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Questions To Ask Yourself When Your Relationship Is Not Working Perfectly(part2) by Fatherherokay(m): 10:50am On Apr 20, 2017
4. At whose detriment is the relationship holding? You get to know this, first by observing who keeps saying sorry the most (even when you are not meant to). Saying sorry has become a repetitive thing for you because you are just trying to please the other partner. If you have always been paying this sacrifice and it seems the partner would and has never acknowledged any of these sacrifice of yours, you should be able to deduce to some extent that you are at the detriment between the two. To confirm this: “you only make the other partner happy when you are together, meanwhile your hearts sobers when you are alone thinking about your relationship”. A good relationship should not bring worry or confusion, but rather excites you. My friend, something is wrong when your joy and happiness is stolen away for the sake of relationship.

5. Who is at the losing side? For you to know the one at the losing side, you need to know the partner on the wining side. However, for you to know the person on the winning side, we need to know the one who has nothing to lose if any mishap suddenly evolves. Despite the fact that it has never been pleasing and convenient, you have given your money, your body and other resources into the relationship just to make the other partner happy. Eventually you stand to gain nothing.

6. Do you really think you love this your guy? This is a question most people still find difficult to answer genuinely, though it is easy to confess with the lips. How do you really know if you truly love the other partner? You can have a glimpse of this by asking yourself the following rhetorical questions: What actually attracted me to this lady or guy? What really established this guy or lady’s feeling in my life? Was it his money, or fame, or sex, or character, or wealth or property? If your own answer is sex, wealth, fame, or property, then you need to retrace your step a bit. Ask yourself further, how indispensable is this guy or girl in your heart? What normally comes into your mind anytime you set your eyes on him? If it is it just the hot sex he or she gives you, or the money he lavished on you, then you are still wrong.

And the last question here is: does this your guy or girl worth given another chance in your life when he or she heavily hurts you? if the majority of your sincere answers are negative, I will advise you to start activating your [b]READ MORE ON [/b]http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/04/133-when-your-relationship-is-not.html
Re: Questions To Ask Yourself When Your Relationship Is Not Working Perfectly(part2) by firstking01(m): 11:25am On Apr 20, 2017
This op no understand, you fall inlove you become blind over all these instanta.

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