hi Nlanders!! I have been thinking about it for quite some time. I was told before that its not right to be the one to call off a relationship with a lady, that let the lady be the one to call it off herself. But what if she's no ready to and at the same thing not making the relationship work out, and the guy is tired??

Some people say, the fault will later be on the guy, but how tru is dat? so Nlanderswats ur opinion about a guy calling off the relationship first??

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the person calling it off should be the person who is uncomfortable being in this relationship, no one else!

relationships are about 2 people making it work and being happy together so if one isnt then that person should try to work it out but if nothing comes to it then separate and move on.

if SHE is not ready to move on then thats HER problem and she will have to deal with it on her own. no need for anyone to stay ONE minute with someone if they dont want to.