A pleasant morning to you all.
please, be patient and read this problem of mine.
I'm in a state of confusion now. I had a rship with my ex, Ada (not real name), for close to 8years. During our relationship, we had lots of issues, including frequent fights and quarrels. After the last fracas, we separated, she even went ahead to tell some of her friends dat we broke up. After sometime, I went to plead for reconciliation, but she didn't bulge (don't know f it was based on feminine ego) . Few days after begging her to come, of which she refused, I met a new gal, Ene(not real name), we kick started immediately, and everything was moving smoothly wit ENE.
Just last week, Ada is back! begging me to allow back. I should remember our 8yrs togda, which is more than the few months i'v spent wit ENE. I made it clear that I can't breakup with ENE, cos she has done nothing wrong and she came in wen we broke up (I and Ada). She has been crying and begging for days now and I don't know Wat to do. Her cries are really getting hold of me. But, I can't leave Ene for her,as I have already committed into my relationship wit Ene
Again, my parents don't like Ada, based on the tins she did during our last fyt. And my mom has been warning me against having her back. To the extent of saying OVER HER DEAD BODY for m to have her back.
Right now, I don't know Wat to do. Can't stand Ada's cries. it's really hurting me.
please, what should I do? Don't wanna make any mistake of my life.

Moderator, please help me move this to fp. I need divergent opinions and advice.
thanks

fúçkiñg allow her back and then fúçking promote her to your blôödyfúçkiñg "FÚÇK MATE"


just keep fûçking her bro---keep fúçking her

Fuckshiit:

fúçkiñg allow her back and then fúçking promote her to your blôödyfúçkiñg "FÚÇK MATE"


just keep fûçking her bro---keep fúçking her

Guy, u harsh ooooo. she may harm me if she discovers that I have been using her as a sex object.
well, tank for the advice

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You are confused
And you are also a lover.
two things!
I'm not understanding

Why are you answering her calls or speaking to her? If you said it was over and you have have moved on then that's what you do. Unless of course you have not moved on? If after 8 years all you did was fight and bicker instead of moving into a more permanent state of your relationship then things were not stable. You already know what you want, you are just seeking validation here. We are mere observers it's you that has to be in that relationship so do what makes you happy.

thebest1210:





Guy, u harsh ooooo. she may harm me if she discovers that I have been using her as a sex object.
well, tank for the advice

how you so fúçkiñg sure she aíñt been fúçking other guys while she fûçkiñg left yo?

This Ur fúçking chance to pay her back..Mâke her yo bitçh...MAN THE FÛÇK UP!


She won't blöödyfûçkiñg find out if yöu don't fûçking let her to

Ur family don't like her and u hate her attitude too..i think these are good signs that u dont wanna be with her anymore..besides i think u already move on


Let her cry , she'll get over it..juz remember that there is no use to go back with her when you both are not in the same page anymore..don't force it if it ain't working...

I didn't read through. . I'm only interested in the ENE

TrapQueen77:



Ur family don't like her and u hate her attitude too..i think these are good signs that u dont wanna be with her anymore..besides i think u already move on


Let her cry , she'll get over it..juz remember that there is no use to go back to her when you both are not in the same page anymore..don't force it if it ain't working...

Tanx for d advice

Countrygirl:
I didn't read through. . I'm only interested in the ENE

Countrygirl:
I didn't read through. . I'm only interested in the ENE

thebest1210:
A pleasant morning to you all.
please, be patient and read this problem of mine.
I'm in a state of confusion now. I had a rship with my ex, Ada (not real name), for close to 8years. During our relationship, we had lots of issues, including frequent fights and quarrels. After the last fracas, we separated, she even went ahead to tell some of her friends dat we broke up. After sometime, I went to plead for reconciliation, but she didn't bulge (don't know f it was based on feminine ego) . Few days after begging her to come, of which she refused, I met a new gal, Ene(not real name), we kick started immediately, and everything was moving smoothly wit ENE.
Just last week, Ada is back! begging me to allow back. I should remember our 8yrs togda, which is more than the few months i'v spent wit ENE. I made it clear that I can't breakup with ENE, cos she has done nothing wrong and she came in wen we broke up (I and Ada). She has been crying and begging for days now and I don't know Wat to do. Her cries are really getting hold of me. But, I can't leave Ene for her,as I have already committed into my relationship wit Ene
Again, my parents don't like Ada, based on the tins she did during our last fyt. And my mom has been warning me against having her back. To the extent of saying OVER HER DEAD BODY for m to have her back.
Right now, I don't know Wat to do. Can't stand Ada's cries. it's really hurting me.
please, what should I do? Don't wanna make any mistake of my life.

Moderator, please help me move this to fp. I need divergent opinions and advice.
thanks

I guess u've already made ur choice when u decided to date Ene... The deed has already been done.... U can't just leave Ene because ur ex is back.. Dats not fair... Just continue the relationship with Ene... Dats my advice tho

LadyJul:
I guess u've already made ur choice when u decided to date Ene... The deed has already been done.... U can't just leave Ene because ur ex is back.. Dats not fair... Just continue the relationship with Ene... Dats my advice tho

Tanx for d advice

Lalasticala, Pls do justice to this Biko!

Raine80:
Why are you answering her calls or speaking to her? If you said it was over and you have have moved on then that's what you do. Unless of course you have not moved on? If after 8 years all you did was fight and bicker instead of moving into a more permanent state of your relationship then things were not stable. You already know what you want, you are just seeking validation here. We are mere observers it's you that has to be in that relationship so do what makes you happy.

Op, i command you to take this advice...avoid her like a plaque....all these igbo girls sef.

You broke up, you begged to have her back and she sternly said NO.
Now you're in a relationship and out of the blue she wants back. It's not rocket science bro. She only feels bad that you moved on. If you take her back, she'll most definitely dump you again