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How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by ima1(f): 12:19am On Jan 26, 2007 |
How do you open your heart to Love again after being hurt so many times and being cheated on by someone you loved and gave all your heart to. |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Douzy(m): 12:46am On Jan 26, 2007 |
First, take a break from the relationship stuff. Don't be in a rush to rush into another mess, because you would likely be sending out signals that are likely to attract the same type of guys. Try to be comfortable with yourself, with being single (for a while) and enjoy every 'freedom' that comes with that as much as you can afford to. Learn to love yourself for whom you are not for what others make you think you are. Put yourself before everyother. I repeat, "Put yourself before everyother!", no matter how selfish that may sound. Give yourself exotic treatments, if you know what I mean. Reconnect with your old 'good' friends. Learn some new skills. By the time you are ready for another relationship, after the steps above (and some more), you would be able to know what you really want from a relationship right from Day One, and not compromise that much. You would be comfortable with and at peace with yourself that you would not be able to allow any guy to get you twisted. You would know when to say "No" and stand to it. You would know when to say "enough is enough". Finally, remember that you can always try again (and again), for one day you would look back and smile, knowing that each heartbreak had its own lessons making you get better in the dating game. Hence, when your kind of man finally comes around, you would know how to really appreciate him having had a taste of the sour grapes. Some of us must go through these phases. . .pity. Take heart! 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 1:04am On Jan 26, 2007 |
talkative good job |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Douzy(m): 1:11am On Jan 26, 2007 |
Free: Free: Thanks. Just tryna give my two cents. |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 1:22am On Jan 26, 2007 |
yea its obvious |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Douzy(m): 1:33am On Jan 26, 2007 |
Hm. . . Free! |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 1:38am On Jan 26, 2007 |
yes, darling |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Douzy(m): 1:47am On Jan 26, 2007 |
Since when did we start darling each other? |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 1:54am On Jan 26, 2007 |
since i called U darling , |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Douzy(m): 2:01am On Jan 26, 2007 |
Ok, fine. Now, we're hijacking ima1's thread. |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by promise72(m): 2:05am On Jan 26, 2007 |
y'all knock it off. get a room pls |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 2:15am On Jan 26, 2007 |
we already in a room ur disturbing us |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Douzy(m): 2:18am On Jan 26, 2007 |
Lol. . . I'm in trouble. |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 2:24am On Jan 26, 2007 |
why, darling wots da trouble |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Douzy(m): 2:27am On Jan 26, 2007 |
Kidding. Anywayz, gotsta go to bed now. It's almost 2:30am! C ya laterz. . . darling! |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by promise72(m): 2:30am On Jan 26, 2007 |
ill take over from here Real men go all night |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Douzy(m): 2:36am On Jan 26, 2007 |
Eh. . .? Now, I see your gameplan, Promise. . . lol. Well, I'll be waking up once in a while to come and eavesdrop. BTW, real men know that there is time for everything! Good night y'all, and don't give away . . . darling. |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by promise72(m): 2:37am On Jan 26, 2007 |
sorry, she already did. you just found out d difference |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 2:50am On Jan 26, 2007 |
dnt worry darling, i wnt give in to promise I promise |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by promise72(m): 3:01am On Jan 26, 2007 |
that not wat u said few mins ago. u 2 timer |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 3:08am On Jan 26, 2007 |
am sorry am not a 2 timer one at a time |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by promise72(m): 3:23am On Jan 26, 2007 |
ok i can deal with that. however its my turn for the next 5yrs. only me. Nothin on the side |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 3:48am On Jan 26, 2007 |
lol i dnt know bout that ooo |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by promise72(m): 3:52am On Jan 26, 2007 |
well, Look b4 u leap. Dont let me declare u unfit 4 the job. wheres your pic anyway. Remember whos in charge here |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 3:59am On Jan 26, 2007 |
ur funny (u know dat) i dnt take orders , jus so u know |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by promise72(m): 4:13am On Jan 26, 2007 |
ok. kindly forward it then. i never argue wt a lady. i know better still |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 4:20am On Jan 26, 2007 |
am glad u know better so lets leave it there , darling |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by promise72(m): 4:21am On Jan 26, 2007 |
ill b waiting anyway. i know my expectation will match my reality |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 4:26am On Jan 26, 2007 |
wait oooo |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Busta(f): 4:28am On Jan 26, 2007 |
@topic, one way or the other, u'll love again. . i guess ain't the end of the world! |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by Free(f): 4:33am On Jan 26, 2007 |
yea U can love again i guess if da right or left person comes along |
Re: How Do You Love Again After Being Hurt So Many Times by ima1(f): 6:13am On Jan 26, 2007 |
thanks a lot Douzy |
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