White wedding

fayahsoul:

I stay ready for the combat while the ignorant are praying and wondering where their God at!

just coz u do not believe in God doesnt mean u should be so insensitive with waeva message u sending 2 odas, i do nt discriminate againt religion or waeva, waeva ur beliefs are are kool by me. . .buh just express ya feelings in a more appreciate manner, ? ya dig?.x

uve gat to respect people for whom dey are and what dey belief. . .do u see me asking u questions why u dnt belief in the Almighty God? nope . .

yh coz u dnt respect urself either. PERIOD

uhmmmmn? neways RESPECT and BELIEFS are two different phrases.
your attitudes and beliefs including u prejudicing against people just because dey belong to a certain religion is freaking bad.

its a personnal choice.

Hi.

I will pick the traditional wedding only anyday, that is what i did, the White wedding is a jamboree, and it is just for showmanship, it is a public display of wealth and to show that your friends that you are married, Truth is both ceremonies are mere symbolism of being married, our foefathers didn't get married in church, and the traditional weddings we see today is been distorted for public display as well,

Adam and Eve did not get married in church and there were no ceremonies, till years later, yet they had kids, I want everyone to realise that everything we have today in societies the world over, evolved over time, they were man made and they became acceptable norms and traditions of the various societies the world over, even the language we speak,

Bottom line here is that NOBODY should be pressurised to get married in church or in the village, if you (both couples) feel that the Registry is best for you,please go ahead and do it Even if it means you have only one witness
no one can claim that you are not married, and you can save your money for training your kids and looking after your home,

I didn't mean to lecture here, but i am very passionate about this topic, and it grieves me to see people suffer because they want to be like the Dangotes, Obasanjo and the Burbank's, PLEASE BE YOURSELF,

I am happily married (traditional) with two kids,

D

I will prefer a traditional wedding becuase that is where my bride price is paid.

J'essaie de vous dire, que vous avez été parti depuis trop longtemps

J'essaie de vous dire, que vous avez été parti depuis trop longtemps

Who be dis again? Dis na special show-off. Na wa o

Na traditional wedding be the koko, have you seen Oyinbo wey do our traditional wedding for there country, you don't know what you have not until you loose it. Ise se lagba

traditional hands downnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

I have done a powerful traditional marriage and court marriage two years ago but my wife still pressurize me to do white wedding because of wedding ring. Please pals,is white wedding so necessary seeing we have two children already?

I think it is up to the couple. If it is important for them to have both, they can have both.

yelum:
BOTH!
BOTH!!
BOTH!!!

Wedding is imported culture. It is a mere ceremony. Customary marriage is the ideal marriage established by God in Africa. The white people were able to tactically incorporate their culture into christianity. We are confuse here in Nigeria. Without customary marriage, you are not married.

Wedding is imported culture. It is a mere
ceremony. Customary marriage is the ideal
marriage established by God in Africa. The white people were able to tactically incorporate their culture into christianity. We are confuse here in Nigeria. Without customary marriage, you are not married.

pisces20:
well for me both are important. when you perform the traditional marriage it means you respect your tradition and performing the white wedding is like inviting God to your marriage because without Him the whole thing'll just flop.

so God's presence is nut in d traditional marriage

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