funkybaby:

simple:

she does not respect you
she does not love you
she is just not into you
she is obviously not keen about the relationship

in summary, she no send you. 

solution:
call her and have a one-on-one chat with her. tell her everything you have noticed so far, express all your concerns to her and ask her what her thoughts are/expectations from the relationship.

from her answers and attitude, you should be able to know if she is serious or n

breathless link=topic=372596.msg5200686#msg5200686 date=1262007215:

Poater, consider yourself lucky for all dis revelation u are confessing yourself. My guess id dat she's just using u 2 support her education financially after which na waka get am. U av bn blessed n priviliedged 2 witness dis happenings. Don't waste time calling 2 talk anything. Stop communicating in any form, assume sh e never existed, find a new passion in  a sport or vocation, free your mind n feel gd 2 mingle. Bros, @ your level, u don't nd a student 4 a lover. There a beautiful, single, working-class, financially stable, no liability and God-fearing babes out there looking 4 who 2 tangle wt. and u are here falling sick n dying for dat which who is even more that willing 2 send u 2 your early grave. Its not worth it. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE.
[/quot[quote author=frijos link=topic=372596.msg5200711#msg5200711 date=1262007601]
the book "48 laws of power" by Robert Greene is a must read for every human. [b[b]]For this particular case i recommend the 17th Law which is the law of absense and presence. we take for granted things that are always present and miss those which we don't see too often[/b][/b]. In this case mr poster u've made yourself too available to your girlfriend thereby reducing the level of attraction. My advise is that u stop calling, texting and any other forms of communicating with her. Two things might result in this 1. she might call u and beg for forgiveness 2. she may not call u at all. now if no. 2 is the result i suggest u get urself a new girlfriend and realise that u can't afford to make the same old mistakes. That's the beauty of mistakes man they make u a better person. However, remember to make urself omnipresent when starting a relationship then dissappear once in a while when the relationship is fully matured. Goodluck!
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These posters have said the really solutions to what u r facing.She doesnt really care abt you and she doesnt love u as well.She is just using you and whn she comes back to tell you she is sorry,she only pretends to be sorry but she is not.You cant hv sex with her but i am sure she i shaving it with another guy but she doesnt have feelings for you.
Be a man and cut her off your life ,dont listen to her pleas or cry .Bros am talking from experience and it is what we  girls do as well.Whn we dont hv feelings for men,it is always written in our actions.We cant pretend or hide it.

agina22:

Hello friends,

I am having an issue with my girl friend. She said she loves me, she is in school in the east, I live in Lagos. For sometime now I have noticed changes, she raises her voice at me on phone, she cuts the phone on me sometimes when we talk, she no longer sounds like the sweet girl I used to know. While I visited in school, she only slept in my house once of which I had to force her. I never had sex with her except for smooching because she said she was deflowered twice.

frijos:

the book "48 laws of power" by Robert Greene is a must read for every human. For this particular case i recommend the 17th Law which is the law of absense and presence. we take for granted things that are always present and miss those which we don't see too often. In this case mr poster u've made yourself too available to your girlfriend thereby reducing the level of attraction. My advise is that u stop calling, texting and any other forms of communicating with her. Two things might result in this 1. she might call u and beg for forgiveness 2. she may not call u at all. now if no. 2 is the result i suggest u get urself a new girlfriend and realise that u can't afford to make the same old mistakes. That's the beauty of mistakes man they make u a better person. However, remember to make urself omnipresent when starting a relationship then dissappear once in a while when the relationship is fully matured. Goodluck!

MoneyRule:

Problem:
she no send u again.
Solution:
no send her again.

MrPrsdent:

red-handed?

why go through all that stress?

the girl has moved on,you should do the same.She doesnt know how to dump you,thats why she is giving all the signs.

relationship is not a do or die affair

kpolli:

simple thing,
call her n say this "i have been wit u for yrs n lately u have lost interest, since cant say it to my face i will say it, u want out, but just remember no second chance"
cut the phone, go somewhere alot of girls n get a new one, cos the old one just expired

kpolli:

simple thing,
call her n say this "i have been wit u for yrs n lately u have lost interest, since cant say it to my face i will say it, u want out, but just remember no second chance"
cut the phone, go somewhere alot of girls n get a new one, cos the old one just expired

LMFAO expired yea? probably a fake and uncertified product from the start, whoever gets deflowered twice ? just poster's girlfriend i guess hmm i rest my case