With friends like this,

None of them clearly respect you. B for sleeping around and flaunting it in your face, C for sneaking around with your so-called boyfriend behind your back and E,F,G or whatever he's called for wanting to sleep with his friend's babe.

You need to broaden your horizon and find/make new friends to avert the feeling of loneliness that comes with living abroad, if you haven't got your family around you.

Take up new hobbies, join new classes, you know, just find other people to occupy your time with.

Welcome to life abroad.

Obviously, none of em is worth ur time. Ditch em all!

its because he can do anything as in everything not like other Naija guys, that's why he over streched his sexuality. May be he can do men too. You are a prelude to his wayward life style. My GF insists on party with her friend, she will be fired instantly.
Baby, unstrap yourself from that guy's bondage and fly. Even if he licks it like honey. u can do better

Hope you've examined yourself as well.

If these are the kind of people you are able to attract into your life or the kind of people that you are attracted to in life, mayebe you need to check yourself as well.

Simple logic.

C wants to shag B but doesn't want u to know she likes him.
B is a playa and is definately cheating on you with other girls and obviously does'nt respect you enough to stay away from your friends.

You haven't known C for long so you dont know how much of a bitch she can be so u cant trust her.
whenever your man starts to call your friend that you know he's attracted to, to go shopping, u know theres something up.
And whenever your friend that cl;aims to hate your boyfreind but wants to go shopping with him, thats  an undercover slut right there.

Hmnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!
Home Video
Thanks for providing the script f.o.c.

anyway , Shine your eyez and leave their circle
Best Wishes

And i hope you know they are only trying to set u up with F, so that when you finally fall and shag him at a very vulnerable time, B and C can shag as well and you cant say nothing cos ur also guilty.

my advise, find a new place to live, get a new roommate, a new boyfriend and new friends.
OR

all of u (A-Z) can just get together and have urselves an orgy.

Oh Dime
They say when a woman has a feeling, 9 out of 10 times, she's right.
The best thing wud be to start affresh with new friends. Easier said than done!
All I can say is keep ur eyes open, so u won't be labeled as the fool when things come out to open. Ur friends clearly underestimate u. Preoccupy ursef with other things. U already know what's up. Its a matter of when they are gonna admit it to u.

Why are you excusing the "boyfriend" for his role in this mess. Did the friends force him to toast them? Women.

hehehehehe man eater dont kill me o, laugh till i fall outa ma chair,

and u still refer to him as a 'boyfriend"

Thank you guys! The Story Continues,

So being the smart lawyer am destined to be i asked her to go inside and turn on the T.V, she said okay she is on her way inside, so when she got  "inside" the phone connection cuts _{"hangs up the phone on me"} she called me back a minute after and puts on my B's radio so as to fool me and knowing that, i questioned her and asked her why she would lie on such an innocent thing like that, and remember guys that she is not one to take nonsense, _{when she is wrong and caught in the action she will turn it around and make you feel like you are wrong for catching her} if you know what i mean. So that was exactly what she did, this are her exact words "Are you crazy, are you mad, what the hell is wrong with you, do i look like i want your boyfriend, don't you ever, ever do that again" and i was about to ask do what, ask why you are lying to me but before i could ask she hung up on me. So i broke down and cry like a baby.

F now called me later in the evening on that beautiful day and filled me on what went down that morning.
1. They went to the mall, walked around and ended up not buying anything.
2. They was heading home when B said to C i have to pick up something at my apartment, why don't we stop there first?
3. When they got to his apartment, B aske C to come upstairs and that he got weed. _{What C didn't know is that there where three different types of weed}
4.When they got inside B rolled up the weed and gave C some, so when she took a "puff" she wasn't herself" anymore
5.B tried to touch her or from what B told me They made out and when he was going to far she started to shake and jumped up, threaten to call the cops if B doesn't take her home and B told here that he is just as Bleep up as she is, so she decided to call F and begged F to come and get her as soon as possible.
6. F came, got her from B's place drop her home and decided to fill me in on it.

Before i got off work, i called this uncle that usually advice me on things and i explain things to him, he now said to take a deep breath and stay calm, and that when i get home i should act like nothing bother's me and i should just stay strong, because guys and friends come and go, so it's pointless crying over spilled milk. So when i got home i did just that.

B now called me later that evening and being me _{i like to speak my mind a lot} i told B not to call me anymore, told him what i knew, which he denied and i also called him loser names which i know would do little to his ego, and as i guessed right was true.

The next day he woke up called everybody but me to tell them he is at the airport and he will be back in two weeks. He left his car keys with his F and told F that he was going to leave the car to me but he doesn't feel comfortable doing it anymore and that if F wants to do that, whatever happen to the car becomes F responsibilty, and he left.

F was happy that B was out of the way so he can make his move _{he told me that himself} he gave me the car keys told me to be very careful and he also said i must check in with him every day, he also invited me to his house which i declined. For the first day everything was okay, by the second morning, when i woke up to go to work, the car was towed away from where i parked it. And i had to call him for help, Together we found out where the car was towed to, and we found out that somebody had called in twice deliberately to get the car towed and also, that we need his id and a letter from him saying we have the right to pick it up. We had to go to B's house to get all of those things. When we got there we found the things we needed and was on my way out through the door when he picked me up from behind, and headed for the bedroom, at first i thought this was a joke but he was a heavy man and i couldn't fight him off me, so i started to panic and beg for him to stop, he was ready to rip of my clothes and have his way with me, i got really scared and i started to cry thinking oh my God i am getting rapped on my boyfriend's bed by his friend, and i begged him to stop, that didn't work and at this point my jeans pants was half way down, so i made a promise that we will go to his house that but he shouldn't do it now. Thank God that stopped him and he looked at me hard and said do you know that if you don't fufill your promise there are other ways to get you, and i was so happy to say yes to anything at that moment.

Who wouldn't?


I will continue again tomorrow. Thank you for reading.

uh,

remind me, why are you still with these people again?

@TOH
i don't like a lot of crowd in my life and when you have too much people around you it's too much mix up _{i think}

@seun
I am not excusing him i just really like him i guess

@busta
You know how it is over here, it is not that easy to just move around, i am a student i am too busy to start looking around for another place in this weather.

long storyy, i am enjoying it.

rather be alone than be "friends" with such people.

How old are you? cos you seem naive in alot of areas concerning such things

1. No real guy would rat out his friend UNLESS he has something to gain. Thus whether F really had to pick up C, you dont know if that's true or him trying to make you hate the friend then go after him. Even if he did pick up C, the fact that he would tell you all about it just proves his hidden agenda

2. It should have been obvious that C wanted your bf. She was full of shit and you should have known this from the beginning

3. B isnt worth dealing with ever since he was all about trying to get you and your roommate together. Once you made it clear you werent into mange a trois he should have gotten over the matter but he kept harping on it and you refused to see the evidence right in your face. Your bf's a LovePeddler.

Therefore like Man eater said and I agree completely with everything she said, you need to do away with these people. You dont exactly even have to move out from your place with C now, you just keep her at arm's length. Hi. Bye. that's it. Dont even bother telling her anything anymore. Keep her outta your life.

F's mad creepy. You are gonna HAVE to avoid situations that bring you two together. see him going one way, run the other way or since you;re in Canada, a country with laws, you can get a damn restraining order or even report his ass for harrassement. Either way you have to stay away from him. All the fake apologies shouldnt matter, stay away from his side.

wow . .

you take a lot of things from your 'friends'

why not cut loose from them all and try to get a new life?

I WOULD RATHER BLAME UR ROOM MATE
COS HAVE HAD SUCH AN EXPERIENCE LIKE DAT
IT WASN'T D GUYS FAULT
COS I KNOW WAT LADIES LIKE DAT ARE CAPABLE OF DOING
MAY B U DON'T DRESS IN A SEXY WAY, WHICH UR ROOMATE COULD DRESS 2 KILL
OR U HAVE BEEN SO BUSY WITH UR WORK THAN HIM.
I WILL CONTINUE 2MOOROW

Joo shut the hell up.

lmao

is your boyfriend a toster bad eng.wel u nt bad @ all am a free agent thou lol.

Well well well. When I complained about Dime on another post she went mad.

Well I will state my observations once more

You need some self respect.

Why are you allowing yourself to be abused like this?

This freak called F is going to force himself on you, thats called rape.

Your loser boyfriend B will give you nothing but sadness and an STD.

Your good for nothing roommate is probably looking for ways to get you

A B C D E F G all these f*ckers will have their fun at your expense.

I dont understand why girls get themselves into these situations.

@ dime but 2 say fact dere's somethin nt right about u.lookin @ d story i tink u like d second guy

@ LadyT well said! I guess they are all mocking her behind her back!

@ LadyT well said! I guess they are all mocking her behind her back!

Dime, why your roommate C dey act like this?. . .No worry, I go cane am one of these days.

LadyT:

Well well well. When I complained about Dime on another post she went mad.

lol what can I say? you called it alright.

star01, You're in dire need of help with Reading Comprehension.

@ Dime,
i thot you were the one dying and crooning over Jerrymania? So you had a boyfriend, rapist and abuser?

So being the smart lawyer am destined to be i asked her to go inside and turn on the T.V,

Okay;
1. You are the very antithesis of the word "smart". Infact dumb will be too good a word to use
2. Lawyer? You need some serious help with your grammer and self respect!

Either this is a cooked up story (you have some good raunchy literary skills) or this is a poor representation of you. That you are dating a guy who smokes weed, chased by a rapist and betrayed by a shameless room mate while you both squabble over a guy who is not worth 2 pence says a lot about you as an individual!

Help the girl out instead of assassinating her character, not cool.

@ Donzman

help the girl out too instead of criticizing, not cool.

I already told her I'll cane the living daylight out of C, that can serve as a temporary solution.