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When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 7:11pm On Apr 23, 2017
You ask an obviously unmarried lady out and she says "sorry I'm in a relationship" and many ladies will quickly change their status on their social media handle to...."in a relationship or Engaged" ...worse still some will go as far as putting up the pics of a man who is not yet officially theirs and I keep wondering what goes on in the minds of some ladies ..

Shall we call that being faithful or being naive?

Every lady reading this should wake up and understand that until a man is officially married to you,he can not be trusted in anyway and that a man is even engaged to you does not guaranty marriage


Each time you tell a guy who asks you out that you are taken while still unmarried,you are simply shutting the door on yourself too soon and many ladies have shut out their husbands simply because they got carried away by an unserious man who is only good at mouthing their love and giving them forlorn hope.

Don't get it twisted, this is not about being unfaithful to that particular guy you truly desire but it is about tactfully leaving your options open by not flaunting him on or offline thereby driving away possibly more willing suitors.

Many ladies remain taken for years without wedding bells and I have seen several ladies who have been engaged for years.

The bottom line is that you should stop flaunting any guy you are courting and only flaunt your husband

Ladies should stop blocking their chance cos In the real world...there is no in between and there is no such word like "I'm taken" while you are still unmarried.

You are either single or married

Don't know if this makes sense.

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by darbeelicous(f): 7:13pm On Apr 23, 2017
hehehe..... FTC.... Oya, fire down!

coming back to modify cool

*modified*

ehen, oga toks2008 we don't call it "faithful" or "naive" its a simple 4letter word called LOVE. Call me naive, but women are multipliers, they multiply whatever you give to them and return it in manifold. When u genuinely love your woman, she multiplies it and gives u double in return, but when u show her hatred, sorry for u! So op, nice write up but it doesn't work in most cases! Most times when you're sure of what u want you go for it overlooking other options u may possibly have!

My opinion though! And btw, IM TAKEN!! cool

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Safiaa(f): 7:14pm On Apr 23, 2017
We are waiting.
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:14pm On Apr 23, 2017
Ngwanu.
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by mebad(m): 7:16pm On Apr 23, 2017
am watching

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Tallesty1(m): 7:18pm On Apr 23, 2017
drops
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:25pm On Apr 23, 2017
..following cheesy

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Oyiboman69: 7:26pm On Apr 23, 2017
Toks2008:
Watch out for this Eye opener...
op no use us play ooo

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:26pm On Apr 23, 2017
Following
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:29pm On Apr 23, 2017
Toks2008 how far na
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:29pm On Apr 23, 2017
We are waiting uncle Toks. smiley
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Jay1F(m): 7:30pm On Apr 23, 2017
...

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Jay1F(m): 7:31pm On Apr 23, 2017
....Toks come modify abeg

Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Smellymouth: 7:32pm On Apr 23, 2017
Toks..

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by hungryboy(m): 7:33pm On Apr 23, 2017
Since everybody dey follow
Make I join dem follow too

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:36pm On Apr 23, 2017
oga toks, we ar waiting o
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by emeijeh(m): 7:46pm On Apr 23, 2017
Where is the popcorn?
QueenSuccubus



Modified: well said Op

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 8:42pm On Apr 23, 2017
Aderola15:
We are waiting uncle Toks. smiley

Who be your uncle? me and you relate? abeg go and register your presence on this thread fast... https://www.nairaland.com/3745111/single-guys-above-30-single cos nah your type we dry find there and from what I see you don't ripe ...and if I hear "I'm taken"?

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 8:44pm On Apr 23, 2017
Toks2008:


Who be your uncle? me and you relate? abeg go and register your presence on this thread fast... https://www.nairaland.com/3745111/single-guys-above-30-single cos nah your type we dry find there and from what I see you don't ripe ...and if I hear "I'm taken"?

Post update na.

This thread don dey die o.
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 8:49pm On Apr 23, 2017
Toks2008:


Who be your uncle? me and you relate? abeg go and register your presence on this thread fast... https://www.nairaland.com/3745111/single-guys-above-30-single cos nah your type we dry find there and from what I see you don't ripe ...and if I hear "I'm taken"?

Lmaoooooo cheesy grin cheesy

You must be uncle zoned tongue

Ripe for wetin, I'm taken biko. angry

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 9:01pm On Apr 23, 2017
Aderola15:

Lmaoooooo cheesy grin cheesy
You must be uncle zoned tongue
Ripe for wetin, I'm taken biko. angry
Lalasticlala abi you are also taken?
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 9:06pm On Apr 23, 2017
BNew:

Post update na.
This thread don dey die o.
Lol...updated

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by refiner(f): 9:15pm On Apr 23, 2017
I'm taken...guys keep off! undecided

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Omotayor123(f): 9:17pm On Apr 23, 2017
I'm Takengrin tongue

jokes apart, Op is so on point. Ladies let's stop the "Ayam taken" signature even when the guy concern is not showing any signs of proposing marriage.


You will see guys asking out and dating numerous Ladies with the excuse that they want to choose between/among alternatives so as to have the best.

And Ladies do would put these guys on top their headundecided


Let's be wise abeg!cool

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 9:38pm On Apr 23, 2017
Omotayor123:
I'm Takengrin tongue
Ifahia

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by tosyne2much(m): 9:42pm On Apr 23, 2017
Egbon Toks, I need someone who can counter this thread.. I mean "when a guy says, I'm taken" cheesy
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nickymezor(f): 9:45pm On Apr 23, 2017
#Pondering
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Cholls(m): 9:55pm On Apr 23, 2017
darbeelicous:
hehehe..... FTC.... Oya, fire down!

coming back to modify cool
my sister come back here

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by queenbetsy(f): 10:08pm On Apr 23, 2017
Toks2008:

Every lady reading this should wake up and understand that until a man is officially married to you,he can not be trusted in anyway and that a man is even engaged to you does not guaranty marriage.
noted! I just found what I've been seriously looking for...

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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Bbpets(m): 10:13pm On Apr 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Egbon Toks, I need someone who can counter this thread.. I mean "when a guy says, I'm taken" cheesy

Take em by force dat all angry grin
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 10:14pm On Apr 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Egbon Toks, I need someone who can counter this thread.. I mean "when a guy says, I'm taken" cheesy

You hardly hear guys say that...even after marriage lol!

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