10:05am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Wait oo |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 10:05am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Yeah, she is the reason for his irresponsible attitude ![]() luminouz: 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Larasisi(f): 10:05am On Apr 06, 2017 |
obviously the man is a psychopath all she needs is to get busy with her job and have little or no reason to be hopelessly dependent on him. God is head over him and she must be able to always take all her pains to him.He will restrain him from going all the way out to hurt her. Let her read Malachi 2 where God said he hates divorce and stand on that verse that way divorce will not be an option for her. God is alive. I know what she is going through. Be strong in the Lord. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by luminouz(m): 10:05am On Apr 06, 2017 |
adorablepepple:I support his opinion......d woman could also be guilty u know....I noticed u get sentimental on these issues...y babe... U married or something? ![]() |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by 1Rebel: 10:06am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Once I saw the part where you typed that she's a nurse, I shook my head in pity. If only this woman knows how much money she would make when she leaves his violent a.ss. This must be said: NO REASON IS ENOUGH TO STOMACH DOMESTIC VIOLENCE! LEAVE BEFORE YOU'RE KILLED! 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 10:07am On Apr 06, 2017 |
Be patient and prayerful. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 10:09am On Apr 06, 2017 |
If have doest want a divorce, sh can always leave the house for him with her kids. Na by force to stay married? Doesnt any she have any regards for her happiness, life and health? If her can't help herself, what about her kids? I.cant believe she waited for the man to mention divorce ![]() Solobenny: 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by luminouz(m): 10:09am On Apr 06, 2017 |
daretodiffer:Now am beginning to think ur a monitoring spirit.... Always tracking me....shuuu BTW....has anyone even asked d guy what happened? A man does not go crazy n drunk on a whim..... U so believed the wife's version coz ur a woman!!!! Something happened to make him like DAT!!!!!! Just think about that!!!! Some Women can so play d victim card eh....yet they are d vampires |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by thorpido(m): 10:09am On Apr 06, 2017 |
farous:Not true@bolded.Some men are not marriageable.They either grew up in unstable homes or picked up some unsavoury behaviours somewhere.They do not love or have become incapable of loving and they generally do not treat women well.It has nothing to do with what the woman does or does not do. Anyway,you said sane men. 7 Likes 1 Share |
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