Bro, you simply can't differentiate between lust and love, that's how some people will just miss a step and not get it right again till they die, you want all the package in one woman, e.g fine, sexy, presentable, down to earth, intelligent, learned, a good wife, a great mother and a graduate, oya goan marry holy Mary nah, it's not at all possible, make do with what you have cos with time comes perfection.. Choose wisely..

don't date someone in the same department in school or church department , or office , u will regret it when the relationship goes south . it will hurt u more .

don't do it . u will regret , after all the lovey dovey and PDA, when the relationship hits the rock , u will be too humilated to stand before your colleagues at the office ,

its one of the easiest ways to lose respect in that office . all within a short time,

**one if the laws of power is**

"commit to no man"

if u commit to that girl . with time, you will lose a part if your respect and power in sight of ur colleagues in that office .

by the way, if you commit to that girl, you have unknowingly blocked all the girls in that office .

but if you don't commit, they all will begin to strive for your attention , thereby unknowingly making you the king and epicentre in that office .

my two cent

cc
sinz

what do you think ?

Alphamale2017:
don't date someone in the same department in school or church department , or office , u will regret it when the relationship goes south . it will hurt u more .

don't do it . u will regret , after all the lovey dovey and PDA, when the relationship hits the rock , u will be too humilated to stand before your colleagues at the office ,

its one of the easiest ways to lose respect in that office . all within a short time,

**one if the laws of power is**

"commit to no man"

if u commit to that girl . with time, you will lose a part if your respect and power in sight of ur colleagues in that office .

by the way, if you commit to that girl, you have unknowingly blocked all the girls in that office .

but if you don't commit, they all will begin to strive for your attention , thereby unknowingly making you the king and epicentre in that office .

my two cent

cc
si.nz

what do you think ?

I think you made some salient points. By far the best comment on this thread yet.

You are at a crossroad?, ngwanu stand their na till trailer crush you...



On a more serious note, like the first poster said, you already have concluded plans on who you wanna swell with, so, advicing you it's gon be a waste of cyber space ...just follow your heart .

refiner:

Lol...i really love him o jare...i dont think u are as cute as he is...

. because u are yet to see me maybe , just maybe u probably would have revoked ur comment . lol
the way u soft like today bread , i am pretty sure someone wud have been hurt

although i am a "journey walker" kind of person, the chance of a meet up in reality is quite slim.

he's gat a pretty lady tho.

goodluck to the both of you.

Enjoy ur night

geezyk:
Bro, you simply can't differentiate between lust and love, that's how some people will just miss a step and not get it right again till they die, you want all the package in one woman, e.g fine, sexy, presentable, down to earth, intelligent, learned, a good wife, a great mother and a graduate, oya goan marry holy Mary nah, it's not at all possible, make do with what you have cos with time comes perfection.. Choose wisely..

There are just two comments on this thread; this1 i just quoted and others.




simple and well communicated!

Op, i'll advise you to follow your heart. But i think it is not wise for a guy to spend his money sponsoring a girlfriend in school, because she might just end up 'falling in love' with another guy in school and dumping your ass, and when she does, all these people here advising you to sponsor her in school will be the first to call you a cry baby when you complain.

If i were you, i will date that colleague of yours to see if we are compartible. If the compartibility is there, mehn i'll go for her o. The other lady can always find someone else.

loshybab:

There are just two comments on this thread; this1 i just quoted and others.




simple and well communicated!

People think they can always have it all, but the truth is that you truly can't, we just have to make do with what we have..

Well, you don't make promises anyhow especially as you don't intend keeping them immediately. You shouldn't have promised her marriage, you can make clear your intentions of marriage but promises are unnecessary especially as you don't see yourself marrying soon.
I'd advise you stay away from the office girl and stick to your home based girl. Office romance is very problematic and any girl that knowingly breaks another girl's relationship isn't really a good choice.

geezyk:
People think they can always have it all, but the truth is that you truly can't, we just have to make do with what we have..

couldn't be more apt





As humans,web should and can never stop learning. Even a prof or any high class must continue to learn hw to love their spouse more and to also contain their old and stemming excesses as they age