ayettymama:

its terrible cos your actually a child at that age!

but its associated with poverty and illiteracy to start indulgin in such at young aages

God knows the borough where im from the men are proffesional cherry poppers

bunch of perves!

chiogo:

I get your point but I don't think it deserves a thread. I think being a virgin or not is a personal choice that should be kept to one self.  And the amount of time it's been discussed on this forum is alarming. It's even more annoying when hypocritical males who aren't virgins themselves want to bash non-virgin females. Makes no sense.

Girl846:

Yes Chiogo, its a shame that people (and males in this regard) can be so hypocritical. I believe men and women should be held up to the same sexual standards. Virginity and Non-Virginity are personal decisions and no one should be bashing anyone for their own personal choices. No one is perfect!

H2O2:

@chinchin and her personal sentiments.

Pray tell me if you are also grossly offended by the inundation of intimacy-tales by non-virgins.
Think they should keep it to themselves too? And have you told them to?

mama-gee:

Respect for Virgins ko, respect for non-virgins ni, I mean who cares?

wudd:

i respect them cause they are fawking rare, not that they re extinct but these days good girls act bad cos dem wanna impress society, they are the type that act, look, talk raw and when you get to the battle ring give you the blue-balls, trust me, not all sluts have been popped.

likewise guys,

yimiton:

@ Wuud, I agree with you but my own opinion:

Virgins are respected up to an age. If you're less than 25 and you're a virgin, I think your boyfriend/fiancé feels really good about it but if you're 30 or more, unmarried and you're saying no to your fiancé, even you stop feeling proud and start feeling almost silly and asking yourself 'what the heck!. Meanwhile, u just might end up getting married to a looser who just wants to marry a 'good girl' while u loose out on the really hot guys.

This is not to say it's not cool to remain a virgin before you get married, all I'm saying is if you must remain a virgin until your wedding night, get married at or before 26!

Take it from me, I know what I'm talking about.

yimiton:

@ Wuud, I agree with you but my own opinion:

Virgins are respected up to an age. If you're less than 25 and you're a virgin, I think your boyfriend/fiancé feels really good about it but if you're 30 or more, unmarried and you're saying no to your fiancé, even you stop feeling proud and start feeling almost silly and asking yourself 'what the heck!. Meanwhile, u just might end up getting married to a looser who just wants to marry a 'good girl' while u loose out on the really hot guys.

This is not to say it's not cool to remain a virgin before you get married, all I'm saying is if you must remain a virgin until your wedding night, get married at or before 26!

Take it from me, I know what I'm talking about.

Maneater1:
of course they are still respected.

i definately respect virgins and i'm infact jealous of them.

wish i was still one.

Theres something special about them cos they are al,most extinct in this new society we live in.

For the vigin haters, its not their fault u are a slut.

Girl846:


Yes Chiogo, its a shame that people can be so hypocritical (and many males like to judge non-virgin girls in this regard). I believe men and women should be held up to the same sexual standards. Virginity and Non-Virginity are personal decisions and no one should be bashing anyone for their own personal choices. No one is perfect! God is the judge of all.
However, its a free forum and people should be allowed to create threads about whatever they want. (after all, many people create threads about their s-e-x lives, so virgins should have the same freedom)