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Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by Nobody: 7:01am On Apr 21, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx:Sounds better in french Pas d'argent, pas d'amour
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Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by hedonistic: 7:47am On Apr 25, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx: I agree with this hypothesis. We can resort to high philosophy and lofty ideals in arguing about "innate value" and self worth. That's mostly theory. In practice, in our society here in this same Nigeria that we live in, it is difficult to find love (or sex) if you're flat broke. If you're persistent and you are inured to insults and rejection, you might be lucky to get the occasional lay or date every other blue moon, but only relatively well to do guys with the requisite resources have the luxury of consistently switching, changing, alternating, and picking and choosing from the numerous girls available - in their quest for love or casual sex. This is not even debatable. Let's be clear here. The concept of 'having money' is relative. No one is saying that you must be as rich as E-Money or Femi Otedola to tap some ass or find a girl to date/marry. Even if you have a relatively stable job that guarantees a mere N50k every month, you 'have money' in the eyes of thousands of girls that are below that level. It all depends on the girl's expectations/level/etc. Some girls would see you as good catch if you can give her a few thousands (N2k - N5k) in cash or gifts every now and then. Other girls wouldn't take you seriously unless you drive a car (or a certain type of car), other girls would only consider you if you have a certain lifestyle, etc. It's all relative. But the bottom line is that 98% of girls in Nigeria would NOT be patient enough to hang around you long enough to discover your so-called 'innate value' if you're so obviously, outwardly broke (according to their level/expectation)... Unless you have some redeeming qualities (good looks, social capital, ways and means, personal magnetism/charm, etc), but even then, it needs some artificial reinforcements down the line that only money can make possible, otherwise the girl would concoct a fake excuse to dump your dusty ass sooner than later. That's the brutal truth. That's the real world. |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:55am On Apr 25, 2017 |
hedonistic: You just said it all bro. Respect. NO money, no Love...its the bitter truth. No girl wants to suffer with any guy, as they all love comfort. Just have small mulla, to run things, that's what we are saying. You really hit the nail on the head well.... Respect....YOu be correct guy.... 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by Nobody: 9:16am On Apr 25, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx:the guy is right bro. Personal developement is wat he is talking about. Money is something everyone should have. And no matter how much you have, there are pple who will call you broke ass because in their own standard, thats just what you are. Personality is wat makes you different from everyother person. And again, not everyone fall for money. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by Nobody: 9:34am On Apr 25, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx:lol....savage. You've got a point here though. Good to know money is not the only thing you have. If am to go by ur words. |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by Nobody: 9:49am On Apr 25, 2017 |
GloriaNinja:this one IQ is very low. You know this money and love ish can be equated to beauty and intelligence. Some argue than personality matters more, same way we guys wuld argue that intelligence matters more than beauty. But a combination of both would be very perfect. just saying. |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by GloriaNinja(f): 4:55pm On Apr 25, 2017 |
Ebuka2016:THIS ONE EQ IS LOW, MY COMMENT DOESN'T CONCERN YOU UNLESS IT'S PAINING YOUR HEART BECAUSE YOU MIGHT BE BROKE. |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Apr 25, 2017 |
GloriaNinja:what is there to pain me in your comment?? I just stated the obvious and here you are ranting. Oh i see, its not only ur IQ that is low, your EQ follow join. Sorry beauty doesnt mean anything to some of us. Most women are pretty. E pain you die... |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by GloriaNinja(f): 3:10pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
Ebuka2016:I HOPE YOU RECEIVE SENSE IN JESUS NAME. |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
GloriaNinja:you need it more dear. But a little more sense to the one i already have is not really a bad idea. AMEN! To dat |
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