You need to leave her,those scenarios don't just happen,they are spiritual manipulations.

I have tried convince her but she still insist she will not let go, though I am still feeling it sha that is why i want to use diplomatic way to end the relationship

Do u still love her? If u do, then go ahead and marry her. It is normal 4 people to quarrel and get over it. If u still luv her and u are sure she luvs u too, go on and marry her! There are no spiritual nonsense involved. Did Jesus ever tel couples dat they were neva fit for each oda? C'mon, dont let anybody brainwash u. They are not God.

You went to another man to let you know that he spoke with God and God told him you are not meant for each other?

When are you all going to learn that you dont need any man who was born from the womb like you to (except jesus of course) to tell you that God communicates with him more than you. First thing is, you need to develop a relationship with God and then pray on the issue at hand. almost nothing in this life that may or may not be good for us just happens without any advarsity. If you have parents and she has parents your introduction will go smooth just communicate with family so they can help you with what ever difficulties keep coming up.
If you are this scared now because introduction didn't go well imagine how you will feel when you get married and she is mad at you? you will think she is the devil because that's what the man of god will tell you.

2nd opinions are only for doctors

@poster most of these so called pastors act based on wat u tell them.just pray and ask 4 directions 4rm God he is the only one dat can help u,u dnt hav 2 brk up cos of wat one fraudster says.

@topic,i don't believe in all that spiritual man of God nonsense. Do you have any idea how many relationships have been ruined by their interference? How will God give a man of God a 'vision' that my guy and i are not meant to be together? And he didnt give me the vision Himself(which is very unlikely since i dont believe in all that vision/dream crap). What kinda rubbish is that? Don't throw away your relationship because of this. Just because one or two things have happened to prevent both of you from meetin ur parents doesnt mean there's some kinda spiritual problem.

I really love her but the issue is that I don't want to make mistake neither her to still make thesame mistake too, that is why I am afraid becuase the rate of divioce in this country is on the high side.