Toks2008:


Hope I'm safe...

u re bro

Toks2008:
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Countrygirl

How una dey?

We Dey inside singlehood, waiting patiently to be wifed.

snakebeat:

are u blaming the girl?
How are we sure u won't do same if u find yourself in such a position?
u will agree with dat considerable number of ladies will do d same

I'm not blaming her just looking for a job for my friend.
Life goes on.
Even after shit happens.

Alero3Arubi:
We Dey inside singlehood, waiting patiently to be wifed.

Lol. ...that's hilarious

Alero3Arubi:

We Dey inside singlehood, waiting patiently to be wifed.

Alero3Arubi:
We Dey inside singlehood, waiting patiently to be wifed.

No be small tin o.

Toks2008:


Shebbi I Don do the breakdown which one be lie again?

Mama sikira e fun MI ni amala Metta ati eran Kan pelu pure water....is that not N210?

How much be dollar? no be N400

lol 210 can't belleful sombori nowadays

dingbang:
lol 210 can't belleful sombori nowadays

Lol!..depends on your location...come down to Alimosho in Lagos and see how things are...

Toks2008:


Lol!..depends on your location...come down to Alimosho in Lagos and see how things are...

alright...

Toks2008:


Lol!..depends on your location...come down to Alimosho in Lagos and see how things are...

so how many ladies have you met through this thread.. Don't tell me you didn't connect with any privately

dingbang:
so how many ladies have you met through this thread.. Don't tell me you didn't connect with any privately

I created this thread primarily out of passion for socializing and of course to encourage nairaland singles interact with each other....but one setback is the timidity of our ladies cos I still wonder why they expect PM bombing from responsible guys.

Many mature ladies are out there very single and even tired of this romance palava but this platform will create an opportunity to make friends but Many naija babes prefer to hide in their boredom.

Taking myself as an example...I'm an introvert to the core...I'm don't club and you won't see me in places that adds no value to my life and worse still I hardly go out as I'm an E-commerce consultant who works from home and the few times I go out for a stroll,I hardly see mature single ladies of like 27years and above since I avoid younger ladies due to obvious reasons.

So to answer your question I will say No PMs yet but I'm not ruling that out if I see a dp that catches my fancy cos I'm very very visual.

Toks2008:


I created this thread primarily out of passion for socializing and of course to encourage nairaland singles interact with each other....but one setback is the timidity of our ladies cos I still wonder why they expect PM bombing from responsible guys.

Many mature ladies are out there very single and even tired of this romance palava but this platform will create an opportunity to make friends but Many naija babes prefer to hide in their boredom.

Taking myself as an example...I'm an introvert to the core...I'm don't club and you won't see me in places that adds no value to my life and worse still I hardly go out as I'm an E-commerce consultant who works from home and the few times I go out for a stroll,I hardly see mature single ladies of like 27years and above since I avoid younger ladies due to obvious reasons.

So to answer your question I will say No PMs yet but I'm not ruling that out if I see a dp that catches my fancy cos I'm very very visual.

you are right... But women will always be women... Its in their genes to form..

alexialin:




OK that's good. So sorry misjudged you.

And thanks for the compliment.

You are welcome dear, BTW could u pls add me on whatsapp, dats if you dont mind so we could get to know ourselves better. My mtn number is on my signature. Thanks.

Alero3Arubi:

We Dey inside singlehood, waiting patiently to be wifed.

You can speak for yourself dear
No need dragging my name handle along with your statement.
Thanks
Not everyone of us are that single

alexialin:




You can speak for yourself dear
No need dragging my name handle along with your statement.
Thanks
Not everyone of us are that single

I'm sorry to write this but there is no in between....YOU ARE EITHER SINGLE OR MARRIED.

Toks2008:


I'm sorry to write this but there is no in between....YOU ARE EITHER SINGLE OR MARRIED.

Well for me single means, one is not even in a relationship. That's how I see been single is.
So it's either one is single? Not in any relationship and waiting to be wifed
Or one is
In a relationship and inbetween the bridge of bn wifed officially and bn a companion.
Or one is married.

If am single in your context? That means I can still be dating as many guys as I desire. Until I get married??
How does it look?
U are dating a girl. But u see her with different guys, spending weekend at each other houses, rotating it until your turn comes..
Honestly will u take that lady serious? Will u even Consider her as a gf? Let's be sincere to ourselves.
And she will then tell u, u know am single and uv not married me yet.. So I can date as much guys as I want.. Until you, my dear or someone marries me. And u know she's fucvking 10guys including you! at a stretch waitng to be wifed!

Seriously is that how relationship develop to end up been married?? And wifed
For real?

alexialin:




You can speak for yourself dear
No need dragging my name handle along with your statement.
Thanks
Not everyone of us are that single

Joor mabinu.

Alero3Arubi:

Joor mabinu.

OK dear
Am not angry anymore.. Smiles

alexialin:



Well for me single means, one is not even in a relationship. That's how I see been single is.
So it's either one is single? Not in any relationship and waiting to be wifed
Or one is
In a relationship and inbetween the bridge of bn wifed officially and bn a companion.
Or one is married.

If am single in your context? That means I can still be dating as many guys as I desire. Until I get married??
How does it look?
U are dating a girl. But u see her with different guys, spending weekend at each other houses, rotating it until your turn comes..
Honestly will u take that lady serious? Will u even Consider her as a gf? Let's be sincere to ourselves.
And she will then tell u, u know am single and uv not married me yet.. So I can date as much guys as I want.. Until you, my dear or someone marries me. And u know she's fucvking 10guys including you! at a stretch waitng to be wifed!

Seriously is that how relationship develop to end up been married?? And wifed
For real?

I quite understand you but as i wrote...there is no in-between...you are either single or married.

You could be super faithful to the guy you are dating yet he could still leave you to marry someone else and some people have been engaged for years and they latter leave each other to marry another so dearie. ..no matter how you want to put it...until you are officially married...you are officially single....Hard fact!

Toks2008:


I quite understand you but as i wrote...there is no in-between...you are either single or married.

You could be super faithful to the guy you are dating yet he could still leave you to marry someone else and some people have been engaged for years and they latter leave each other to marry another so dearie. ..no matter how you want to put it...until you are officially married...you are officially single....Hard fact!

Sorry but I don't agree wit you on your analysis.
am not single. am taken.
And that's fact.

but it's all good, life is filled with people and different ideas to a particular thing.
So I can understand where u are coming from BUT I don't agree

alexialin:



Sorry but I don't agree wit you on your analysis.
am not single. am taken.
And that's fact.

but it's all good, life is filled with people and different ideas to a particular thing.
So I can understand where u are coming from BUT I don't agree

Issorite dearie...all the best.

dingbang:
you are right... But women will always be women... Its in their genes to form..

You call it 'Forming', I call it conforming to the society's standard. Some guys think it is bad for a lady to put herself out there, she's just supposed to wait, make no move until she's 'found'.

And most ladies cannot handle rejection the way guys can, so we'll rather not walk down that path because you don't know if your target (guy) is one who'll make a big news out of the fact that you made the first move on them.
Forget what these guys say online, the whole 'I don't mind a lady talking to me first' thing is a lie. A Lady sends them a PM, they already have thoughts in the head.
Until guys learn to handle this part correctly, more ladies will keep to themselves.

SPEEDEPITOME:

You call it 'Forming', I call it conforming to the society's standard. Some guys think it is bad for a lady to put herself out there, she's just supposed to wait, make no move until she's 'found'.

And most ladies cannot handle rejection the way guys can, so we'll rather not walk down that path because you don't know if your target (guy) is one who'll make a big news out of the fact that you made the first move on them.
Forget what these guys say online, the whole 'I don't mind a lady talking to me first' thing is a lie. A Lady sends them a PM, they already have thoughts in the head.
Until guys learn to handle this part correctly, more ladies will keep to themselves.

U nailed it. If u try it just wait for ur chat screenshot on nairaland.

TonieLee:


U nailed it. If u try it just wait for ur chat screenshot on nairaland.

Habba is it that bad? well boys are different from men.

I'm using this medium to send a PM to all the ladies on this thread....but unfortunately my PM mail is faulty.

You can add me on your wattsup with number 080two3one4six04six

Remember sey nah me send PM so I made the first move...

There is no greater investment than friendship....quote me anywhere.

Nice thread you have here toks, a lot of factor comes into play when choosing a spouse, sadly religion has taken the front seat. Am in a place where majority of men I meet are christians and I can't settle for anytin less than a muslim man which seems like a big task. May God guide our step.

I should be worried if i'm above 25 and single? I'm shook

SPEEDEPITOME:

You call it 'Forming', I call it conforming to the society's standard. Some guys think it is bad for a lady to put herself out there, she's just supposed to wait, make no move until she's 'found'.

And most ladies cannot handle rejection the way guys can, so we'll rather not walk down that path because you don't know if your target (guy) is one who'll make a big news out of the fact that you made the first move on them.
Forget what these guys say online, the whole 'I don't mind a lady talking to me first' thing is a lie. A Lady sends them a PM, they already have thoughts in the head.
Until guys learn to handle this part correctly, more ladies will keep to themselves.

This is not true...

TonieLee:


U nailed it. If u try it just wait for ur chat screenshot on nairaland.

Lets be honest with ourselvses...How many screenshot have u seen on NL?
If u are saying girls can't open up because of their level of boldness & inabilty to handle rejection, we would understand...because naturally women are more reserved, modest, and shy. Not using screenshot as smokescreen. Guys admire ladies who open up...because we know considerable number of ladies can't do it...

zameena:
Nice thread you have here toks, a lot of factor comes into play when choosing a spouse, sadly religion has taken the front seat. Am in a place where majority of men I meet are christians and I can't settle for anytin less than a muslim man which seems like a big task. May God guide our step.

Sadly enough you are the one who chose to put religion in the first seat.

My dad was an Alhaji while my mum is a Christian yet my dad loved my mum till he passed on at 73.

My Muslim name is Lukman but I chose to be a Christian but I will never put religion in the first seat when it comes to matters of the heart.

I still remember how my dad invites Alfas to name my siblings in the morning and pastors in the evening...we will ear chicken at Easter and Ram at ileya festival...it was a great fun.....so please emancipate yourself from that thought.

refiner:

Awwww....thanchu my luff..

Wat's "thanchu my luff"

i'm serious here

Hannysmilez:
I should be worried if i'm above 25 and single? I'm shook

Another masquerade spotted. ..