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Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by Nobody: 2:00pm On Apr 25, 2017 |
ihaveallpeace: Na wa ooooo Your issue remind me of two of my married friends ..thats exactly what they are going through as well. If they dress well at home , their husband's will flare up and call them prostitutes and lazy beings I wonder what men like this derive in running their wives down? Single ladies shine una eyes well ooo... Then op, keep posting your CVS online and offline.. Place a deaf ears on his insults and try your best at home . But dont relent on getting a job. By Gods grace u will have a good job. Be strong .. |
Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by cococandy(f): 2:33pm On Apr 25, 2017 |
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Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by byvan03: 6:41pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
He said he doesnt want business and you listened to that ? Please what happened to your own mouth ? Better not let anyone define you ,the name you tag yourself is what he will call you.His attitude isnt because you don't have a job but you have tolerated so much that you have become irritating . Docility isn't always a virtue,it gets old and boring fast . Get some steam into your system and be human,enough of the zombie attitude. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by StevensJojo(f): 6:47pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Dyt:im dead. |
Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by baby124: 12:32am On Apr 30, 2017 |
ihaveallpeace:My dear it is obvious your husband has some kind of mental issue plus many other low self esteem problems. I am sorry but who you describe there is an idiot that doesn't deserve any respect or consideration. He obviously cannot add anything positive to your life ever. Since he is cheating on you, I suggest you stop having sex with him. Take time to plan your life and do what pleases you. If it's business, do it and do it well. If it's a job, find a job. But stop getting approval from this man, he has nothing to offer anyone, not even himself. Whatever he calls you is what he thinks of himself. Be proud of yourself and never give anyone the power to run you down. I think you want to stay in this abusive marriage but you have got to start looking out for yourself and being selfish about your life and future. Stop sex with that man. Those girls he's cheating with are also sleeping with several men you know. Don't add insult to injury by getting yourself infected by this low life. You will hate yourself if that happens. When your eyes finally clears on this useless man, you will be angry at yourself that you let someone like him treat you like this. |
Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by Hectarus(m): 2:02am On Apr 30, 2017 |
Your husband is a useless man. With all his ego, skills, experience, connect, ambition and midas' successes, he should be able to pull out his phone and punch some numbers that would strum the strings to your gainful employment. Aren't you his significant other? He's a lippy fool or you're truly lazy.Calling someone else's husband a fool and useless is way beyond your purview and judgement- The Op sought for help and nothing more. Op- save some cash from whatever you can and start something.. Please no woman is safe depending on a man for her daily needs. its very risky in this clime. God bless your home. |
Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by Hectarus(m): 2:13am On Apr 30, 2017 |
baby124:... Honestly this? I doubt it will work. Will you give her money when he begins to starve her? "kolewerk" Op.. where are your ears.. many men respect a woman that earns income no matter how little. The reason he is like that was because you believed him when he asked you not to work or run a business.. He sees himself as the Alpha and Omega. Go out of your comfort zone and make things work. But make sure you ask God for wisdom to handle everything. God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by Nobody: 6:58am On Apr 30, 2017 |
Check if he is cheating on you. |
Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by dominique(f): 7:50am On Apr 30, 2017 |
ihaveallpeace: Ok o, he is not useless. He is very useful at cheating on you and battering your self-esteem. As it is now, there are no jobs for young fresh graduates not to talk of someone who has graduated years ago and never put her degree to use. You might still need to resort to that business lane to empower yourself, not to please your husband. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by maclatunji: 9:01am On Apr 30, 2017 |
ihaveallpeace: This kind of emotional abuse is bad. Does he have someone he respects you can appeal to that can help advice him to be a better man? He might be doing this to justify cheating. By the way, what dignity is there for a 'professional woman' that sleeps around with married men? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by maclatunji: 9:02am On Apr 30, 2017 |
dominique: I agree with the seeking to empower herself part and not being motivated to get back at her husband. |
Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Update: am happy to update my new status and I bless God for the gift of life. Today am happy I now earn in dollars, I don't know how it happened but I know I put in efforts and went online in search of jobs. I know am good at what I do when I was working, I weighed my job knowledge and experience with what is obtainable outa Naija and I see that am pretty good. With this, started applying/sending proposals through a freelancing site, and in no long time I was contacted. To cut the long story short, the client was like can we deal? And am like how? He offered I be there for them to help them develop training packs for their staff and also help in training their staff (pure online). To start with I was paid a good sum I don't believe and that came after just developing one single training pack. Now am on permanent agreement and will also share part of the company profit! I work in the comfort of my home! Lesson: believe in yourself, don't relent, use all the available tools and work on yourself. Most importantly, believe in yourself and believe God for all good things! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Wow, good to read this @ op. You shall not know sadness never again. Now go and start enjoying the fruit of your labour, you deserve it girl. |
Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by seizethaBae(f): 11:35pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
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Re: My Husband Is Too Abusive, I Need To Get A Job by ImaIma1(f): 12:25pm On Jul 03, 2017 |
Acidosis: Exactly!! Focus on making yourself happy. Your husband has his issues that he has to deal with |
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