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Ladies And Gentlemen Take A Leaf From This! by FixNaija(m): 7:56am On Apr 13, 2017 |
When I was growing up, two of my brothers had
two remarkable girlfriends. One was called
Martha and the other Gwendoline. Martha was
pretty, clean and humble while Gwendoline who
was the senior prefect of her school was very
intelligent and pretty too. Whenever one of
these girls were to visit, there will be general
sanitation. My brothers will make up their beds
with special bedsheet that were meant only for
visitors, decorate their rooms with bottles of
mineral that you dare not drink, buy cupan
biscuits or short cake and top grenadine. They
always had this white towel that they never use
but will sprinkle water on it and sun it outside
in front of their rooms so that the girls will think
that is the towel they use. Hey how can I forget
the Elitis and Tony Montana perfume all over
the room? Did I mention the bottle of Musk or
Beldam body lotion on the shelve. The truth
about this body lotion is; what was actually in
those bottles were not musk or beldam. It was
actually lamo or Fidel. Now talking about these
girls, my brothers loved them not only because
of their beauty but because of their brains.
They were intelligent, smart and pretty.
Older boys and men do you remember those
days when a woman’s worth was far more than
her figure? Do you remember the girl you
tripped for just because she was reading a
novel at the bus station? What about that clean
girl whose white socks and clean sandals gave
you sleepless night? Wait did I mention the one
who swept you away just because she
challenged you and answered a question. What
about that humble and decently dress girl that
was the woman of your dreams. Do I have to
name the one who refused talking to you
because she thought you smoked cigarette?
That one made you go crazy. The other one
you admired because she always helped her
parents at home and was so respectful. The
one who wanted to be a doctor. You remember
her? Her ambition made you go crazy for her.
What is happening today? Why has the society
reduced a woman to nothing but breast and
butt? The society has made women so cheap.
Guys think all what makes a woman is the
shape of her breast and the size of her butt.
Unfortunately this has made some of us girls
with very low self-esteem to concentrate on
our looks more than our being. No doubt we
have slay queens with lay heads. For those
who can’t afford a surgery, artificial breast and
butt gives them fake confidence. The sole aim
of most girls now is to be sexy. A girl will do
everything possible just to be called sexy. You
spend hours learning how to twerk or drop it
like it’s hot. Every girl wants to be a stripper.
We all want to buy dresses that show our
figures. Even when we want to take a picture,
all our poses look sexual. Why have we allowed
society to make us sexual objects? You watch
a music video clip today, the men are properly
dressed and dancing responsibly while the
woman is half naked making sexual moves. I
refuse to be sexualized. I refuse to be seen as
an object of pleasure. As a woman, there is
more to us than our figures. Our figures will not
and cannot define us. We don’t have to walk
half naked to beautiful. All them classy ladies
out there it’s time we show the world our worth.
Our figure has little or nothing to do with our
worth. And for the older boys and men out here,
It’s time you teach these boys that there is
more to a woman. I refuse to be sexy and I
choose to be classy. Please let's have a rethink
its becoming alarming... |
Re: Ladies And Gentlemen Take A Leaf From This! by Li2Finger: 7:57am On Apr 13, 2017 |
Oh, good... I already took a leaf but am curious, where am I gonna put it? |
Re: Ladies And Gentlemen Take A Leaf From This! by Alphamale2017(m): 8:15am On Apr 13, 2017 |
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