Every couples want to know the secret of a beautiful marriage, without knowing that they have the secret, but the secret remains secret to them. Beautiful marriages are created by great husbands and wives who have determined to have a wonderful home and put God at the center of their marriage.


Marriage is the coming together of a man and woman formally from different family background as husband and wife. Marriage bond two people in mind and body. It needs total commitment, sacrifice and love. Beautiful marriage don't just happen it has to be worked upon.


Some couples think marriage is as sweet as dating without knowing that some external forces are always there to test the strength of their commitment.


Here are the secret on how to have a beautiful marriage.


Identify your spouse weakness: This is very crucial because there is no ready made marriage. The best way to help your partner is to know his/her weakness and not focusing on it. A woman was asked when she was celebrating her 40th years wedding anniversary, how she had such perfect marriage. She said, she knows her husband's weaknesses and help him work on it.

No perfect persons: Every young ladies dream of marrying tall and handsome man while guys too wish to marry a damsel, but the question is that, is she or he a person of good character? Is very romantic to marry damsel or a cute man, but such person must be someone who have the fair of God. Though, nobody is perfect, but you will try to perfect and complement each other. Never stress your partner on what he/she doesn't like to do.


Marriage is an institution: Some people wonder why marriage is an institution. It is an institution because there are some many things to be learnt most especially for women. At times you must just learn how to adapt to unexpected situation. Try to learn how to keep things to yourself, don't allow third party to know the secret of your spouse and avoid telling your family about your marriage lapses, try to learn how to fix things yourself.


Allow your spouse to influence you: This goes to men. More than 80% of couples who have beautiful marriages are those men that allow their wife to influence them positively. Men are so adamant and egocentric and all these have been a major obstacles preventing many homes from enjoying the beauty of marriage. One of the best way to build a marriage is by taking your partner opinions, advises and rub minds with her.


Marriage has different level of success: The more your marriage grow old, the more it becomes prosperous, with prayer, faithfulness and trust. Never compare your marriage with that of your friends, sisters, cousin, neighbor or business associates. We can never be equal.

Don't expect that miracle will happen immediately you got married, don't force marriage to change existing issues. When some women got married, they would be thinking that their husband should start using car and build a duplex immediately. To avoid marriage stress, you must be patient, work hard and be prayerful with time things will come in good shape.

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