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Creating A Better Home by idesylvester(m): 11:47am On Apr 12, 2017
RULES TO HAVING A HAPPIER HOME

I HAVE BEEN TRYING SO MUCH TO PASS THESE TO ALL MARRIED AND SINGLES, THE KNOWLEDGE I HAVE ABOUT BUILDING A BETTER HOME AND KEEPING A HAPPIER FAMILY

I WILL START WITH:

1 MINDSET: PEOPLE GO INTO MARRIAGE WITH THE MINDSET OF BEING FED BY A MAN OR BEING CARED FOR BY A WOMAN, OR HAVE A SETTLED MIND WITH A MAN THAT U CAN CALL UR HUSBAND OR SOMEONE WHO WILL PREPARE YOUR MEAL BEFORE OR AFTER WORK WITHOUT THINKING THAT IN MARRIAGE MANY THINGS WILL CHANGE.
WHEN U WERE STILL SINGLE, U AVE EVERY RIGHT TO CHANGE WOMEN OR MEN AND GET TREATED AS A KING OR QUEEN SO LONG AS BOTH OF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED.
IN MARRIAGE YOU’RE A KING AND QUEEN ALREADY, IT’S JUST TO LEARN HOW TO LIVE AS LEADERS WAITING TO CREAT A PRINCE OR PRINCESS
U DON’T FORCE A MAN OR A WOMAN TO TREAT YOU GOOD, YOU CREAT A ROOM FOR IT

2: IDEOLOGY: THIS IS WHERE I WILL END THE WHOLE ISSUE.
THINK ABOUT THIS, WHEN YOU BUY A CAR AND USE IT FOR NINE MONTH EVERYDAY ON A BAD ROAD, WHAT DO YOU THINK WILL HAPPEN? TEAR AND WEAR OFF-COURSE, WHOULD YOU PLACE CURSE OR INSULT ON THE CAR, NO. SO IT’S WITH A WOMAN, WHEN UR WIFE GIVE BIRTH THINGS WOULD CHANGE, SHE MAT EITHER LOOK BEAUTIFUL OR UGLY, ADD WEIGHT OR SOMETHING ELSE.
THOSE BREAST YOU SEE OVERTIME AND FEEL LIKE THE WORLD IS YOURD WILL CHANGE, NOT HER FAULT BUT NATURE
THE MAN NEEDS TO BE THERE AND PROTECT WHAT NATURE HAS DONE TO HER AND NOT TO LOOK FOR ONE SMALL SIDE CHIC THAT HAS ALL READY AND WAITING FOR NATURE TO DO THE SAME; CHANGE YOUR IDEOLOGY SO THAT THE WOMAN WILL NOT TRANSFER HER LOVE TO HER KIDS AND START SEEING THE HUSBAND AS A HOUSEMAID… ANOTHER THING IS HER SEX DRIVE WOULD EITHER INCREASE OR DECREASE, IT’S THE DUTY OF THE MAN TO KNOW ALL THIS BEFORE SAYING I DO

AFTER HARD LABOUR, U MUST LEARN TO CHANGE THE WAY U SEE UR WIFE, NOT AS A BABY PRODUCER BUT A STRONG WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN THROUGH LIFE AND DEATH TO GIVE U A BABY THAT NEEDS MORE CARE THAN EVER, WHEN SHE’S RUDE, CALM HER SOMETIMES IT’S DUE TO PRESSURE, NEVER SHOULD A MAN REMINDS A WOMAN OF HER PAST ERRORS, THEY NEVER FORGET, IT KILLS THEM AND MAKES THEM LOOK INFERIOR… MEN ARE TO LISTEN AND WOMEN ARE TO TALK

WOMEN ARE TO BE LOVED NOT TO BE CONTROLLED
HOPE I MADE SENSE

SO BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED, THINK ABOUT THE AFTERMATH NOT NOW THAT IT’S STILL FRESH

CALL ME SLY

EMAIL ME FOR ANY INFO
SLY.KING7@YAHOO.COM

Re: Creating A Better Home by Jamexjulius(m): 12:49pm On Apr 12, 2017
Good post

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